26/4 Dragon Club: Bum Bum Bole :p

I understood Yash does not hv any parenting problem ..His views regarding Parenting comes from his own experience 😊..The way he is brought up by Scindias ,he is using the same experience for his kids too in terms of parvarrish and discipline 😊 ..he is born and brought up in a OCD type family which follows their daily routine like a time table ...wake up on time ...eat on time ..sleep on time ...do everything on time 😆... This is how Daddy and Mommy Scindia hv brought up everyone in the family and even the Bahus of the family r asked to do the same

So Vidhi is already following this military rule and she too has become a chalti phirti time table asking kids to sleep on time ,drink milk on time ..dont watch tv at night 😆 ... This is irritating Pankaj now because he is already bored of following this regular time table of the house ...Pankaj has entered his mid life crisis where he just got fed up with the military rule and wants to hv some fun in life but he is not getting the support of his wife because his wife is too much under the ongoing military rule influence of the family 😆😆...

Pratik and Paridi also sort of stay out from this regular time table and so both r quite carefree right now enjoying the kissy phase 😉😆

But Yash is still following the time table and rules of his parents and doing the same with PayPal too which we saw in the last scene when Yash strictly asked the kids to go and sleep on time and also refused the garden plan of Aarti next day in the name of manners and discipline 😡 ... Basically Yash is seeing everything from his parents ka POV for whom this entire house should run with a certain set of time table and rules ..

Today PayPal did nothing wrong but were just doing usual masti like young kids and all they said was that they will sleep after some time 😕,..But Yash blasts them for this little thing and then he expects that sending them to random classes will make them social and like other normal kids when in the house itself they r not given the permission to play like normal kids 😆😆...

Aarti watched it all like a silent spectator and she is trying to understand the basic problem of this house and Yash 😉...She knows that there is no point in arguing with Yash because he has become like his parents and cannot see anything beyond discipline and perfection 😆..So Aarti is trying to make him see the other side of life in her own way now like when Yash was saying that sleep wala phrase with PayPal , we saw Aarti completing the phrase in the end along with Ansh thus indicating that its the togetherness of all five of them which will make a complete perfect happy family 😳😳😳

As per Gayatri and Daaddy Scindia , when Arpita was there ,she was fine with these rules ..and this makes me believe that Arpita from inside was not really happy in such a military rule atmosphere and mayb her death was out of boredom and suffocation ..She might hv tried to change Yash and in those flashback scenes it looks like she did succeed a bit in changing Yash as well but she could not change the lifestyle of Scindia mansion and mayb one day she just got fed up and fell sick of it ...But What Arpita could not do , I feel Aarti will do it 😳...She will not only change this OCD nature of Yash but she will also end this military rule in the house with the help of her soldiers like Pankaj and Pratik-Paridi who r themselves fed up of this daily time table 😉...

This Current track reminds me of Shammi Kapoor and Saira Banu movie Junglee 😆😆😆...In that movie Shammi kapoor ka character was a OCD---all perfect ,rules and manners obsessed guy 😆 ...he does not know how to laugh ..always had a sad or angry face ..same like Yash 😆...People called him junglee because of his OCD nature 😆...Saira banu ka character transforms him into a normal human being who can enjoy a normal life with fun ,love and humour ...Aarti will do the same I feel 😳..So we might see the transformation of Yash from a OCD to a fun loving carefree type guy who can enjoy life to the fullest all thanks to Aarti 😳😳

Actually such type of rules and time tables r followed in mostly joint families to make sure that things r not messed up as in a joint family one has to handle so many people together on a daily basis which is not easy and so if u dont follow a prper time table ,then the house will become a railway platform or a fish market 😆 ... I feel this is the point Gayu was trying to make to Aarti but her words were too much like typical Saas types 😆..Daddy Scindia was more polished with his explanation of a joint family rules which is valid 😉..

