19/4 Dragon Club:Aarti:The perfect mother of all 3

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

Opening the Thread today on behalf of Samana since she got a bit stuck up in work ...😳

Since we hv lots of members in our Dragon Club and even now daily new members r joining us ..so Deeps(SylvaniaLUX)
have made a list of all the members with their names so that we can address each other with names and dont hv much difficulty with it ...

I hv updated the list again last night ..so chk out the final list again 😳

If u wish to get your name added thennn plss mention it in this thread only or PM your name to SylvaniaLUX and I will keep updating the list 😳😳

123mitul : Mitul

49er : Geets

aaabbbccc- Shilpi

abhiya_crazyluv : Tabeer

aanyaKunat : Neeri

Aarya : Aarya

Ammu_ShaNak : Ammu

angake : Kirthi

AngelDark : Ahandu

Albut : Maham

bbbccc : Veena

Bella27H : Bella

CraziestGurtian : Kushboo

-Dimple- : Dimple

enchanted : Ani

Golda : Mudhra

goldengirl.0123 : Purnima

Gurtiluv : Sonika

helloaamir : Aarti

lams : Lamya

Indu64 : Indrani

Jikky : Asha

Jyothi06 : Jyo/Gagori

kashish 1322 : kashish

Laxmi2010 : Laxmi

Mandu : Kanoo

MelodiousDreams : Borna

M_n_h : Meena

Narangi : Mira

Natasha...: Natasha

Nightstarr : Murs

nikita_88 : Nikita

Nilam : Neelam

nooriewas :Yasmeen

pd2012 : Padma

pennu : pennu

Phal : Phalguni

Pinkchocolate : Poco / Nitz

pop77 : Payal

redeye : Kavi

saloni111 : Saloni

Samanalyse : Samana

Shubhika : Shubhika

skanda_12 : Maansi

SkyLight : Gagan

Strawbella : Vaishnavi

swethasyam08 : Swetha

SylvaniaLUX : Deeps

tarantulla_p : Aparna

yipee : Anupama

Zster : Zahra

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One interesting symbolism about Yash and Aarti-Ansh's contrasting nature which I forgot to mention yesterday in my take 😛

Yash is a perfect disciplined neat and tidy guy who does not like a messed up room ...who wants the kheer to b served in a perfect way in bowl ...basically he is one perfectionist guy who wants everything to b perfect ,neat and tidy around him ... Thats one reason he has converted his room into a perfect taj mahal of Arpita's memories 😆 and does not enjoy if anyone disrupts in his perfect life and makes it all untidy and imperfect 😉😛

Aarti and Ansh r the biggest imperfection in his life now 😆...Both mother and son made his room untidy ,all messed up thus disrupting the whole perfection of his Arpita Taj-Mahal room 😆 .. Aarti and Ansh not only made the dead perfect room more lively and real with their imperfection but also Aarti's act of blasting Yash yesterday looking at his photo in which he was posing with Arpita is a clear indication that Aarti and Ansh r going to bring Yash out of his perfect cocoon type shell in which he has locked himself with Arpita's memories in the name of perfection but thats not really perfection because the real perfection comes in leading a more real and lively life which Aarti and Ansh r going to give him 😳😳😳...

The untidiness and imperfections of Aarti and Ansh might frustate Yash initially but slowly he is going to enjoy these imperfections of both mother and son because it will b much more real and lively than his dead taj-mahal perfect Arpita tomb 😆😆...

Last scene of yesterday where Yash was more of a silent observer watching the antics of Aarti and Ansh , it clearly indicated that Yash was actually stunned to see the liveliness and humour element that Aarti actually tried to bring in the whole scenario rather than going the typical serious and perfect way which at times makes your life boring but Aarti knows how to put spice element in one's boring life and this is what was Yash yesterday silently observing in Aarti's gestures 😉😛😛

Aarti's Olive Branch to Yash in the form of "Humara Ansh" 😍😍😍😍😍(I forgot to mention this in my take yesterday as well)

Thanks to Samana mentioning it in last DC thread , Now that I look at the whole last scene of yesterday's episode,its absolutely making sense ...Yash comes to the room to mayb say sorry to Ansh but then he sees Aarti and Ansh hv their own humour and fun filled ways ways of dealing with such issues ..so Yash feels out of place and was about to leave from there ..But then Aarti starts the act of blasting him and indirectly making him feel part of the same family especially with her words like "Humare Ansh ko" 😲😳😳...yes she uses the word Hum which gives such a family feeling 😳...So Aarti actually managed to build that much needed bridge for Yash from where he can walk in and enter Aarti-Ansh's lives 😍😍😍😍...He also mayb taking it as a lesson on how to make Aarti too feel a part of Scindia family by using the same word "Hum" in context of PayPal too 😳 ...

