Your Opinion On An Older Marriage? - Page 3

Originally posted by: irvngpalmshec

agree.

in fact, i do think age matters. esp over time...as time goes on, it starts to show. early on u r infatuated by the person and u dont realize many differences, but after a while when u have to lead ur life together, it's important that both involved share good understanding and the willingness to work it out. and i think w/ a generation gap that understanding might sometimes be defined differently. however much one says that generation gap doesnt exist, i think it only rarely happens. in little things...the outlook of a generation varies.

and also, when u marry someone, u wanna lead all ur life w/ the person...ALL ur life....and if u marry someone 20-30yrs older than u, half their life is over....how long is the remaining journey?

but then....there are always exceptions. sometimes u do find ur true love in someone who's much older than u. the above points are all thought from the brain....a lot of times the heart refutes them all and does what it wants.

Yup totally agree...the heart and brain very raraly get along with each other😆 That's why spilt second decisions are not encouraged. Veer should consider using his brain for once and not take everything Anu does as 'love'. Also, i knw that it's part of Anu's personality to be nice to everyone in the world, but i think she sholud be careful abt wht she says and does for a person. Cuz i mean this is the reason Veer thinks this way. Cuz Anu was very nice to him and believed him and even came bk for him. Anyone would be fooled to taking it the wrong way especially if they already like the other person.😃

that's why sometimes anu gets on my nerves! my friend who also watches this show was saying that in one of the episodes it looked like she was flirting w/ veer! i mean...we know that she's not thinking abt it like that, but she defly is giving too much attn and care to veer, which is sending wrong signals.

In a way, Veer is not really to be blamed cuz he wanted love (he never really got love...tulika didnt love him really...she only cared for money, isiliye toh itni asaani se she dumped him and went away w/ nikhil) and anu has been there giving him the care and "love" he craved for. Veer needs to think logically and look at other perspectives than just his own...and anu needs to realize what she's doing and how her gestures are being perceived. it's good to be helpful, but then u end up actually hurting the person if u're not careful abt the vague line b/w f/ship and love.