Ok, first off, coming to this latest episode, lets talk about the kiss... oh the KISS...Firstly, let me make this clear, I have been a Stelena-er and will hopefully always be..😉
But, having said that, I cannot deny that this kiss, was FREAKING AMAZING!!😆 And the whole hand holding scene before that was incredibly cute too! I do believe that Stelena should be endgame, but does that mean I question the relationship that Delena have?? No, not at all...
I completely believe that Damon loves Elena too, and I do know that Elena does, in the very least, care deeply about Damon... so yes, their bond is something special as well...
You know, when TVD started, I always believed I would be pissed off if, and when, Elena made a move on Damon, but you know what? I'm NOT.
This, I think is the magic of the writers of the show... they have carved out the plot so well, that I frankly cannot blame Elena for what she did today.. I just can't.
Yes, my heart really DOES break for Stefan.. He will always be my sweetheart.. the poor guy has gone through hell this season, and ultimately, lost his love, through no fault of his own really... and he is soo sweet even now! I mean he was the one who suggested Elena go on the road trip to figure out her feelings... and the "Be Safe", was simply heartwarming... yes I finally see glimmers of our old, sweet Stefan coming back😊
So, coming back to the question on hand, do I blame Elena for what happened? No. I don't... I think after being pushed away from Stefan constantly this whole season, after having Damon support her throughout, after having seen her love kill people in front of her and being really pushed to the limit, and especially, not to forget, after legitimately having broken up with Stefan (in the third episode), I really can't blame Elena for feeling a certain sense of attraction to Damon...
And for acheiving this INCREDIBLE feat of NOT making me hate either of Damon or Elena, I applaud the writers!👏
I really hope that when the series ends, Elena and Stefan will be endgame, but for anything like that to happen, I get that Elena needs to figure out her feelings for Damon.. so even if she chooses Damon this season finale, yes, my heart will break, but I will continue to enjoy and love the show..
Delena is incredible, really, and I totally understand why people ship them... but I will always hold out hope for my Stelena😳
I ask only one thing of the writers - whoever you decide to bring together finally, please ensure that you keep the characters true to themselves.. I would really hate to see in the future, that Elena cheats on Damon (if she's with him) with Stefan OR vice versa...
Do not make us lose respect for the characters... TV shows nowadays, especially shows like Gossip Girl and 90210 have people literally moving through their group of friends, cheating left and right, calling it "in the heat of the moment". This story is special, so please keep it as beautiful and most importantly, as DIGNIFIED as this... and whether we be Stelena, or Delena, we WILL continue to love it!😊
Comments = LOVE!!😳
UPDATE ---
I just realised something that kind of changes my view on the whole kiss thing.. while I still dont blame Elena from a Stefan standpoint, I just realised that Elena kissed someone who literally killed her brother not 6 months ago(in TVD time). Stefan has also killed people, but not Elena's family though.. When Jeremy saw her kiss him, he clearly looked betrayed, or upset in the very least...
I dont know whether TVD will bring up this issue of Damon having actually killed Jeremy in season 2 and now Elena is kissing that very same guy, but I do think they should. I would like to see how that is handled.
Personally however, I do think, that if I was Jeremy, I would really feel betrayed and frankly, insulted, if my sister was going shacking up with someone who had not tried, but actually 'killed' me.
So yeah, I guess that does put a slightly different spin on things...
Edited by sonu.p - 13 years ago