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Ahem's anger and frustration stemmed from only one thing - he wanted to show his wife to all his friends as he is so in love with her, while Gopi was concerned for her maaji.
He wanted to introduce her to his friends and share anecdotes about each of them. He wanted to hear opinion and thoughts and watch her interaction with them, especially his friend who invited them. He built great hopes and could have played out in his mind during the day of how her reaction and interaction would be, but it wasn't so.
His venting of his anger was one of love for her, just the same way he had shown to Jigar. When Jigar did not go home on time Ahem and Gopi went looking for him. Gopi remembered the conversation she had and told Ahem that he could be at the mandir. When Ahem found him sitting alone there he shown his anger in his words but his heart reflected his love and concern for his brother. Here too, whilst he verbalised his thoughts in anger his heart was calling out to her for her to be his wife for him.
Whilst he bulleted his thoughts his aggravation escalated, only to realise that she was not there any more to listen to him. His look transformed and reflected what his mind had just realised that he had done more harm than good.
Is it ok to want more from Gopi than what Ahem is getting? Also, as she is there for everyone in his family why cannot she be there for him too?
One thing to note in Ahem and love:
* a spectacular performance from Nazim to note
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Anupamaa
