Punervivah Episode 04/17/2012

Well since Yesterday they are trying to show Mother's excess love and a spoil brat kid..

As a mother I am just shaking my head at Arti's blindness toward her son... I know I know CVs has a reason to show this but man I just want to say that Gayatri is right in her prediction about Aarti's possessiveness about her son in such an extent that she forgets the boundary between love and spoiling the kid..

I think the leaving of Prashant had a great impact on Aarti and that is why she must be terrified of losing Ansh in anyway so she gives in to his demands all the time and does not discipline him at all... She may a loving mother but she is not a good mother in the sense of discipline as she does not know the balance of discipline and love and I think that is why they are making that avenue available for Yash to step in to teach Ansh some manners and Aarti some tough love..

Yesterday the behavior of Ansh was intolerable in front of the ladies and the way he answered back to that dadima figure... and Aarti does not say a word...

There was a little vulnerable moment when Yash's daughter were complaining to dadima but he fought back and wanted to take over and Aarti looks at the mess in the living room but she went to ask how he was and if he was ok and also pat him on his cheek not giving at all important to the mess the children made in room..

Of course I can understand her mother's heart but not her behavior not to discipline Ansh... Man the mother in me just cannot take that... another thing that they did not let children get used to of each other and forced Ansh on the girls and he just wanted to take over pushing the girls aside not sharing so the girls got angry at that taking over attitude and chased him out of their room. His behavior pushed the girls out of their elements and they just wanted to push him out of their home too'

Coming today... Aarti had a chance to reprimanded Ansh that he did wrong but she did not do any such thing.. She just does not want to tell any negative thing to Ansh as she is afraid of losing him...

Yash is such a neat person.. Yesterday when he came out of the bathroom he neatly folded his towel and put it aside on the side stand. His wife had to iron his shirt just before he wore as he does not like a single crease on his shirt whereas yesterday when Aarti came out of bathroom she kept her towel just like that... and today she is leaving the mess in the bedroom she just stepped in as new DIL???

Ansh asked for so many changes she pulled the clothes one by one per his liking and left those things scattered on the bed which she shares with her husband and ran to the kitchen forgetting that she is new bahu and starts coking in the new kitchen without asking anybody's permission' Now who does that??? She starts making puries for Ansh.. oh she just threw couple of puries for Payal and Palak too... But did she go and seek them and brought them to eat with Ansh??? As now as after the marriage she is there mother too.. She expects everyone to welcome and accept her son but is she doing the same favor?? Today I was totally disappointed with Aarti's behavior..

OMG the behavior of Ansh just made me so mad and upset that this little kid has learned nothing at all... He just is a smart mouth but there is no mannerism... no etiquette... no respect for elders... man what is Aarti doing with this spirited little boy?? Is she trying to mould him just like another Prashant??? This kid only be a selfish man who only knows what he wants when he becomes older as he has not learn anything at all... and the way Ansh decorated the bathroom making it a total mess... and

The way Aarti left the bed room all the cloths scattered like that on the bed.. is just unbelievable now who does that in room which you share with someone???

I am totally upset with Aarti today...

She has done this remarriage...

She has come in the very traditional prestigious household and she is forgetting all kind of customs and mannerism...

Shobha had repeatedly told Gaytri that my Aarti is very wise girl and would not give you any chance to complain and man this lady has done just the opposite ...

The moment she has stepped in the house she did not do anything right. by any custom or tradition..

She did not touch Gayatri's feet..

She did not cover her head when she went out of her room..

She did not listen to Gayatri's direct command to get ready and meet Ansh later

She did not listen Gayatri's wish not to make every one waiting for her 1^st day in the new home..

I would say Shobha has also spoiled her as she also was feeling guilty about her son leaving her and that is why those Dubeys also did not say a word and let this mother and son duo do whatever they wanted to do.. And the result is the embarrassment in someone else house..

Many things have been tolerated and over looked by the head of the house but man is there any limit???

Pa Scindhia is totally upset at what is happening in the house and he makes Ma Schindhia responsible for all the chaos..

Here I do not blame Gayatri at all for using the harsh language or chiding Aarti for her behavior for not following her orders or her traditions...

Usually Aarti comes in the category of "good girl" but when it comes to Ansh she is blind..

Was Gayatri wrong in her presumption about her???

Was Gayatri wrong when she wanted Ansh to stay with his grandparents till Aarti gets used to of the new family..

Yash was annoyed with Ansh's persistent knock on the bathroom and he even told rudely to use another bathroom but Ansh gave an ultimatum that if he does not open he will wet the floor right there' Aarti kept on saying oh let's go to another bathroom but never did take any step to shut up Ansh and drag him to another bathroom...

