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As i hv told earlier too, the forum hs created so much confusion tht a lot of terms need to be redefined. we hv already discussed how changed the meaning of Faminism and doormate, now i m confused abt wht really mean by the term STRONG WOMAN😉
Pizza madam hs been defined as a Strong woman and Anandi as a weak woman, but as per my earlier understanding a strong woman sd:
1. hv Strong will power, who can take strong decesions on her own and not easily misguided - now lets she how strong our Pizza madam on this creteria. Whn she came to know abt Jogia cheating, she made a strong statement tht she dosnt want to hv any relation with a cheater, but one night shower of Jaggu dada and she took 360 deg turn😆. she not only agreed to marry with the same cheater, but she was so in hurry tht even didnt think it necessary to atleast chk the facts. is it called a strong will power and ability to take strong decision??😕 she was even easily manipulated and misguided by a cheater. now m i wrong if i m confused abt the real meaning of strong woman??😕 😆😆 If Gauri is a Strong woman thn wht abt those women, whom i earlier thought they r strong. very confusing😉😕
2. A strong woman believe in herself and not suffer from inferiority complex - now lets see the self believes of our pizza madma. i think she think abt and believe in Anandi more thn herself😆😆 a selfe believing woman cant be insecure. she is insecure becoz she think tht Anandi can snatch her TRUE LOVE from her😆😆 her believe in Anandi's snatching power is more thn her holding power😆 she is also always try to show herself better thn Anandi, which is a sighn of inferiority complex. she feel jealousy with Anandi success and respect she is getting, becoz her believe tht she cant get those things, which make her jealous. she cant even believe tht she can win the love of her TRUE love on her own, without planning and plotting. on the other hand Sumi self belive was so strong tht she believes tht at last her son will come back to her, without doing anything. as per my understanding this is called self believe👏 Now tell me if such weak self believe is the criteria of strong woman thn wht abt those woman, who achieve in their life with their self believe😆😆 very confusing na😉
3. Another very important quality of a strong woman is her convincing power - Now lets see how much convincing power our pizza madam posseses. She cant convince Jogia tht he is a cheater and she cant marry with her, but in opposite, she was convinced tht he is her TRUE LOVE. She cant convince Singh family tht she is really love of their ladla and they hv done nothing wrong, but she is convinced tht she is no one for thm. She cant convince Bade Papa, Shivani, Kunda Tai, no one, tht wht she is doing is rit. she cant even convince Jogia, to beg divorce and not beg money from Anandi, but she was convinced to become keep and continue begging money from her sautan😆she is always convinced by her Antaryami Mummy for all wrong things😡 the only time she showed her convincing power (in personal life front) whn she convinced her great mummy tht she will be very happy by marrying with a cheater (not very good cause to show convincing power)😆😆 confusion and only confusion😉
4. Cool and calm - Its not only woman, but its general quality of any Strong person tht they r cool and calm, becoz they believe in themself and not get frustrated easily. people generally loose temper, whn they know tht they cant do anything and situation is out of control. here Pizza madam is always on boiling and even on bursting point😆. she looses her temper for every small things. i can see only strong things in her is her Strong High Pitch Vocal system😆😆 which certainly need some extra volume control system😆.
as we hv seen our Pizza mada is just opposit of above criteria, which i hd been beleving must hv quality for a strong woman, and sill a brand ambassdor of STRONG WOMAN, thn confusion to banta hai😆😆 the only song which come in my mind is:
Jab maine serial dekha, fir forum me akhe padha,
Confuuused ho gaya raba raba😆😆😆
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