why is it a dil

Can never be a daughter in her sausral ? Ysterday I watched
Gopi invited her husbands ex into her home and it took me
Back to the to when I was newly married although I never lived
With my mil like the rest of the dils of the house , a similiar thing
Happened to me , I know I shuld not have minded but it hurts like
Hell when ur inlaws can't respect ur role in their sons life .with my
Mil she invited the ex and her mother for lunch a few tyms on the
Weekends knowing we only went there during the weekends.
To say it was uncomfortable is understatement but too see my mil
Fawn all over the ex with the rest of her dils was a stab to the heart.
I can understand her indifference to me was cos I was from a different
Religion and my husband insisted on marrying me even though she
Never approved but y not accept ur dil and do wot u would do for ur
Daughter . Looking at Ahem ysterday I was disappointed cos he could
Have taken Gopi away on an excuse to explain the situation (I know he
Thinks she doesn't know anita but he was caught in a compromising
With this girl). At least my hubby took me away declaring later over the
Phone to his mom that unless she respects and excepts the fact that I
His wife and his choice then we will never visit again. I am living proof that
U always carry the pain of that insult that is y 20 years later I can still cry
When Gopi was dealt the same blow. The first I went to for comfort was my
Mom without her knowing what happened I got the healing in her arms but
Who does Gopi go to , the mother she loves has given no regard to her feelings.

taniks. i really understand this pain of yours.
this is why i cant see gopi suffering and have stopped watching the show.
a dil can be a daughter only if it pleases the mil.
i m the youngest of three. when married i was promised that we will live alone, but certain things happened and my in laws stayed with me. every day i cook do eveything and run for work still they used to praise only the other two who never looked at them or took care of them.
same here.
koki says she sees gopi as her daughter but she is never one.
she did not understand the pain gopi will go through
as for aham im getting disgusted with him with every passing day.
it is high time gopi leave this mad mansion and starts a life of her own. now she had education atleast she can manage by herself.

I can only imagine how hard it was for u, u are right in those situation u need ur loved ones but gopi has no shoulder to cry on. The only person she thought of a mother is the one who's insulting her like that.

Shruthi they take u for granted , with although I am the youngest dil they never wanted me in their house cos I was hindu and they christians and my mil living with her other six dils never stopped me from doing my duty and caring for them. In front of family especially mine is wud say I am like her daughter but when it comes down to it ur own flesh and blood is just that. Some mil can only nuture in that which is conceived in their wombs . Gopi being the woman she is like us will accept this insult and bury it and do her duty by her mil and husband.

I am sorry taniks that you had to go through that..

its really sad such things

but before we go deep into blaming Koki ji, lets take a step back and think, though Koki did take this decision like a rampaging righteous obsessed mega-woman

this could lead up to some KK revelations, At least Koki is most likely going to get thoughts at how come GOpi knows? And based on her character, Koki will surely become more alert, and want to find out more. . . and who knows when she catches Ahem on laptop/ a possibility is that AHem will lie again, and be saved, but Koki might want to talk to Ahem about "How come Gopi knows everything about Anita?", also making Ahem realise some stuff...

I am hopefuly, for this, but as usuall, I have completely no hope in the writers of this serial anymore, I just feel horrible, and the storyline feels stale honestly. . they need to get back to track soon, I hope

Originally posted by: taniks

Shruthi they take u for granted , with although I am the youngest dil they never wanted me in their house cos I was hindu and they christians and my mil living with her other six dils never stopped me from doing my duty and caring for them. In front of family especially mine is wud say I am like her daughter but when it comes down to it ur own flesh and blood is just that. Some mil can only nuture in that which is conceived in their wombs . Gopi being the woman she is like us will accept this insult and bury it and do her duty by her mil and husband.

Originally posted by: shruthi2010

taniks. i really understand this pain of yours.
this is why i cant see gopi suffering and have stopped watching the show.
a dil can be a daughter only if it pleases the mil.
i m the youngest of three. when married i was promised that we will live alone, but certain things happened and my in laws stayed with me. every day i cook do eveything and run for work still they used to praise only the other two who never looked at them or took care of them.
same here.
koki says she sees gopi as her daughter but she is never one.
she did not understand the pain gopi will go through
as for aham im getting disgusted with him with every passing day.
it is high time gopi leave this mad mansion and starts a life of her own. now she had education atleast she can manage by herself.

I just want this track to end had enough

I really feel bad for you dear. I know sticks and bricks can break bones but insults are worse. They stay with you full life and burn a hole inside which can never be filled. Dil s always have to listen to all the crap their in laws heap upon them and they can do nothing. In that way my mother is lucky she was insulted a lot not by her mother in law but by her father in law. My dad saw it for three years and he kept quite then he decided to move out. So if u have your husband s support i think a woman has it all.