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Nikhila

@Angels_Sweetz

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

With soo many posts made on the forum Condition, i want to say something too

1stly i would like to request our fellow forum Members to Stop blaming the other category of fans for this condition of the Forum!!! If u guys think properly u will understand how it started and wht lead it to make it this way!!! And if some ppl arent still realising or understanding, with all these issues our forum is becoming worse day by day and getting into all these competitions, wars and all, we are failing to appreciate the show or its scenes!!!

I would like to say my POV abt this forum and its condition..those who have patience read below

1st

The condition of this messy forum is not due to a particular set of fans!!! All category of fans are equally responsible for this Competitive war like environment over here!!!! And most Importantly...its NOT ALL but basically few ppl...Couple of ppl amg all fan categories who are making this forum a mess!!!

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Any out sider can clearly understand that all this forum topics basically look like Sumit vs Rati topics or else like Rishi Vs Indira topics. Where Individual fan category try hard to show how good their fav star/Character is and how their fans appreciate them. A Competition to see our Fav Actors/Character topics on the 1st page or the numb of posts!!! Is this some peice of Land jisse log kabzaah karne pe thule hue hai??? Have we broken this forum into Rishi's fans part and Indira fans part!!!!

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The obssession of all category of fans has now reached to this stage that...all that they do is only 2 things...Apne fav character ki khoobiya dhoodke unke mahaanta pe post banao aur apne opposing character ke kamiya dhoodke unhe bash karo!!! Hardly we find any balanced comments!!! Forget abt comments...we hardly find any balanced, meaningful, Good discussions!!!! Seeing such comments really hurt other category of fans!!!

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HD fans have now totally broken into Rati/Indira, Rishi/Sumit, Mrunal/Sameer fan categories!!! Inshi, Sara, HD fans are all lost somewhere!!!! Few Members bash actors, characters and fellow members over here!!! With this breakage and wars...all sensible ppl who arent here for some childish quarrels are feeling suffocated and bugged to the extent tht none feel like reading nor commenting on any posts!!!

Are we ppl here for these fights??? is this wht this forums is for???

Whn characters/Actors arent fighting thn why are their fans fighting like this???

Why cant ppl accept some basic facts like HD is basically show of Indira where Rishi has come into her life as someone who is going to make her smile!!! And why cant ppl accept tht both these characters arent perfect...eachone has their own minus points. Why do Indira fans bash Rishi saying he is immature and not sensible etc etc and come to a conclusion tht Rishi isnt the correct person for Indira??? Similarly why do Rishi's fans bash Indira saying she is brainless, ungreatful etc etc and come to a conclusion tht Rishi doesnt deserve such a person..he shd get someone better who will value him??? Cant these category ppl see tht inspite of everything These 2 Indira and Rishi have fallen in love with eachother...their hearts have chosen the other!!! Sooner or later they will be and are going to be together!!! Thn why do these ppl(fans) bash the other character!!!! Which couple doesnt have misunderstanding!!! Dont u find any couple where a partner is hurt by something related to the other partner!!! Why are these fan categories bashing other characters for such things!!!! Ek Character ko mahaan dikhane ke liye, directly or indirectly Dusre character ko neecha kyu dikha rahe hai!!! Cant we have balanced thoughts!!!

P.S - Mods please close this topic if it becomes another ground for bashing characters/Actors or attacking other forum members!!!

Edited by Angels_Sweetz - 13 years ago

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sara

@erica316

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Posted: 13 years ago

good post..hope those peoples came to light and accept the actors as there r...

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Mamoona

@Silent.Dreamer

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

Nikhila i must say u r a sweetheart.

ok i have to say something too. i was noticing many things and i wont blame any particular group bcoz mistakes were on both sides. cant we just appreciate the show? and in all this we are just wasting our time. and its high time to move on and accept changes. and i love HD and Indira and i want to enjoy the show rather than bashing here. and people here are mature enough to decide what they wanna do . and HD is not about Indira V/S Rishi. and its very sad that the condition of this forum is getting worse day by day.

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Passion_17

@Passion_17

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Well said nikhi 👏 U said it all n in d most correct manner possible...rather than blaming each other if each one of us luk n think abt our own comments n respect others pov n choices then it wud b better...just bcos of a few bashers d whole forum has turned into a mess...
All of us hv better things 2 do outside d forum..we come here 2 chill n share r views abt d show n characters we luv n den leave...it's like a stress buster 4 most of us...bt wats d point if this place itself gives more stress 2 us...we'd better watch d show widout discussing here...
I request members here 2 forgive n forget...just ignore provoking posts n move on...
Hope ur post doesn't become another battleground...will return here once peace is restored in d forum...

