Is Jai being Selfish? Your Views please!

Just read Anu's analysis and saw the repeat yesterday night! What a mind-blowing episode and Khabari was pretty right, Prachi walked away with a splendid performance yesterday......That dazed and shocked look said everything, without uttering a single line! What a bundle of talent is this teenager, way to go Prachi!👏

Coming to the episode, I was just pondering on something and wanted your opinion on;

Yesterday, when Jigyasa is blasting off Bani and she lables her child illegitimate, Jai comes from behind and gives one resounding slap to Jigyasa and tells her how dare she speak such a thing against his child!

I somehow felt that Jai should have told Jigyasa, that how dare she speak like this against his wife....But he used the word "His Child".

Then again, as Anu mentioned, Jai stops Bani from leaving and tries to put across the situation to her and tells her that now they are bound in this marriage and they have to work it out! Now this was the same Jai, who had told Bani earlier that if she comes to know of his past, he won't see her face ever again........

Please share your views and opinons on the following (Have to pass it on further!😳 Muft mein kaam karti hoon mein sabke liye!😆)

Has Jai's primary concern become his Child that Bani is carrying rather than Bani herself?

Would Jai have stopped Bani from leaving his house if Bani wasn't Pregnant?

If Bani insists on leaving Jai and the House, do you think that Jai will go to any extent to make her stay or will he let her go?

What do you think Bani's next course of action would be? Will she try to forget her past and accept her fate and future as Jai and their child or will she fight it out with Jai and leave him?

What do you think you would have done, if you were in Bani's position today?

Do you think that Jai really & truly loves Bani or is the thought of their child which will lead him to take desperate measures to work out their relationship?

Would be awaiting your answers.....

Thanks in advance,

Love,

MT

well MT.., appreciate ur work dear.. u really take time to all this.. and I hope u r totally in good health now.. bless u my dear...

well I personally feel Jai is not being selfish.. well... his love for bani and his child cannot be compare.. or in the sense measured. He already cleared in his views .. to bani.. how much she means to him. He indeed not say those 3 magical words to bani .. but in every sense he accepted bani as his wife and heart in heart loves more than himself. He already proved it .. well now that he knows she has thier child.. tell me who wont feel happy.. of course it might be he is specifying the child to make bani stay back but in true senese he wants them both. he wants his bani to complete him and his family...
So this is what I feel after readng todays update... I guess I could not explain in more detail but u might have got my point...
In every sense Jai is justified with his feelings.. but what he is going thrugh its difficult for him to convery his true feelings to bani... God bless both of them... and hope bani reacts to him on monday...

well... it is equally had bani to come out of the trauma she is now presently in.. she is fighting hard with her emotions and feelings for jai... she is undergoing more torture than Jai in once sense... she is ofcourse the mother of the child.. and what can I say about mother and child relationship.. nothing can come in front of i t....

So.. this is a phase which is going on in between Jai and bani... they only can help each other to come out of it ...

thats all from me ...

luv,
savi

hey first time I am replying first.. wow

I know i am new to this, but i have been following kasamh se from day one and i love it!

I think for KS to move forward and to show Jai suffer just the way Bani suffered (living with hate) Bani can't go away from Walia mention. Eventually they will both fall in love with each other deeply! Honestly I can't wait to hear either one of them express their love to the other! I have a feeling that it will be sooooo romantic.

Nothing to do with this but does anyone else think Pia is annoying?

Hey MT, just like always we appreciate your work hun... great analysis btw.
as for your answers here they are:
I dont' think Jai's priorities are changed. I think he is concerned about both of them Bani and the baby.
I think Jai would have stopped Bani from leavin the house b/c he knows he luvs her but he doesn't want to admit it.
As for Bani, I don't think she will leave at least for the sake of her child and it will take some time for her to trust Jai again.
Sorry will finish 2moro bro's kicking me out of his room

I think Jai really loves Bani. He was willing to sacrifice himself and save Bani even when he didnt know Bani was pregnant.

Bani also loves Jai, and it is because she loves him so much that she cant stand the fact that Jai was involved in her mother's accident. If say Aditya had been the one involved in the accident then Bani would have 4givven also more easily.

According to me Jai always loved Bani right from the beginning coz he cud have told her the raaz (even durin the time he was rude to her) and finished their relationship. Right from the beginning Jai has somethin for her and he was rude becoz he himself didnt want to even accept love as love had failed him so many times.