Yash had to come out and then smart mouth Ansh made a remark about Yash being in his towel??? The man was in bathroom getting ready for a shower'. Yash did not like that.. He just took his cloths and went to another bathroom...

Then once again Ansh's persistence about what he will wear and then another round of persistence about food... and every time Aarti just pats him and gives in... cause Ansh gives her a smile and she melts'

So Aarti and Ansh go to kitchen and Aarti makes puri for Ansh' and enters the sasuma.. She looks at the scenario and gets really upset that Aarti as a new bride did not wait for the Chulha Puja before she cooked anything in the house. She starts chiding Aarti and reminding her that though this is her second marriage she did not follow the custom and did bad omen' Once again Ansh speaks out of his turn when Gaytari ask a question who told you to cook the puries??? Insolently Ansh says he did' Man this little boy needs a tape on his big mouth'

Meanwhile all the rituals being done in the kitchen by the new DILs'. Yash walks in his room and sees the mess on the bed' He walks up to the bathroom and sees his bathroom completely turn over by Ansh.. His towel and toiletry on the floor and his saving cream was used to paint the mirror' Yash looks at everything then he steps in the room and sees everything.. His face shows that he has made some conclusion already that this has to be taken care for first..

Oh man was he pissed looking at the mess in his bedroom?? I just do not understand how Aarti can leave the room in complete mess like that... Ansh says jump and she will look adoringly at her son.. give him few kisses and will lovingly caress him and ask how high???

The thunderous voice of Yash was enough to make every one run in to the hiding... He calls the servant Ramdayal'and ask to clean up the mess.. I hope the servant puts everything in garbage including Aarti's bag and cloths... Man I would be pissed to if someone did like that with my bathroom and bedroom..

I love the precap...

Yash putting his foot down about Ansh... And Aarti was still worried about Ansh's feelings rather than his misbehavior..

Yes this mother and son need lots of lessons from master Yash...

I think Yash may ask to put him to the boarding school if he does not listen at all... ( I take this sentence back' not Yash but Gayatri may think about it'. And Yash will not let that happen')

let's see how it goes... but yes Yash I am with you... Someone needs to teach Ansh some manners and someone needs to tell this blind mother to be tough when it comes to teach mannerism to this child... It is her insecurity that has made her weak mom...

She can be tough with others and come out with hockey stick but with her son she spoils him rotten...

Another filler episode but they are going to extreme with Ansh so Yash can take some tough decisions...

That's all for today' love to all eva'

Originally posted by: evasumi

I think Yash may ask to put him to the boarding school if he does not listen at all...

let's see how it goes... but yes Yash I am with you... Some one needs to teach Ansh some manners and someone needs to tell this blind mom to be tough when it comes to teach mannerism to this child... It is her insecurity that has made her weak mom...

Angake, I can understand what you are trying to say.. this thought just cross my mind...

Originally posted by: santudi

😡In this sereial all story is forcing kid (ANSH) ONLY. AND THIS KID IS VERY RUDE AND UNNOWING LY.please... cv change the topic.
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Nice post!!
Agree with you!!
Disappointed with Aarti how can she fulfill all the demands without thinking wht is being demanded is right or wrong and how can she leave a room in such a mess when she herself is new there and dint even think once wht the other persons might think abt it.
Looking forward for Yash to teach his new son some manners

Though I am upset with Aarti... but one way I am glad also that CVs are brining that in...

Agree with you Eva,

Some one should take that step to teach Ansh what is behavior and respect to elders are.And I think Yash is the best person to do so as I don't think Arati will do that.

Also in the precap the raised tone by Yash not only is good for Ansh but also for Arati, because even if she would have opened her mouth the first thing that came out would have been, are you ok Ansh and this would have messed up the situation more. Also even though Ansh behaved very rudely to Pankaj, I don't think Arati would have atleast told a Sorry to him. So its better in all ways that Yash has opened his mouth than Arati.

Eva liked your analysis, somehow I wasn't that mad at Aarti yesterday.In yesterday's episode at kitchen when she tried to move to give her puris after gayatri's bash, I felt for Aarti, she is in too much pressure. I thought her too much love towards Ansh is justified. I mean when I am very upset or too nervous I reach out to kids more than usual or hug them, as they are mine, and they make me feel safe and happy specially when i am not in uncomfortable place. I feel as they are my flesh and blood they can feel my pain and sadness.

While Aansh is undisiplined, I can still understand Aarti's desire to make sure her son is dressed and has eaten. Though I agree she should have done the same for Yash's daughters in order to bring them together as a family. Adjustments will not come on Day 1, but I am sure they will come.