Puner Vivah episode of 04/19/2012... with eva..

I could say today that I loved today's episode as they showed Aarti's interaction with the girls...

Ansh acceptance of Aarti taking care of the Girls

Yash realizing that he still needs to settle the socre with little Ansh and pacify his soft little heart which he has hurt with his harsh words..

Gayatri still keeping her prejudice for Arti and Ansh and giving then 2nd class treatment.

Paridhi and her techniques to butter up sasuma and running away from work are ok for now but they are not right and honest...

now with the episode...

Watching how Aarti was trying to pacify Ansh and sooth his hurt... Yash turns to leave the room but than Aarti still keeps her charade on of rebuking Yash... tells in a very strong tone... that if you scold Ansh like that again you will have to answer me... Listening to her tone and voice... Yash stops and he turns fuming towards Aarti...

Aarti sees him turn and sees the anger in his eyes and steps back and sits on the bed signaling with her eyes that she is doing this to take away the hurt of Ansh.. Yash stares at her for some time and then his face softens... Aarti still pleads the cause of Ansh saying look how sad he is that you have scolded him in front of all... then she says softly yes I know that he is bit naughty... but then Ansh interrupts her saying mama please tell papa that I am a good boy... Aarti conveys his pleas to Yash saying yes you see Ansh is a good boy.. that brings soft smile on Yash face.. She then pleads him not to chide Ansh like that in front of all.. She says whatever you want to tell him please tell him lovingly and he will listen to you...

Here I like one thing that she did not take away the right of the father from Yash or did not tell him that you can tell me and I will make him understand... No she gave him full rights to scold him if he was wrong but in a manner that this child would understand and that is with the language of love and not of a force

Yash completely understood what she was trying to do and he also kept her honor by not telling her anything or telling her if she was doing something right or wrong .. He just stood there watching and listening to her and let her follow mother's instinct and mother's heart to deal with this delicate situation. and let Ansh think that she has scolded him and let him feel that her mother stood up for him and fought for him and did not leave him alone... so indirectly he also gave her the right of a wife who could chide her husband if he was wrong... absolutely loved the understanding Aarya shared in this situation...

She also brought Yash up in Ansh's eyes and not let any prejudice make home in his little heart about the "step dad"

By pleading with her eyes not to say anything in front of Ansh so Ansh can feel safe that his mother is there to protect him and stand for him and she also has a power to tell the new dad that he was wrong and should not do that... so as Yash did not say anything and listen to Aarti.. Ansh would also follow the suit and would listen to Aarti as Aarti here has proved to Ansh that she can take care of his dad's wrong behavior too.. as she did with his...

I had a feeling yesterday that Yash will not say anything... cause he knows that he was at fault and he is a man enough to confess to himself that he was wrong. Aarti also felt relieved that Yash let her make her son feel better and make him smile again.

I must say Kritika was excellent with her facial expressions and body language loved her performace very much.

Then comes little romantic funny and typical newly wedded young couple scene... between Paridhi and Pratik.. but knock on the door from Punkaj reminded Pratik that he needed to go for the meeting.. That made Parhidhi upset but he had to leave... Paridhi told him to tell Punkaj bhiya that he cannot come but Pratik said he would not understand. He left and Parhidhi pouted at him and he felt sad that he had to leave his wife alone..

The Scene with three brothers near the car was great and once again shows the bond of these three brothers. It always makes me feel that with autocratic father like Pa Scindhia these three brothers must have been back up for each other...

The scene in the kitchen was typical dramatic scene..

The older two DIL working in the kitchen' Paridhi walk in with upset face and they try to find out what happened. Gayatri sees them and feels happy about working with harmony..

She comes in to say something and forgets and stands there thinking'.

Vidhi tries to jog her memory softly but she gets upset' Aarti does not say a word but Paridhi laughs at her in her heart..

Suddenly the servant comes and reminds her about the lunch boxes of Payal and Palak and she remembers that she was about to say the same thing..

