The wise woman - Why Baa has acted the way she has

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Vinder90
very good posts by everyone, i have nothing to say, apart from hope, that Rahi's true colors get exposed soon, coz I cant see Rashi getting credit for a good thing while she does not deserve it at all.. If it werent for Gopi's challenge which no one knows about, Rashi would not have talked to baa at the mandir

but i have good hopes for Koki, she will emerge a lot stronger,

Vinder.. This track is especially to bring the older generation closer. Will Rashi take credit? I doubt it.. If this turns out as I think this would, Baa will show everyone why this happened and Rashi smile will be wiped off completely.

Koki will emerge stronger and wiser. She will choose her battles better from now on😃

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ANJ4

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Very nice ananlysis , keep my finger crossed ... hope it turns out the way you say.

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: NazmaJ
Excellent post Harini!!

I enjoyed today's episode and it highlighted the difference in the four DILs of the house.
Kokila has been strong all her life and even now is taking the circumstances within her stride. Yes she is upset but she has exercised a rigid control over her feelings and ensured she was able to face whatever was coming.
Hetal has completely dissolved into emotionalism here. She's upset and rightly so - she didn't imagine that this would happen, however it shows her character through and through. The lady needs someone to lean on whether it be Koki, Chirag or Jigar.
Gopi is upset because the people she loves are being hurt and even though she knows that it's an act by Baa the emotions are real therefore she feels their pain.
Rashi however is focussed on the fact that her and baa's plan is working. Her immaturity shines through because she cannot empathise with the fact that forget Kokila but her own MIL is in pain at the thought of a split. It doesn't really matter that it's fake. More than that she can see how upset Jigar is but that doesn't impinge on her emotions either.

It just shows the truth and depth of feeling that the other ladies have and it should be obvious to Gopi ans baa too!

Thanks Nazma..😃

The reactions of all Bahus told us exactly where they stand. Rashi, only thought of herself.. She sees herself being free from Gopi's ultimatum and also enjoying Baa's confidence..

Hetal is just Hetal. She did not expect the split and is really sad.. She still looks for others to solve her problems for her..

Koki was dignified but we can see how affected she is because of the split. She has more questions than answers now for Mota Bhabhi.

Gopi is a darling. She feels the pain for everyone..

What I liked was the way the men reacted. Jigar as usual tried to joke his way through and was admonished correctly. The older men were told that they did not concentrate on the important stuff.. As for Aham, he was asked to look at relations like relations and not official work.. Baa has caught the pulse of the entire family and that gives me great confidence.

She would have caught the pulse of the younger DILs too.. Lets see what Baa has in store for us😃

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: suk19
nice analysis by everyone 👏

Thanks Suk😃

Originally posted by: swasthi
Great post Harini.

Yes, Baa is very wise indeed.

She is playing devil's advocate by deepening the rift between Kokila and Hetal and converting it into reality. She is making her DILs to have a taste of what the possibility could be should the separation be carried out.

Baa wants to involve the entire family so that each and every family member can reset their thoughts and behave as one family.

In a situation like in a family, the genuine, heartfelt members feel it instantly, like Gopi and Jigar; the ones who are willing to play the game will reveal their true colours along the way, as in the case of Rashi.

What would be even better is whether Baa, through this process ,will be able to reveal to all the real culprit, using her Poirot moment again.

Swasthi, Baa is doing everything possible to make her family see their shortcomings.. I think she has made the men aware that sticking to office and letting the house without caring about what is happening cannot be ever good..

And the fear of an actual split will make her DILs come to the realization of what is going wrong quicker.. If in the process Rashi's true colors are seen then good but I think one way or the other, her shortcomings are going to be seen soon😛

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Nandita / Tina

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Harini, wonderful really appreciate your writing such a lovely and sensible post👏

I am sure Baa has something up her sleeves😉 she'll double cross Rashi.

Rashi babes...get set to make dumbass cakes with your Mom & SIL Kinjal didi 😆.

There is going to be no split finally only high volume dragging and drama🥱

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jazz54321

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Posted: 13 years ago

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a wonderful post 👍🏼 ..i did not like how rashis deeds were just covered up but then i am hoping something like the education track happens..where we had Ahem helping Gopi and getting them closer at the end of it.

and so i was just wondering if the cvs are hiding more from us..using Baas character to control all the members of the family as well as bring out harmony once again and show the devils face.

What if..Gopi has spoken to Baa and told her of Rashis deeds in leading to a rift between Kokila and Hetal and Baa on purpose gives the arti plate to Rashi knowing the end of it..Kokila telling rashi off and Hetal not liking it. then she speaks to Rashi and knows her views and decides to play along with Rashi to teach her DILs a lesson as well as in the end convey to all what Rashi had done and Gopi (being surprised at what Baa just did) is asked to play along with Baa and is asked to trust Baa, allowing Rashi to think everything is going her way..but Baa knows better.

Also, there was a point where Baa told Rashi you should have let Gopi tell Ahem everything..the men need to know and be here too. she has warned her not to say anything to Kokila and Ahem may not be able to take his mom being so hurt and might be very upset leading to Gopi calming him down and maybe telling him the reason for the split, what she knows and hopes. OR Gopi will be soo upset playing along with Rashi knowing that Rashi had done this on purpose that she cries out and Ahem hears her.

Sorry for this long rant...but i am really hoping like you all say that at the end of this track there is some positivism..