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Posted: 13 years ago
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These are comments right many people make about our Ahemji.. the people who thinks Ahemji is Mama's boy.. i don't confront them.. but Isay he is not only mama's boy.. responsible husband.. though he didn't express his feelings.. the one he loves he will fight for them alot.. you can please check the below video..who all say Ji mom, yes Mom.. how strong he is, when is it really requires what can he do...Ahem ji is talk less.. works more.. His anger also shows love.. if trust someone he will believe them completly

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBo3WxKNkhs&feature=relmfu



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey you pointed out the right video...👍🏼
n about..Ji Mom,Yes Mom ,Ok Mom...I would say...initially Ahem world revovled around especially koki...but as an when he started realising gopi he started looking from her POV also...n now not only his heart respect koki but also gopi...as a friend,wife etc...Ahem always support the truth n accordingly he works out for that...if he find any situations right he will go for that(patching up raji)...previously koki was his mom,guide of his life...but as gopi came in his life she also change his life along with koki...So completely saying that Ahem is saying mama boy is wrong...but instead he supports the the person whose POV is right
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sandy.. Well made post👏 And superb example⭐️

Listening to your mom does not make you a momma's boy. Aham has been brought up by his mom and his character is basically like hers. He is also strict, shy, gets angry quickly but is fair and just.

Till Gopi came, there was nothing really he had to oppose her on except about his marriage to Gopi. That was the only time he did not take a stand against his mother. Maybe he knew himself that Anitha was not right for his family?
But he has been supporting the right person after he started realizing who Gopi is really.. Actually even before realizing that.. Aham is a passionate person and he sides the right from his PoV.

Just because he is silent and is not a happy bunny does not make him a Mom's boy or that matter now a Joru ka gulaam. He analyses situations and takes a fair decision of whom to support.
When Gopi said they had to help Jigar and Rashi, he understood the truth behind those words and decided to help but when Kokila punished him for the same, he again understood her PoV and took that punishment as due..
That makes him adorable. How many people put on other's shoes to see their PoV? Aham is more than just "Yes Mom" " Ji Mom"... He is a good son and a husband and a smart one at that who knows how to handles his relations.
I wonder if people even see the episodes to see the way his character is developed before even commenting this way.😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Sandy, Hetal and Harini 👏 well said. I feel the same as all three of you. Now I want to take this opportunity to say things from a mom who has a son similar to Ahem...Mama's boy and damn proud of it...

What is a mama boy? Is mama's boy mean you are only listening to you mom? Or does it mean that you are so blinded by your mother that you don't see anyone else's POV? Maybe being a mama's boy means you are incapable of being a good husband or a good father, maybe you are only capable of loving you mom and no one else?

Well if that is what is your description of a mama's boy, I am here to break some major news to you...it is not true!

My son loves me, for him when he was a toddler his day started with me and ended with me. If by chance someone else (joint family) came to him when he woke up, I knew he was going to be cranky all day. He loves me 😃

Now saying that my son is now 15 and I can tell you not much has changed. To him I am everything. If I get upset, he's upset...you get the point. Now he leaves no stone unturned to tell me if I am wrong. He will fight for me when he knows I am right. He is always around to comfort me...He hugs me and tells me he loves me at least 5 times a day. I love it 😃

Ahem is a mama's boy and Kokila should be proud that she has raised such a son who is responsible and completely capable of running a business and taking care of his family.

Ahem and Kokila are a unique set of mother/son and I for one am so happy that Ahem is shown to portray a true mama's boy. A man who can fight for his mom and have her be the most important person in his life and yet at the same time love his wife with just as much intensity.

Mama's boys are the best. They learn early on how to take care of their wives. They understand the strain a woman goes thru in the day to day lives. And we have seen it in Ahem and how he treats Gopi now that he has realized her true worth.

Being a mama's boy means you have embedded in you principles, love, honesty, integrity, and above all respect for women. Now tell me what is wrong with being a mama's boy?

Sorry for the long rant, But I had to get a little personal to achieve my point. I hope I didn't bore you all 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

@ Sandy, Hetal and Harini 👏 well said. I feel the same as all three of you. Now I want to take this opportunity to say things from a mom who has a son similar to Ahem...Mama's boy and damn proud of it...


What is a mama boy? Is mama's boy mean you are only listening to you mom? Or does it mean that you are so blinded by your mother that you don't see anyone else's POV? Maybe being a mama's boy means you are incapable of being a good husband or a good father, maybe you are only capable of loving you mom and no one else?

Well if that is what is your description of a mama's boy, I am here to break some major news to you...it is not true!

My son loves me, for him when he was a toddler his day started with me and ended with me. If by chance someone else (joint family) came to him when he woke up, I knew he was going to be cranky all day. He loves me 😃

Now saying that my son is now 15 and I can tell you not much has changed. To him I am everything. If I get upset, he's upset...you get the point. Now he leaves no stone unturned to tell me if I am wrong. He will fight for me when he knows I am right. He is always around to comfort me...He hugs me and tells me he loves me at least 5 times a day. I love it 😃

Ahem is a mama's boy and Kokila should be proud that she has raised such a son who is responsible and completely capable of running a business and taking care of his family.

