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Punjab-ka-putter meets Mumbai-chi-pori
"We met each other on the sets of Ekta Kapoor's Ghar Ek Mandir ," says Gautami. "I had been informed in advance that I was being cast opposite this actor, Ram Kapoor who was slated to play the character of Rahul. On the day of the shoot he appears on the set and introduces himself, the formal introductions done with we get down to rehearsals. This guy goes through his lines in a rather drab and boring manner leaving no chance for understanding or interpretation. I feel really sorry for his lack of talent. Minutes later, without any visible expression on his face, he steps in front of the camera and when the camera rolls, he delivers an extremely powerful performance that leaves me stunned and tremendously impressed."
As different as day and night
Falling in love was a slow and gradual process for the couple that started off as colleagues. "I was attracted to her because she was so different," says Ram. "Despite having divergent personalities we were able to find common ground between us. Even though we are poles apart we have the same goals in life and that's what brought us together," he adds. For Gautami, the reasons for falling in love were aplenty. "His sense of humor and a unique ability to make everyone around him very comfortable left me mesmerised. Ram has a lot of shades to him; he is a frank, broad-minded and a supportive human being."
Hey Ram!
Love works in mysterious ways often forcing us to do wonderful things for the ones we love. For Gautami, one of the biggest revelations in her relationship is the fact that Ram is in every sense 'romantic'. "It's not the big things that really matter," she beams, "it's the little things that make your relationship really worth it. I remember this one time he sent me a huge card saying 'Hundred reasons why I love you' early in the morning. The milkman and the card reached my place simultaneously. Once, at the end of a tough day of my shooting, Ram showed up on the location just out-of-the-blue and we drove up to Lonavala for a wonderful stay at a five-star hotel," says Gautami.
Battling fears
"Subconsciously, we both knew that this wonderful relationship will end up in marriage," informs Ram. "We knew we were in love and battled every fear that any couple has before taking the plunge," he says. Gautami, on the other hand had no fears, whatsoever. "I knew this relationship was for keeps, the only thing left was to give it new meaning," she affirms.
The proposal
Following age-old traditions, it was Ram who initiated the proposal for marriage... in a rather unconventional way. "We were at a wild party at Olive the night I proposed to her. I didn't propose to her the way they do it on television; it was just a simple - let's get married and she accepted. Even though we were a little tipsy, I knew what I was doing. I couldn't have been drunk as I remembered the incident next morning and was even happier that I had asked her to be my wife," reminisces Ram.
Family in tow
When a Punjabi boy decides to marry aMaharashtrian girl there is not only an amalgamation of culture but also a definite reaction from the families. In their case, there was an instant, not unexpected reaction. "My mother and brother freaked out when they got to know my wedding plans. However, in due course of time they agreed," says Gautami. "I have to give full credit to my family for supporting my decision to marry Gautami," says Ram. "They knew the pluses and minuses of my relationship and gave me their blessings and their much-needed support."
"We met each other on the sets of Ekta Kapoor's Ghar Ek Mandir ," says Gautami. "I had been informed in advance that I was being cast opposite this actor, Ram Kapoor who was slated to play the character of Rahul. On the day of the shoot he appears on the set and introduces himself, the formal introductions done with we get down to rehearsals. This guy goes through his lines in a rather drab and boring manner leaving no chance for understanding or interpretation. I feel really sorry for his lack of talent. Minutes later, without any visible expression on his face, he steps in front of the camera and when the camera rolls, he delivers an extremely powerful performance that leaves me stunned and tremendously impressed."
As different as day and night
Falling in love was a slow and gradual process for the couple that started off as colleagues. "I was attracted to her because she was so different," says Ram. "Despite having divergent personalities we were able to find common ground between us. Even though we are poles apart we have the same goals in life and that's what brought us together," he adds. For Gautami, the reasons for falling in love were aplenty. "His sense of humor and a unique ability to make everyone around him very comfortable left me mesmerised. Ram has a lot of shades to him; he is a frank, broad-minded and a supportive human being."
