Future relation - Gopi and Anita...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am back after a long gap😛

We have seen many movies and read many stories where a husband's ex girlfriend is deemed or assumed or presumed to be a negative character...the wife and husband's Ex girlfriend are supposed to hate each other,,,,

whenever a husband's past makes an entry ,,, the wife is supposed to be insecure..feel betrayed or cheated.. should cry over her fate and should question her husband's intentions...this is in general , what we expect and behave

But here in SNS, i think the CVs are not trying to show the same old story where the wife will misunderstand the husband and being the sacrificial lamb...would leave the house to make her husband and his ex-girlfriend to come together...this is not what the CVs are aiming here in SNS

I think they are redefining the general norms and misconceptions... they are trying to show how a beautiful relation can be formed between a wife and her husband's past girlfriend.. they can be friends, they can be cordial..by the end of the track i think we will see Anita and gopi being friends... yes which redefines all laws of wife and ex-girlfriend of her husband

A beautiful relation can be formed between two individuals irrespective of the past they share..All thanks to a wife, who stood up by her husband and they both help the girl through her tough situation. I feel gopi and Ahem will play cupid to get back Anita to Nilesh...

this will be one such track which we have never come across⭐️

Why does gopi have to help Anita who happens to be her husband's past ? Gopi does this for two reasons..

1..gopi does not differentiate people.. she goes all out to help even her enemies in need. so she empathizes with Anita completely.. her wedding called off.. her being orphan with no one to support her.. being a girl who faced many problems in her life..gopi sees and realizes Anita's problems... she does not care if Anita has any relation with Ahem or not.. she wants to help the individual named Anita

2.. Another very important and most prominent reason is Gopi trying to help Ahem in this situation..after the wedding is called off.. Gopi saw the guilt overwhelming in Ahem's face.. he is shocked and he is sad as because of him Anita's present and future is in such a mess..Gopi is helping her husband to get over his guilt and helping Anita as girl who is in a devastated state..

Is gopi insecure? No she is not ...Why not ..?? Why is she not misunderstanding Ahem's intentions towards Anita? Was it really heartbreaking for gopi to see Anita and Ahem in that situation? Were the tears in gopi's eyes for seeing Ahem and Anita so close or for Anita's wedding being called off?? ... will come up in a separate thread tomorrow..😃

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Welcome back Munni🤗
The past week has been confusing for a lot of people.. But I guess no one expected this to happen..
Anita and Gopi..
All said and done Munni, I would say Hats off to the CVs for taking it a little differently from other serials. Anitha was introduced as being nice at the start of this track. My wish and hope is that she will continue to be a nice person till she leaves..

And how unique.. The first person anitha turned for consolation after she got up was not Ahem who she had once been in love with. It was Gopi..
What a characterization of strength. Gopi silently took the hearts of all today. There was no moment when she looked and cried in self pity.. Her tears were all for the girl whose marriage broke and her husband's pain..
And you are so right.. How many wives have trust in their husband to take care of his ex without doubting him for a second. Not many.. This track will hopefully lead to what you say. A unique friendship.
It will definitely lead to Ahem finally freed from his guilt and his past. If Anitha is also settled well, it will be an icing on the cake.. Yes. Both Anitha and Gopi seem to have some things in common. Both are orphans, both are good people. So why not a friendship. Gopi needs a friend. 😛

And we will surely discuss on the perceived insecurities of Gopi in the next post.. I look forward to it..😃
Edited by Justlikethat1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@munni..

super duper like. exactly my views.

@harini...
loved your response too..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey munni.. welcome back.. actually missed you on forum :))

but you have comeback with super post, which answers every one questions for current track in your style:)))

Loved it!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I did notice you were not on as usual, welcome back Munni.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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excellent post munni... Gopi is a very strong person... but one day she will break... I knew someone like gopi , in real life... 😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree- from seeing the episode yesterday, it seemed that Gopi's gentleness and fine way of dealing with people will impress Anita and Ahem and Gopi and Anita would become friends. This situation actually happened to my friend, where her husband's ex-girlfriend became one of the best friends she has. Weird, but truly amazing relationship. Hope this happens and Anita helps Gopi see through Rashi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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the cvs will bring anitha and gopi close and it will turn out into a beautiful friendship
iam loving this track
it is a unique one not watched before in any shows
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Welcome back munni , and wat a comeback it is with a post like this.
Watching gopis face when nileshs father sed that he didn't mind she was
An orphan really got to Gopi cos she knows the pain of not having parents and ppl throwing the fact in ur face. Gopi was the only one focused on wot Anita was going thru in dat room , she realized anita was gonna even before Ahem felt the weight on anita on him.what a woman is gopi that she can put aside her personal hurt , pain , humilation and feel compassion for her husbands ex , her concern was vividly noted when she was by anita side as they wheeled her into the hospital .gopis strenght of character and the love for ppl really shone thru ysterday , gopi knows ahem loved anita , she was the shadow in their marriage for so long but she can still comfort this girl who has nobody who genuinely cares abt her.when anita sed wot kinda of a husband leaves his wife on her wedding nite ,gopi didn't worry that she couldn't remember but knew she had to reassure this devastated girl who is so desperate for her husbands love and attention, gopi knew wot anita is going thru , she has been there herself.watching this epi reading ur post I am convinced gopi won't leave the house , her silent strenght is wot is needed by everybody to get thru this situation , her mil , her husband , anita and the modis as to her protecting the honour , dignity and happiness of the family is always very important .
Also I forgot to add when nileshs father sed he didn't worry that anita was an orphan
He accepted her , gopi felt pride in her family who never made her feel like an orphan and
Lucky that she was blessed with their love and care from the beginning. Now I think of mothabhai
Words to hetal and koki when gopi came home after her accident ' gopi is an intregal part of our family and
Mustnt have an opportunity to miss her parents.

Here gopi realized her family had never abandoned her no matter wot even though her
Husband rejected her ,they embraced her and gave her her status of dil ,bhabhi , granddaughter
And the support therefore she feels more for anita cos she was never accepted fully in their arms of nileshs family
Or at least one of them wud have stood up for anita.

So yes a bond will form between them
Anita will find the support ,comfort and love
She shuld of gotten from nilesh family , her uncle and brother
And gopi will find the care and love she should have gotten from
Her sister. So by the tym anita leaves married the girls will have
A beautiful relationship few will understand maybe not even ahem
But these girls have already found something in each other and that
Is not ahem.
Edited by taniks - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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great thought, wow amazing

thought Rashi rant to Gopi just befoer Anita entry is still ringing in my mind.. I hope GOpi proves Rashi wrong big time on being insecure...

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