Till now we saw Aarti never allowed anyone else to handle Ansh ...it was always "Mera Ansh and I hv to do everything for him" ...but this is first time she used "Humara Ansh" which is indirect hint to Yash that if he wishes he can actually discipline or handle Ansh in his own way ..but here I m giving u the olive branch ,u need to grab it now 😛😆😆..

Yash probably was feeling lost when he initially saw the mother-son unique way of sorting out the issue ...but that olive branch offered by Aarti will now indirectly help Yash in breaking the ice between him and Ansh hopefully 😳..and I wolud love to see Yash using the same "Hum" in case of PayPal too so the he too can break the ice between Aarti and PayPal ...😳

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Episode Analysis of today

I loved the Episode overall the way Aarti handled all 3 kids together making sure PayPal get ready on time and also handling Ansh at the same time 👏👏 ...Best part was Ansh today showing full co-operation and understanding towardss his Mom when he realises that she has to share her duties as a mother between him as well as his sisters Payal and Palak ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Aarti showing her perfect skills as mother of all three kids ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Today I will hv to give all the brownie points to Aarti the way she handled Payal and Palak by proving to them that she is not a typical step-mom who will shout at them for hiding the uniform but she will use her own humour to make sure they both get ready quickly 👍🏼 ; Also loved the way she handled Ansh today by politely asking Yash not to shout at him in front of all which resulted in Ansh too cooling down and later co-operating with his mother when she asked him to get ready for school on his own😃 ; Ansh showed proper co-operation and understanding towards his mom only because of the way she handled the entire matter yesterday with her humour rather than going the strict way which mayb at this stage would hv made matters worse when Ansh is trying to adjust in a new house 🤔

I remember yesterday we all had a huge debate of why Aarti used humour with Ansh in the last scene rather than teaching him proper set of discipline ..I guess today we got the Answer 😃 ..This is Aarti's style of dealing with kids and so far this strategy of hers worked on Ansh as we saw how there was a drastic change in Ansh's behaviour today 👍🏼 ...She used the same humour technique with PayPal today during school uniform hiding fiasco and there too she succeeded in breaking the myth of those girls that all step-moms only knows to shout 😆 ...

So moral of the story is its not always necessary to discipline the kids with yelling or shouting at them but sometimes such humour or light funny ways too can work wonders with the kids 😳😳

Paridi :The grt cute manipulator 😆

First Paridi manipulates Pratik making sure he does not go for any meeting as his sad face makes Yash advice him to buy a gift for Paridi and skip the meeting 😉😆 ; Then her next target Gayatri too falls for her manipulation when Paridi does her false praise of Gayatri's age ,figure and beauty 😆😆

So moral of the story is sometimes u need these small manipulations to keep your Sasuma in check and also escape from these regular kitchen and other home duties ..😉

Paridi is not bad ..she is plain selfish in a cute way ...she just got married and wants to enjoy her married life with freedom but without sounding rude to anyone 😊...

Mayb Aarti too should join Paridi in this mission to get rid of the Sasuma and her regular tamashas 😡

Its high time Yash steps into kids matter and take Ansh's responsibility if he expects Aarti to fulfill her responsibilites towards PayPal 😊

The way Gayatri takes decisions against Ansh is plain disgusting 😡 ;On one hand she expects Aarti to get PayPal ready for school on time and on other hand she advices Aarti to let Ansh skip school for a day 😡 ;Why this second hand treatment to Ansh always ?? 😡..PayPal should not get late for school but its ok for Ansh to get late or even skip school.....Why cant Gayatri arrange some taxi for Ansh then and let PayPal take the car so that all 3 kids can reach school on time 😊 ..Now if Ansh does his tandav here because of this ,I wont blame him 😃😆...

On one hand I can see Aarti giving in full efforts to make sure PayPal get ready for the school right on time ..in fact she asks Ansh to get ready himself and concentrates on PayPal more since they r girls and Ansh like a good boy manages everything himself today 👏 And on other hand I see no real efforts coming from Yash here towards his bonding with Ansh ...

