I LOVE BANI, I DON'T LOVE BANI...........

OK guys, I saw a whole lot of you guys vent out your frustration here, so here I am too! 😊 Very very sad after seeing today's episode..well, I have a feeling that's how its gonna be for the next few days/weeks..

Well, we all can forget about Bani's confession now, after all the PR fiasco..and knowing Jai, he won't confess to bani, especially after what she's said to him, that she hates him and will never forgive him..

In a way, what Pia said, from her point of view, is valid. She, or for that matter, nobody knows how jai-bani's relationship has developed in the past few days. I wonder, though, how did Pia know about Bani having been consumed with alcohol, and how did she conclude that thats the night when the baby was made?? (if I look into the bloopers, I can point out atleast two of them at the hospital alone..one is the doc calling maasi as "maasi"..when did she ever become his maasi now, or rather, how did he know this is Jai Walia's "maasi"? And today when Pia asks that nurse about Bani, she says, "aap maasi banne wali hai"..now how did the nurse know that she is Bani's sis? 😕 Anyways, those r all petty ignorable things..

Back to what I was saying..yeah, so how the hell does Pia assume that Jai and Bani don't love each other and that her Bani didi would never surrender herself and that she had been manipulated by Jai? On one hand she herself says that Bani didi wud surrender herself only to the one she loves, then why cant she try to understand that maybe there is a remote chance that her didi has fallen in love with Jai? Did'nt she see her didi giving all those looks to her Jiju, and singing that song of confession to Jai in front of everyone at the wedding? And did'nt she see Jai thanking Bani and in a way acknowledging and accepting their marriage in front of the whole family during the wedding?

How does Pia know what happens (or does not happen) between Jai and Bani in their bedroom? How can she be so confident that they still share a platonic relationship inside those doors?? Can't it be possible that maybe they both are living as husband and wife in the true sense now?? Didnt she see how they both danced together to the song kuch na kaho and how they were looking at each other during the entire wedding??

And lastly, she has no right to talk abt aborting the baby..thats totally not her call..she has every right to voice her anger on Jai, but thats it! OK, agreed that as far as the rest of the family r concerned, these 2 are just in an adjustment marriage for maasi's sake, and they r gonna get separated as soon as maasi leaves..but can't things change? Are all these folks so dumb that they cant see the changes that has occured between jai and bani's behaviour towards each other in the past few days??

I am very mad at Jai for not expressing himself properly even for once..okay, when Pia was accusing him of all those things and talking abt their divorce, he said that theirs was not a relation of love, but atleast he could've indicated that he now intends or wishes to maintain this marriage and not break it or something along those lines, so that atleast Pia understands where he stands and stops her blabber..and why the hell is he still referring to that night as a "mistake"?!! 😡 C'mon Jai, your wife whom u love very very much, has conceived as a result of that romantic night, that was one night when I would say both of you were in your senses..

I am also angry with Pia for trying to meddle too much into her Di's life..and I am generally disappointed with KS for making me feel sooo sad..so I just wanted to vent out my frustration here..sorry guys if i bored u..I just wanted to let it all out..now am feeling a bit better..😃😃

Okay..frustration over, let me end my post with a positive note..we all know that no serial can go on in a sugary-sugary way forever..there's bound to be some bitterness, some ups and downs, some sad episodes too..as far as Jai-Bani relation is concerned, it has hit rockbottom I guess (I hope!), now they can only go up from here..or so I wish to think at this point!! So we just have to bear with a few more depressing and heartbreaking episodes..just give it about 2-3 weeks, by then Bani will come out of her daze, start to think straight, set her sis straight concerning the abortion idea and hopefully Jai will also end the "I love Bani, I dont love bani, I love Bani, I dont love bani......." dilemma and come to a conclusion with himself, and start making it clear to the others as well!! Till then, its gonna be like this for a while I guess...but after that, remember, there will be sunshine again!!! 👍🏼

Well Dhruvie...let me be the first to tell you I think Pia's self-obsession is absolutely ANNOYING! 😡 I mean if she came out of her Pia land she'd realise that there's more to Jai and Bani's relationship than just her! She might be the reason they got together in the first place but nothing beyond that! Her meddling in their lives is a little much and I agree it was disheartening to see that Jai didn't just get up and give Pia the thrashing that she deserved! 😡 Pia's concern for her sis is valid but her decision-making has got to stop! I'm guessing that Bani's gonna refute Pia's reasoning and hopefully bring her back to earth so we can at least witness Jai's relief briefly!

u r so riteeeeeee!!
i just hope that soon jai confess his love for bani 😭 😳

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hey dhruvie i was waiting for this for a long time.....thank god that your frustration is out now.....

I do not agree Pia meddling at all in Jai Banis life.....not at all....Its her mistake that they landed together but thats it.....with what big mouth is she lecturing jai ? I was surprised that Jai even listened to her saying everything.....Bani ko to har bat par tokta tha Jai then why not now ?

I agree that it is going to be this sad for sometime now....but i want atleast a confrontation between Jai and Bani now....ofcourse there would not be love but atleast Bani should now speak and talk her mind out....be it vent on Jai or anger or hatred .... just get that out rather than living in this daze. This silence is disturbing and hope it is not silence before the storms.....

