right or wrong???? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jass.KN

Even my thinking is same.But if I say some thing against it .I wiill defiantly face catcalls of mass Becoz if I start to count there r so many things which r wrong many of here ll take me Anti Ansh.But he shouldn't giv advantage as a fatherless child .But So I second u 👍🏼

well said 👍🏼. totally agree with u

Originally posted by: Jass.KN

Even my thinking is same.But if I say some thing against it .I wiill defiantly face catcalls of mass Becoz if I start to count there r so many things which r wrong many of here ll take me Anti Ansh.But he shouldn't giv advantage as a fatherless child .But So I second u 👍🏼

if anyone says me anti ansh i don't have any problem..bcoz right now he annoys me such extent i have compelled to be anti ansh...i am a big KS fan and loving her effort as aarti...but i can't like aarti rite now...i can't understand why should i have to be sympathetic with a father less child's misbehaves when two mother less children payal and palak are completely well mannered???when in general a mother plays important role to make a kid disciplined????

Originally posted by: Charishma

I honestly don't think Aarti did anything wrong. All Ansh wants to know is that his mother is still there for him.
She stood there quietly when he was denied the chance to sit next to his "naya papa", and didn't feed him when he requested.
His whole world has changed, and with no explanations. He was under the misapprehension that he and his new father would be fast friends, which they are not.
Ansh feels like crap, basically. And all he wanted was for his mother to stand up for him. She did nothing wrong in that moment. He needed to know that she still loved him.

i am not saying that. she should have did d same like Yash or others. ya it is ok that she stands 4 him. but at d same time Yash was not wrong at all. she should have realized to Ansh firmly that this time u (Ansh) r wrong. & if Papa will make any mistake then i will defiantly scold him. but u also have to understand hw to behave otherwise they will scold me 4 spoiling u.may be she can talk with him this way. small kids want only attention & importance in any way. so she should say if u behave like good boy every one will give u complements that Ansh is very nice,polite,sweet,obedient. u don't want these complements etc etc. something like that she should say to him.

Originally posted by: aru_86

if anyone says me anti ansh i don't have any problem..bcoz right now he annoys me such extent i have compelled to be anti ansh...i am a big KS fan and loving her effort as aarti...but i can't like aarti rite now...i can't understand why should i have to be sympathetic with a father less child's misbehaves when two mother less children payal and palak are completely well mannered???when in general a mother plays important role to make a kid disciplined????

u r 100% correct.why should give him sympathy if he was really wrong & bad mannered. & every one was give him enough time to set. they patiently watched him 4 some time. then when he was out of control & was throw glass & dish. then only yash was scold him not before that.

@ TM n @ Jass.KN ... agree with u 😊 perfectly said

This is what I do not understand with the people who are bashing Yash.

Originally posted by: spyers

This is what I do not understand with the people who are bashing Yash.

Apparently, he was wrong for yelling at Ansh, yet they do not have a problem with Ansh's antics?

Notice that we have not had any problems with Yash's daughters as yet. They have been made to understand certain situations and you do not see them acting out or behaving anyway that they want.

And what Aarti did was basically once again encourage Ansh's behavior because notice that he basically told her "No, Papa is wrong! He should apologise to me! If he does not apologise, I am not going to talk to him!", even after Aarti told Ansh that he was also wrong.

Aarti needs to not back down from her own child every time he yells. She is the adult so she needs to act the part. Ansh can say "Mom, you do not love me!" till the day he turns blue but Aarti has to stand firm and say "No, Ansh, you are wrong". That is when Ansh will learn respect.

totally agree with u.👏 i think she should say no to him at least some times. i mean to say in his 10 demands she should say him no at least 2 times. she always fulfill his all demands whether they r right or wrong. this is not good 4 Aarti as parent as mother of Ansh.