But what they r not realising is ,kids dont understand all this time table much ..they want to b like free birds at a particular age and if they r tied up with such strict discipline without any fun element ,then it can kill their childhood completely resulting in kids growing up as big OCD type personalities like Yash 😆...This is where Aarti and Yash needs to find a solution and strike a proper balance of discipline and freedom in the house for the sake of their kids ka future 😳😳😳

The last scene where Ansh decides to teach a lesson to his OCD father was really very funny the way he puts that pin on sofa which pricks Yash ka bum ...goshhh such a painful sight 😆😆...But these type of small moments will help Yash in coming out of his OCD perfectionist mode and enjoy life with a smile 😃...I can see Aarti and Ansh transforming Yash soon into a bindaas father thanks to such bumbastic plansss and kissy fiascos 😆😆😆😆😆

For the first time in a long time, I had issues with today's episode. I thought Yash's behaviour sort of justified the argument from yesterday rather than the argument articulating Yash's behaviour. I wish they had put a little more effort into the history of Yash-PayPal before the wedding, or even any time before this argument, because this scene felt a bit out of context to me. I also didn't like that Yash walked away from the argument without a justification for why he thought Aarti was wrong...and what is more, he left her to the wolve---I mean his parents' mercy. Aarti needs to learn to read her audience before she opens her mouth, though I agree with her sentiment.

I did like what SP said to Gayatri about her saaspan and her not having any respect left with her bahus. It was funny that Gayatri totally didn't get the point. She just sort of gave him a textbook, "I'll do better next time" but we all know she won't because she never understood the gist of his claim in the first place. I love how MCP Casanova was feeling all self important for knowing the right way to deal with his wayward bahu...and how the "right way" involved saying horrid, misogynistic things with a silky soft voice and a creepy smile. God.

Aarti and Prateek were adorable! I see an alliance forming there not to far from now and it is pleasant to think that Aarti has someone to put a smile on her face and love her for who she is. I also thought it was interesting that Aarti wiped the lipstick off his face with her pallu, echoing her speech earlier about childhood. She clearly sees Prateek as a child and her overflowing mamta, as articulated by Yash's daadi comes out in full force to protect him from harm (aka Papa Scindia's wrath). Prateek is also the only constantly fun element in the girls' lives at this point and so I hope he and Paridhi help Aarti bring Yash around to being a little more relaxed.

I give Pankaj full credit. He is unhappy with his and Vidhi's relationship and he is expressing it to her in any way he can. First he tried to make things better himself but when she didn't bite the bait he had to switch to a harder way. I am so glad to see a man who is communicating rather than allowing a distance to form by not doing so. He may be angry and frustrated but he is taking it all out on Vidhi, who is the person it is meant for and not anybody else, nor is he trying to find his fix some other way. He is committed to making this marriage work but not at the cost of happiness and Vidhi absolutely needs to meet him half way. What I loved about the scene with the kids was that Vidhi was unreasonable and far too overbearing for kids of that age, but Pankaj, who could have easily done so, did not undermine her authority, nor does he show his displeasure with her decision. Whatever their problems, the kids are not privy to them and they are a united front as a parental unit.

In contrast to the experienced duo of Pankaj and Vidhi, AarYa were a hot mess today. Each one was undermining the other's authority at every turn and this is the perfect formula for making kids manipulative as they detect the slightest inconsistencies. Aarti was not wrong in saying they could play for few more minutes, that is a reasonable bargain and kids will often listen better if they are given some leeway and incentive. But she shouldn't have contradicted Yash's demand. Similarly, Yash shouldn't have said no to Aarti's park plan when she was clearly hinting at how good it would be for them and how excited they were.

Now it seems even clearer that the problem with PayPal is Yash. What he fails to understand is the moments when discipline should take a back seat because something more important is happening. PayPal were bonding with Ansh, a kid of their own age, they were making jokes and horsing around. This is what he wanted but he is too overcome by his OCD and his discipline to see that. I guess Yash has trouble perceiving things that are not cause and effect. Since he has set out to solve the problem of PayPal's issues, he cannot accept the idea of them solving themselves!

Also he created a barrier by only addressing PayPal when he was talking about manners. Aarti was doing some serious damage control to make her and Ansh seem like a part of the family unit, like when she chimed "wise". I understand Yash is weary from his last attempt at disciplining Ansh but what he did today excluded him and addressed only his daughters, that too harshly. So they will get the idea that socialising/joking = naraz papa. Can you blame the tots for their reticence/?

Finally to the precap. I thought it was interesting apart from the whole humour thing that Ansh seems to have a real problem with the kissy idea while PayPal do not. I think they don't really feel a lack of a mother but they do feel a lack of companion for their father as they are witness to his grief so they have no problem with their dad getting a new wife to make him happy. Ansh on the other hand is not looking for a companion for his mother. He is looking for a papa, and that is it. i think this is why he came back for the car, he didn't really want it but I think wanted to make sure Yash wasn't making a move on his mom. Something about that idea did not sit well with Ansh, he did not bargain for another man getting kissies from his mumma and I think he is getting possessive, hence the asset attack.