Ahem and Kokila are a unique set of mother/son and I for one am so happy that Ahem is shown to portray a true mama's boy. A man who can fight for his mom and have her be the most important person in his life and yet at the same time love his wife with just as much intensity.

Mama's boys are the best. They learn early on how to take care of their wives. They understand the strain a woman goes thru in the day to day lives. And we have seen it in Ahem and how he treats Gopi now that he has realized her true worth.

Being a mama's boy means you have embedded in you principles, love, honesty, integrity, and above all respect for women. Now tell me what is wrong with being a mama's boy?

Sorry for the long rant, But I had to get a little personal to achieve my point. I hope I didn't bore you all 😃

That touched my heart! That is such a beautiful relationship!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

@ Sandy, Hetal and Harini 👏 well said. I feel the same as all three of you. Now I want to take this opportunity to say things from a mom who has a son similar to Ahem...Mama's boy and damn proud of it...


What is a mama boy? Is mama's boy mean you are only listening to you mom? Or does it mean that you are so blinded by your mother that you don't see anyone else's POV? Maybe being a mama's boy means you are incapable of being a good husband or a good father, maybe you are only capable of loving you mom and no one else?

Well if that is what is your description of a mama's boy, I am here to break some major news to you...it is not true!

My son loves me, for him when he was a toddler his day started with me and ended with me. If by chance someone else (joint family) came to him when he woke up, I knew he was going to be cranky all day. He loves me 😃

Now saying that my son is now 15 and I can tell you not much has changed. To him I am everything. If I get upset, he's upset...you get the point. Now he leaves no stone unturned to tell me if I am wrong. He will fight for me when he knows I am right. He is always around to comfort me...He hugs me and tells me he loves me at least 5 times a day. I love it 😃

Ahem is a mama's boy and Kokila should be proud that she has raised such a son who is responsible and completely capable of running a business and taking care of his family.

Ahem and Kokila are a unique set of mother/son and I for one am so happy that Ahem is shown to portray a true mama's boy. A man who can fight for his mom and have her be the most important person in his life and yet at the same time love his wife with just as much intensity.

Mama's boys are the best. They learn early on how to take care of their wives. They understand the strain a woman goes thru in the day to day lives. And we have seen it in Ahem and how he treats Gopi now that he has realized her true worth.

Being a mama's boy means you have embedded in you principles, love, honesty, integrity, and above all respect for women. Now tell me what is wrong with being a mama's boy?

Sorry for the long rant, But I had to get a little personal to achieve my point. I hope I didn't bore you all 😃


Aww Rupal.. that was fabulous👏
You are absolutely right.. If what you have described is a Mamma's boy then any mother and for that matter any wife should be proud to have such a man in her life..😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Ang and Harini, my devar is a mama's boy and he has fought his own family for her when he knew in his heart she was right. So the above mentioned is him and I see my son heading the same way...I am proud to be a mother of a mama's boy...the only bad part 😕 He is almost 6 feet tall and in the mornings he still sits on my lap...not that I am complaining 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

@ Ang and Harini, my devar is a mama's boy and he has fought his own family for her when he knew in his heart she was right. So the above mentioned is him and I see my son heading the same way...I am proud to be a mother of a mama's boy...the only bad part 😕 He is almost 6 feet tall and in the mornings he still sits on my lap...not that I am complaining 😉


😆 He will grow out of it surely 😉but the best part is he will still come to you for things and support when it is needed😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Aww Rupal.. that was fabulous👏
You are absolutely right.. If what you have described is a Mamma's boy then any mother and for that matter any wife should be proud to have such a man in her life..😛




Harini, I think that the stigma for mama's boy was put when some overbearing mothers used that relationship to strain the sons married life. It is not fair to all the other mothers who have sons who are mama's boys and still find a unique balance between the two most important women in his life. And also there are some wives who feel her husband should not have any contact with the mother and so they use the words mama's boy to make it sound like an insult. But the reality of it is how Ahem is portraying it. He loves his mom and he loves his wife and he has shown balance as we saw when he stood up for Gopi during the education track.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

@ Ang and Harini, my devar is a mama's boy and he has fought his own family for her when he knew in his heart she was right. So the above mentioned is him and I see my son heading the same way...I am proud to be a mother of a mama's boy...the only bad part 😕 He is almost 6 feet tall and in the mornings he still sits on my lap...not that I am complaining 😉



That was such adorable & cute( Ur son).. I heard it many times.. A person who respects & loves his mom.. he loves his wife, infact not only wife he gives the same respect to evry girl.. and i am witnessed for that.. my bro, he loves my mom alot, she is the world for him.. but in my case he took care me so well & protect me always, though i feel he was restricting me.. i know how he care for me & loves me.. I never heard he is absuing a single girl.. though the girl is doing wrong... he says god is there , we dont know what is her problem we shouldn't make nay comments..


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