I was majorly surprised by Jigs reaction.....God I thought she hated the three sisters....but there is much more to it than hating the sisters....Its Jais wealth ???? How can a sister be that selfish 😡 Jai bhaiyya ke baad sari jaydad to tumhari aur sahil ki hi hai......god this lady...how i hate her...and how well she does her part !!

Thats it about my frustration !!!

I fully agree with you on this Dhurvie! More than Pia, its Jai who is bugging me with his attitude! If he really loves and cares for Bani and his child, then why the hell couldn't he give one tight slap to Pia and tell her to keep out of his life and out of his house? The fact that he listened to Pia indicates his guilt and also the fact that he is still confused regarding Bani! Why should Jai's love be based on the fact that Bani loves him or not? His love is only his love, whether Bani loves him back or not should be a deterrant......But for Jai, his Ego is far bigger than his Heart and until and unless he is sure that Bani also loves him equally, he will never confess to her, even if he has to die wallowing in misery without his wife!

Coming back to Pia, I agree she is nothing more than an interfering little twit, but what she said yesterday, was not entirely wrong! Jai kept talking about the divorce, about leaving Bani, even after they had consummated their marriage......If all Jai wanted to do was to leave Bani, then he shouldn't have gone all the way with her.....Jai's love has suddenly come to the fore only after he got to know about Bani's pregnancy.....I know I am going to get brickbats for this, but it is a fact! Jai might have been in love with Bani earlier also, but he is now deserpate for her to stay back, only cause she is carrying his Child!

All in all, Bani will never agree to an abortion, because she is still clear in her mind that whatever happened between Jai and her was not wrong in any sense...She might not say this to Pia, but she will tell her that the child is not be to blamed for its Parent's fault! That should make Jai happy, I guess!

I am disappointed by Jai's attitude towards the whole issue.....I loved the way he tried to talk to Bani on Friday and trying to mend fences, but yesterday, his whole confrontation scene with Pia showed him as a very selfish and self-possessed person, who could only think of justifying his stand, to hell with everything else!

Cheers,

MT

same here...i also fully agreee with u guysss

Guys.....its just a moment that is required for the marriage to be consummated......its not that they decided and did anything...it just happened.....

I agree that Jais feelings for Bani should not depend on anything....and he better acknowledge it fast....but when you all say that Pia is right abt acussing jai with all that....then i think it is not her call....it is between Jai and Bani....Its a different story if Bani blames Jai for that night....I do not think anyone else has any right to interfere....Be it Jigs or Pia....thats not their direction !!

Originally posted by: pmtwist

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I was majorly surprised by Jigs reaction.....God I thought she hated the three sisters....but there is much more to it than hating the sisters....Its Jais wealth ???? How can a sister be that selfish 😡 Jai bhaiyya ke baad sari jaydad to tumhari aur sahil ki hi hai......god this lady...how i hate her...and how well she does her part !!

Thats it about my frustration !!!

Yeah forgot to mention that part of the episode!! Who knew Jigyasa's love for her Jai bhaiya is all only for his wealth!!??😡😡😡 This lady is more dangerous and evil than she appears to be!! I won't be surprised if she and Ranveer try to play some dirty tricks to get Bani have a miscarriage, so that her Jai Bhaiya's heir is not born! and then make sure that 19th June does'nt happen again..The way she said "is umar mein yeh bachcha.....kitni mehnat ki thi na hum dono ne........" pure evil!!!!!!!

Agreed Pmtwist, Pia is a nobody to take a call in her sister and brother-in-law's life, considering she was the root cause of all that happened! But what I am saying is that, Jai should have been the one to shut up Pia and get her thrown out of his house...If he can slap his own sister for calling his child illegitimate, then why the hell can't he slap his sister's wife for telling him that she will get the child aborted?

Why is Jai so confused regarding his emotions for Bani? I had mentioned it before also, Jai does not react to people, he reacts to situations, unlike Bani, who reacts to people and not to situations! The only time Bani reacted to a situation was regarding the Park Road incident truth came to light!

One day Jai tells Bani that he sees her in his every relationship, the next day he tells Pia that he knows Bani and he don't share a relationship of love but rather of compromise! Arre, how can Jai say something like this, when he has not only realized but actually told Bani what he feels for her.......

It is Jai who needs to clear his head and the confusion within and get his priorities right......Pia is nothing, neither was Jai affected by what she said to him yesterday, nor is Bani going to be affected by what she will tell her today!

Don't want to blast off Cuddles, but he is acting like a first class jerk now! 😡

Cheers,

MT

You guys broke down brilliantly the inconsistencies and the frustrations that today's epi brought out!

MT, you had us respond to a Q&A short while back about whether or not we though that Jai loved Bani, regardless of whether she was pregnant or not. Or maybe thats how the answers leaned... but it seems we were wrong? How could we have all been so wrong? We totally misread all the plot lines... the creatives have muddled it again. It would seem consistent if despite his confusion, he was in love, and admitted it. THis wishy washiness is horrible!!! Kyaa yaar! No time to have shades of grey!

And Pia! Twit! Just bugger off and go deal with your gharelu mamale!

Dhruvie... 2-3 weeks.... I think I might just throw the remote at the TV! I know.. get a life.. but its hard when its a strong addiction!

MT... does your Khabari have any good news to impart? Other than the fact that B will vehemently oppose the abortion...? any hope at all for these to reunite, sooner than later...?

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