She then calls Aarti as Arpita and Aarti was busy in her work and does not pick it that she is calling her and keeps on cutting the vegetables.. this does not set well with Gayatri and she chides Aarti and tells her to get used to of the new name. Vidhi tries to smooth the things out by saying that Aarti is not used but she will get it in a few days.

Well then she tells Aarti to go and attend to Yash daughters as they always get late for the school but she is hoping that moving forward she will take care of that and they will go school in time.. Aarti nods and leaves the kitchen..

She slowly approaches the Girls room and sees Yash trying to do his daughter's hair.. She stands there and watches this father attending his daughters the best way he could. Payal grimace when her hair were pulled as they were tangled badly. Yash then sprays some water and once again uses brush to comb but it get entangles more.. the mother in her could not keep quiet and she tells him that she will do it. Yash was trying to be modest and says he will handle but she insists that the water will make it more tangled and he then listens to her and lifting his daughter from his lap puts her on the bed and let Aarti take over and he walks softly out of the room..

Aarti sits behind Payal and starts doing her hair and talks softly with her. Yash was watching her from the doorstep and thinks in his heart that he has taken right decision by saying yes for this marriage for his daughters's sake. And Aarti lifts her eyes to see that Yash was watching them.. Yash gets caught red handed and embarrassed he tries to walk away and collides with the pillar. Sheepishly he looks at her and then patting the pillar as if he hurt it and walks away... Aarti controls her smile..

Now she asks girls for their uniforms but Palak asks her why would she do that? Is she their new Nanny? Aarti keeps her patient and tells them no she is their new mom. Palak is rude again saying not mummy but step mom.. Aarti tries to find the uniforms in the closet but her search was in vain. Palak always the leader signals her sister to keep quiet and brings their uniforms and hides under the pillow. Ansh watches all this.. Aarti could not find their uniform and ask again but they still keep quiet. Ansh comes to his mother's aid and tells her what Palak did. Palak tells Payal that now this step mom will scold them. Aarti tells them that she will not do such thing but if they do not get ready the teacher will scold them. Defeated they bring the subject of Ansh and ask him to get out. Aarti tells Ansh to go away. Ansh looks a bit hurt but then Aarti reminds him that he is a good boy and he nods and leaves..

So then Aarti helps girls to get ready..

The guest were about to leave and the Schindhias are gathered in the living room for good byes. The guest invites all for the next wedding in the family and Aarti and Ansh were invited and praised.. Once again that dadima tries to put Aarti down. Pa Schindhia also noticed that and also she is staying back and there was little displeasure on his face as he very well must know her nature of putting the fuel in the fire... Aarti knew that she will be in problem with this lady but she does not say a word.

When all were leaving Aarti calls Vidhi about the transportation problem for Ansh. Vidhi always ready to help all says there is no problem as the driver can drop him to the school. But Gayatri comes and ask where the schools are and tells as both the school are in opposite direction the driver will drop the girls first. But as it was too late for Ansh Aarti asks if he could be dropped first but Gayatri always ready to put down Ansh and Aarti tells her that he can drop the school for one day. She also taunts Aarti that Ansh can be taught many things at home.. Aarti definitely did not like the treatment her son gets in spite of her trying to be a good mom to Yash's daughter. Gayatri wants to demand all from Aarti but does not want to give her anything easily.. as if whatever she gives seem to be a great favor to Aarti and she should be greatful for those...

Today I am happy with the episode as they showed Yash and Aarti's interaction on a level of understanding and support. Also her interaction with Payal and Palak. The three brothers and their understanding was perfect..

But today Gayatri was sooo wrong.. her prejudicial attitude was getting on my nerves and the way she did not consider the education for Ansh a priority was making me angry..

I think tomorrow if they come to drop Pratik home they will know about this or Yash will come to know about this incident when he will bring something for Ansh. So let's see how this problem of Gayatri gets resolved about Ansh as Ansh needs to go to school like Payal and Palak...

All together lovely episode... have a great night and a lovely day' love to all eva