Hey Ram!
Love works in mysterious ways often forcing us to do wonderful things for the ones we love. For Gautami, one of the biggest revelations in her relationship is the fact that Ram is in every sense 'romantic'. "It's not the big things that really matter," she beams, "it's the little things that make your relationship really worth it. I remember this one time he sent me a huge card saying 'Hundred reasons why I love you' early in the morning. The milkman and the card reached my place simultaneously. Once, at the end of a tough day of my shooting, Ram showed up on the location just out-of-the-blue and we drove up to Lonavala for a wonderful stay at a five-star hotel," says Gautami.
Battling fears
"Subconsciously, we both knew that this wonderful relationship will end up in marriage," informs Ram. "We knew we were in love and battled every fear that any couple has before taking the plunge," he says. Gautami, on the other hand had no fears, whatsoever. "I knew this relationship was for keeps, the only thing left was to give it new meaning," she affirms.
The proposal
Following age-old traditions, it was Ram who initiated the proposal for marriage... in a rather unconventional way. "We were at a wild party at Olive the night I proposed to her. I didn't propose to her the way they do it on television; it was just a simple - let's get married and she accepted. Even though we were a little tipsy, I knew what I was doing. I couldn't have been drunk as I remembered the incident next morning and was even happier that I had asked her to be my wife," reminisces Ram.
Family in tow
When a Punjabi boy decides to marry aMaharashtrian girl there is not only an amalgamation of culture but also a definite reaction from the families. In their case, there was an instant, not unexpected reaction. "My mother and brother freaked out when they got to know my wedding plans. However, in due course of time they agreed," says Gautami. "I have to give full credit to my family for supporting my decision to marry Gautami," says Ram. "They knew the pluses and minuses of my relationship and gave me their blessings and their much-needed support."
Wedding vows
After almost three years of acquaintance they stepped into marriage. Though, Ram and Gautami, both wanted a small private ceremony, their families decided otherwise. The small and private wedding that they had hoped for turned into an event that lasted three days celebrated in some of Mumbai's most luxurious venues. "We had the mehendi-sangeet at Mela the previous day. The main wedding ceremony was at Mayfair rooms followed by an informal party at The President. On the third day was the grand reception for which my father had booked 46 rooms at The Oberoi Hotel for family and friends who came to attend the wedding from the US."
The first day...
"Gautami was all excited the day after the wedding and was hyperactive. When we reached Hotel Oberoi after a hectic day we were surprised to see the most expensive suite in the hotel, the 'Peshwa suite' overlooking Marine Drive booked for us. The whole of next morning was spent with family and close friends," says Ram.
After almost three years of acquaintance they stepped into marriage. Though, Ram and Gautami, both wanted a small private ceremony, their families decided otherwise. The small and private wedding that they had hoped for turned into an event that lasted three days celebrated in some of Mumbai's most luxurious venues. "We had the mehendi-sangeet at Mela the previous day. The main wedding ceremony was at Mayfair rooms followed by an informal party at The President. On the third day was the grand reception for which my father had booked 46 rooms at The Oberoi Hotel for family and friends who came to attend the wedding from the US."
The first day...
"Gautami was all excited the day after the wedding and was hyperactive. When we reached Hotel Oberoi after a hectic day we were surprised to see the most expensive suite in the hotel, the 'Peshwa suite' overlooking Marine Drive booked for us. The whole of next morning was spent with family and close friends," says Ram.
Honeymoon in Bangkok
"We went to Casa Moi, a small island near Bangkok for our honeymoon," informs Gautami. "We partied continuously for six days, and it's a really beautiful place." Ram adds a pointer to help us relate to the beauty and tourism potential of the island. "Have you seen this film called The Beach starring Leonardo Di Caprio? Casa Moi is the island where the whole film was shot."