Now as the child is involved Jai cant ignore the child. Otherwise Jai wud let Bani go thinkin she will b happy and will find some1else. But now he cant let Bani go coz a father is as important as a mother for a child 😊

I dont think Jai is selfish. Jai cudnt hav slapped jigs and told her dont talk abt muy wife like tat bcoz the situation between Jai and bani is such tat he cant show too much love. He is savin Bani by slappin Jigs and using the kids name bcoz Bani is not gonna like any of jais help or support now atleast not explicit help or support. He will b there and subtly help and love Bani. Hope I am makin sense....

i agree with everybodyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 😊

Hi MT, you're lifesaver for KSforum...
Jai really love bani..only he don't accept yet..the way he behave...even bani doesn't pregnet, he can't let her go...he's confuse about his love for bani..because of raaz.. now raaz revale.. he has to admit and decalre his love to bani...
for bani n0w she need more time to forgive jai...jai has to saw his love to bani then amy be bani try to forget mom's death..may be bani stay at waliahouse for only his child sake... nothing elas..
i still waiting for today's video..this writing base only mt's update & anu's analysis...

Jai has been waiting to Have a Family for the longest while now ... as we saw his reaction when the doc informed him that Bani was Pregnant .So Yes he is very much .. concerned for his future child .But he also does Love Bani very much .he , Just hasnt confessed .If Bani wasnt pregnant ..Yes Jai would stop her from leaving because he LOVES HER and cant imagine waking up in the morning and not find Bani next to him .as it has been shown in one of the past episodes .
If Bani is hell bent on leaving Jai ..then .. Jai will definately do all that he can .. to stop her from leaving coz .. Where is Bani going to Go carrying his child ....? To MT.Abu ..? all alone .. how is she going to manage .. to continue living her life ..? while she is pregnant and after she delivers the Baby . these questions and the welfare of the child will make jai .. do his utmost to keep bani from leaving . its Only Natural for a Father and a Husband to handle matters as delicate as the present one to save his Family and marriage . i dont think Jai is being selfish at all but mature and wise . in handling his responsibility as a family Man .
If i was in Bani's Place ... honestly .. I cant say .. coz its easy to judge others .. until we ourselves experience a situation of this kind .. But one thing i have to admit ... If my Husband is JAI WALIA .. I would be khaffa with him (not for long thohgh ) but continue to stay on .. after all its a marriage we are talking about not a casual live in relationship .
yes Jai is responsible for kiran dixits death ... but that happenned a long time ago when .. Jai didnt know Bani and in his wildest dreams had'nt imagined he would be married to her, of all the people . i would consider all these factors .. and slowly forgive my hubby ... coz .. i dont think with a hubby like jai any wife can stay upset for long with Him 😉 I am sure u will agree with me on that MT ...! 😃
rite now its difficult to say what bani.. will decide .. , she has hardly spoken .. nor reacted to the news of her pregnancy .
i think .. she will stay on .. like she told Jai in mukesh mills , that now Jai would bear her hatred .. but .again that was before she knew she was pregnant .. , Now that she knows .. she is expecting she might think about leaving ... , to stay away from jai - the man who murdered her MOM , she may even over react by keeping Jai away from the baby . a k a .. balaji telefilm style .

hope i answered to the context ...

YAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaWN .. going to call it a day ... and hit the Sack ...

till tomorrow Morning .. U guys in Asia and across the globe Have a Good One Now 😛

Love

Klueless

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I don't think that Jai is selfish He is very concerned for his child and the reason he said "his child" when yelling at Jigs is because she was referencing his child as illegitamate...He really does love Bani and the child. If he didn't he would have barged into her room when he found out she was pregnant!!! The only thing is that he has not confessed his love for her in words but he has by his actions!!!! However I do think he needs to suffer a little bit due to all the torment he made Bani go through and as for Bani's next course of action - she should show her indifference to him at least on the outside so he will realize her true value in his life....

I think Jai would not have stopped Bani from going if she wasn't pregnant only because he thinks she doesn't love him and can find someone else...I think he would have let her go because he loved her but he would have eventually realized he can't live without her and would have brought her back ..baby or no baby...

If Bani decides to leave anyway Jai may let her go only because of the guilt he feels, but he would try his hardest to convince her to stay.

I feel that Bani would be hypocrytical if she leaves and takes the child away from Jai because for the past seven years she knew what it felt like without one of her parents so she should not (and I believe would not) impose that same fate on her child!!!!

Thanks again to you MT for the wonderful updates and to your Khabri who enlightens us with her tid bit sneak peaks!!!! Please let her know to pass the news along to the creatives at KS that we want ot see Jai and Bani confess their love to one another verbally followed by another consumation scene...and NO HARM should befall this baby!!!!! Also make Mausi stay!!!!