No wonder Aarti is so possessive and insecure about Ansh because if she is giving some attention to PayPal ,then this is what is happening with Ansh in the house and there there is noone to take her or Ansh's side

Its high time Yash steps into the matter and handle Ansh's responsibility if he expects Aarti to fulfill her responsibility as a mother towards PayPal 😊...It has to come from both sides now ...Aarti alone cannot handle all 3 kids regularly especially with Gayatri sitting on her head like a hitler ...Yash needs to b equally proactive here 😊

Cute moments :Brothers bonding and Yash running into a pillar 😛

Yash-Pankaj-Pratik bonding is always a treat to watch the way they all hv a wonderful understanding with each other ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ;

Yash running into a pillar while watching Aarti comb Palak's hair was super cute and GC gave wonderful expression there 😳...But can he do the same with Yash now ?? 😳

Overall today's episode was dedicated to Aarti

trying to b a mother of 3 together ...I want to see a similar episode on Yash now making efforts to become a father of all 3 kids ...Would love to see if Yash himself drops Ansh to school tomorrow 😳

Edited by jyoti06 - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

my Name is Ammu ...as the ID suggests . 😆

are we dividing into Team Ansh and Team Yash ??? im not familiar with the Dragon Club .

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Gagori Chatterjee

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Posted: 13 years ago

@Ammu :Nothing like that dear ...u can join in and simply discuss the episode ..its a simple episode discussion thread where we hv fun ,analyssis ,everything 😃

the title is just about what today's episode will b ...😛😆😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

Another episode goes by today ... and another day dawns in the life of the Scindia pariwar.

Today we saw some more homely scenes of a family in the throes of adjustment with each other. There were lots of little things that add up to a lot, rather than any major events of significance.

My favourite six scenes today were:

1. Yash understands Aarti's silent entreaties

I liked the scene right at the beginning when Aarti finishes the mock scolding of Yash in front of Ansh, and instead silently with her eyes pleads with Yash to understand the little boy's sentiments. While she was saying "Ansh has promised to be a good boy, and you should not have scolded him in front of others, but told him separately ..." Yash was getting the message that Ansh needed different and sensitive handling. But the beauty of the scene was in the eyes of Aarti (silently pleading for understanding) and in the eyes of Yash (silently communicating understanding). Lovely scene, again with few words from Yash, but lots of acting just with the eyes!

2. Paridi manipulates mom-in-law

What a clever and manipulative girl this Paridi is! I loved the way she used her brains to flatter this mother-in-law commenting - of all things- about her youthful figure even after having three adult boys and many grandchildren! And how Gayatri fell hook, line and sinker for the flattery is very revealing! Seems like Paridi is going to get away without doing any work in this house, just by sheer flattery of the mother-in-law. I wish we could see Paridi teaching yoga aanas to Gayatri! Will be such fun to watch!

3. Pratik Paridi have the eternal hots for each other!

Arre wah, this Praik and Paridi seem intent on undressing each other even if they have just five minutes alone in the room! They are eternally turned on, both of them! Looks like today Pratik is going to bunk office, come home with a gift (as per Pankaj's experienced advice??) and make up with Paridi ... and looks like he may try to cool her anger through some hot action? What a nice-but-naughty pair these two are!

4. Aarti combing hair for kids

This was a lovely scene when Aarti interrupted Yash trying to comb his daughter's hair (what a royal mess he was making, sprinkling water to remove the tangles and then tangling the brush fully in the hair!) The scene was not just cute but also a bit comical, which was a vey nice touch. I liked the way Yash tried to act casual about the hair combing, and then almost banged into the pillar to not be seen watching Aarti doing the combing! I like the way these simple but loving scenes are also directed with a bit of comedy to make them very lively!

5. Three brothers getting along like a merry bunch

The scene near the car where Pankaj, Yash and Pratik were geting ready to go for work was nice too. I liked the way Yash made fun of Pratik wanting to spend time with Paridi, and then Pankaj made gift-buying and wife-placating suggestions. Whenever these three brothers are together without any others in the scene, the camraderie between them is very interesting to watch. Yash in fact becomes boyish and ribs Pratik a lot. Pankaj who has no success with his own wife ends up giving the best wife-manao-fying suggestions. Nice irony!

6. Yash getting a gift for Ansh?

When Yash gets into the car he is self-talking that he too needs to get a gift for someone who is very angry with him and needs to be pacified. I am sure he is going to arrive back at home with a nice gift for Ansh and that will be his "Sorry". Aarti would also be nicely surprised to find that she does not have to ask Yash to apologize to Ansha as he has done it in his own special way!

Two scenes I absolutely did not like:

Gayatri has big ears, interferes in everything ... and is doing total injustice on this issue of Ansh's schooling!