A proud Mrs. Ram Kapoor
Working in an industry where personal identity is important, Gautami feels that her marriage isn't going to change her on-screen individuality. "I feel very proud when I'm referred to as Mrs. Ram Kapoor but I refuse to believe that it will affect my individuality or my identity. My marriage hasn't affected my career in any way," she affirms. For the couple-in-love the on-screen chemistry will be better than ever before. "The chemistry now will be deeper, more intense. I would like to direct her in future, since I know her strengths so well. Right now, I'm going to concentrate on acting but eventually I will turn to direction," confesses Ram.
An actress for a wife
Marriage is all about love, togetherness and adjustment. Being of different personality traits, both Ram and Gautami have had their share of adjustments. As husband and wife, they have learnt to respect each other's personal preferences and learnt to work around them. "To tell you the truth, I never wanted to have an actress for a wife and Gautami knew that very well. So, after marriage she quit and spent time at home while I continued working. Amidst my heavy workload, I began to see a marked change in her; she was bored and had reached a point of unhappiness. So I had to allow her to continue working," says Ram. Gautami on her part, admits, "the biggest adjustment I had to make was to tolerate his smoking-habit. He says he will leave the day he wants to and I've learnt to respect that."
For Gautami, her husband and marriage are a priority and she is willing to make sacrifices for it. "We have always wanted children and I'm willing to give up work for my family. I want my child to be an all-rounder and give him my undivided attention."
Ingredients of a happy marriage
Gautami lists some of the essential qualities that make a successful marriage. "I guess communication, trust and love play an important part in our lives. Another important aspect of any good relationship is not taking your partner for granted and being there for him when he really needs you," she rounds off.
A toast to the future
What does the future have in store for this wonderful couple? "I'm going to continue acting, am also looking towards parallel cinema and setting up a production house," informs Ram. "Our immediate plans include buying a new house and starting a family within the next year," they say in total agreement.
"We went to Casa Moi, a small island near Bangkok for our honeymoon," informs Gautami. "We partied continuously for six days, and it's a really beautiful place." Ram adds a pointer to help us relate to the beauty and tourism potential of the island. "Have you seen this film called The Beach starring Leonardo Di Caprio? Casa Moi is the island where the whole film was shot."
A proud Mrs. Ram Kapoor
Working in an industry where personal identity is important, Gautami feels that her marriage isn't going to change her on-screen individuality. "I feel very proud when I'm referred to as Mrs. Ram Kapoor but I refuse to believe that it will affect my individuality or my identity. My marriage hasn't affected my career in any way," she affirms. For the couple-in-love the on-screen chemistry will be better than ever before. "The chemistry now will be deeper, more intense. I would like to direct her in future, since I know her strengths so well. Right now, I'm going to concentrate on acting but eventually I will turn to direction," confesses Ram.
An actress for a wife
Marriage is all about love, togetherness and adjustment. Being of different personality traits, both Ram and Gautami have had their share of adjustments. As husband and wife, they have learnt to respect each other's personal preferences and learnt to work around them. "To tell you the truth, I never wanted to have an actress for a wife and Gautami knew that very well. So, after marriage she quit and spent time at home while I continued working. Amidst my heavy workload, I began to see a marked change in her; she was bored and had reached a point of unhappiness. So I had to allow her to continue working," says Ram. Gautami on her part, admits, "the biggest adjustment I had to make was to tolerate his smoking-habit. He says he will leave the day he wants to and I've learnt to respect that."
For Gautami, her husband and marriage are a priority and she is willing to make sacrifices for it. "We have always wanted children and I'm willing to give up work for my family. I want my child to be an all-rounder and give him my undivided attention."
Ingredients of a happy marriage
Gautami lists some of the essential qualities that make a successful marriage. "I guess communication, trust and love play an important part in our lives. Another important aspect of any good relationship is not taking your partner for granted and being there for him when he really needs you," she rounds off.
A toast to the future
What does the future have in store for this wonderful couple? "I'm going to continue acting, am also looking towards parallel cinema and setting up a production house," informs Ram. "Our immediate plans include buying a new house and starting a family within the next year," they say in total agreement.
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