The end of the episode and the precap disturbed me a lot. First of all whatever the daughters-in-law talk to each other, this mother-in-law seems to have very big ears. She immediately appears from nowhere and gets involved in every dialogue, like she did when Aarti asked Vidhi's help to send Ansh to school.

And then look at Gayatri's cheek to suggest that if it will be too late to send Ansh to school, he'd better stay at home, especially since he has a lot to learn about his behaviour at home!

There are some moments when Gayatri seems polite to Aarti, but then in a sudden twist she becomes the rude and sarcastic mother-in-law. That is precisely why I am not able to sympathise with her in her good moments, because we can never tell when she will become a rattlesnake!

Anyway my feeling is that this whole Ansh school going issue is going to boomerang on Gayatri. I fel suddenly Yash is going to return home from office, with a gift for Ansh, and he is going to drop Ansh at school instead of the driver who is taking Palak and Payal!

Looks like the other gossipy lady is Gayatri's sister and is planning to stay for longer in this house ...

... that all we need for total hungama! The big-eared mother-in-law and her long-tongued sister!😡

All in all, it was a nice and homely episode and it took the story forward on many little tracks and was not boring even for a second. The CVs seem to know exactly how long a scene should be and they are constantly shifting focus so that all the characters are nicely covered! Hats off to them!

Edited by skanda12 - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

Battle of Nangu Pangu baap beta !!!!🤣

Gayatri needs someone to put something up her Pallu, can't stand her!

Ansh, Aarti and Yash scene was awesome, loved the way Aarti conveyed her message to Yash in regards to scolding Ansh! Welll done.

Yash, realizing he made the right choice. Aarti bonding with girls, my heart broke out when girls said soteli ma, all get so hell bent when Ansh does something, how about girls and their taunting, no one hears any of that!

My Panku in green looked too cute 😳

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laxmi2010

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Posted: 13 years ago

Payal
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Ansh --><--Palak

The ball is now in Yash's court. What will he do with it?

If Yash is going to get Ansh a gift, it should be a sports ball of some kind and they should go play a game together, but only after all sorries from both are said to the people they need to be said to.

Let Gayatri keep doing her stupid little saas-bahu maneuvers. I think she feels from Yash's response to Ansh earlier, that she is justified in her attitude, but she is in for a rude awakening. Yash would never back her up on them, and it is only a matter of time before he finds out what goes on when he's not at home. When that happens, Gayatri get ready to be band bajaoified by your son.

What is the big deal about Payal's hair, I wonder? Every scene that has had something to do with taking care of the girls has involved her hair. I hope that after today, the CVs can come up with something else for Aarti to do with Payal besides fixing her hair. Honestly, there are a lot of things that mother's do with daughters besides fix their hair, even though that is something important to little girls. But if they don't come up with some other scenarios, the hair thing is going to get old quickly.

One thing that the getting ready for school thing made me feel, is that it's not going to be that hard for Aarti and the girls to start bonding. Yes, the girls are mistrustful and a bit disrespectful, but that doesn't bother Aarti. She seems to instinctively understand that they are really just looking for reassurances about her, and since they haven't got them from the adults in their life, it is her actions that will provide them. It was quite clear from Palak's words that she assumed her misbehavior would result in a scolding from Aarti the same way Yash scolded Ansh. When that didn't happen, a bit of their stubbornness disappeared. It won't happen overnight, but after today's episode, I am much less worried about how Aarti will be able to bond with PayPal.

To me, this episode kind of seemed like a wrapping up episode, where they've put both Yash and Aarti through one of the toughest morning after the wedding days that they could. Now that hopefully the worst has passed, it seems like the two are much more willing to step into their parental roles. The only thing missing is a real conversation between them.

If they do end up going on honeymoon, I actually hope that they take the children with them. I mean, if they go by themselves, or with Prateek and Paridhi, what will they actually do together? However, if they take the children with them, that might be a good opportunity for the five to start becoming a real family. It will also help diffuse any awkwardness that would come between the adults otherwise, because they will be more focused on the children instead of themselves, hopefully paving the way for friendship to start. Also, it would be find to leave PayPal at home, but not Ansh, and I don't think it would be productive to have him go back to stay with the Dubeys.

Even though they are showing many realistic and every day activities happening in the family's lives, I still never know quite what to expect in any given episode. I'm liking this unpredictability of the show, and I hope the CVs can keep it up.

Edited by laxmi2010 - 13 years ago