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moksha89

@moksha89

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

👏 lovely post, nikhila!

not much else that i can add.

being in the category of the fan who likes every character since they're like ingredients to a good dish - its hard to find a post about the events, etc. that happen in HD, and healthy discussions regarding the show.

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Yukti

@Yukti22

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

Nikhi I am pissed off with this forum. I wish if I could get the old days back. Those droolicious days with no bashers around😍. But these days we aren't even able to express our opinions. When we do, we get bashed and vice versa. This not only leads to conflicts but also creates tension among the fans. Some posts directly mock on an actor's talent and some intend to critisize a fictional character. I would just like to say every individual is attached to their fav with unbreakable bond. If I love Rati, you can't change my choice with mocking comments. Similarly If you love Rishi, I can't change your choice with mocking comments. But what's happening in the forum is really worse. Here ppl directly attack members, make mocking comments on them. They can't respect other's opinion and preach others to respect their opinion. Sometimes their mocking comments provoke me for another battle, but I do control my temper to some extent but when it crosses limit, I reply them. I know I should not but I also cannot live in the environment where my views are not respected.
The forum has developed TIT FOR TAT attitude. And Some members act as catalysts in the forum. They just try to put salt on the wounds. I really didn't find Ridhi's topic offensive but it got worse as ppl thought we are bashing and called the whole act as PREPLANNED. It just depends on you how you take the topic. If its not acc to your wish then just ignore it.

Edited by -Yukti- - 13 years ago

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rajh

@rajh

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

very well written post.

but will ever people able to accept rishi and indira are inseparable in this show??

in this show rishi and indira are made for each other.

once we accept this fact then everything will fall in place.

Edited by 100raj - 13 years ago

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-SweetGirl-

@-SweetGirl-

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

First Thanks a ton for this Topic Nikhila ji ! 😃 You have said it all and I will just add my Bits !

If Forum seems Messy Its soo rightly said the Blame is on all -and I mean all Who contributed it to become like this ! and People Who did it knows very well ! Well I m not on with HD forum from a day one ! But atleast from Where I m here I hv never shown such a Silly and negative environment here ! Dunno How It became like that ! Well the Old and Loyal members of Show Who are been here W ether they are sam/Rishi or indu Fan Must know What I wanna say ! Dint earlier people used to love Indu,Rishi or Sam individually ! Than Why that time there was no War on Forum every time I wonder ! I used to feel like reply each and every thread even from my work ! Was addicted to here But Now !

Well Its not about Rishi or Indu fans Its about Choices ! Which cant be same for every member Anyways.But there is some thing called Mutual respect and Healthy Discussion Which I miss on this Forum badly Now-a-days ! I just Hope THE BLAME game gets over ! and We get the better place to be To Discuss our beloved show !

My Pravachan is soo long !😆 But this Is some thing I really wanted to say ! 😛 Hope I hv not offended anyone !😛 and Even If I did than I guess it must be there problem to get my point !😉
and If Mods gonna read this Topic i wanna mention one more thing ! I miss my RP AT.Sake of those Bunch of Bashers and problem creators i cant efford to loose my RP AT and fun with my friends.Hope I m getting it back soon ! Rather I would say I really want it BACK !

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surbhi tyagi

@EtherealRati

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

i agree with you nikhila...thanks for the post...
and i will like to stress on the point...that not one fan group can be blamed for the conditions...both are equally involved...and there is way to control all this and that is that people should start appreciating criticisms and take them in a positive way...others view should be respected and people should not be subdued...before writing a comment , we should make sure that it isn't rude ...we need to take care of others feelings...healthy discussion should be encouraged and healthy discussions can even go on the topics...between two persons who dont agree at all with each other...if done in a nice manner...and the forum can be calm...

asking for peace doesn';t mean...that nobody is allowed to share their views if the view is criticizing but its about answering in a good manner to other's ...stop targeting members...

Edited by Surbhi123 - 13 years ago

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Divya

@MyInspirationz

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

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Nikhi.. Must say a very nice post... and beautifully written too...

Let me admit that I have been a silent member on this forum... The very sight of the forum, the situations and the brainless bashing makes me stay away from this forum..

And I know that A LOT OF PEOPLE HERE are MID's... who just spoil the entire environment of the forum.. by writing without thinking... and they are successful in their so -called acts as there are equal number of people who react in haste... This situation can be easily tackled by hitting the report button or just ignoring them... but by mere outrage of words, the bashing is taken to totally another level and at times personal too...

So, I would just request people here, to use their brains and common sense .. and Let's remember, this is a virtual world.. and we all come here only for entertainment and diversion... and for adoring our fav's.. and everyone is entitled to post their opinions.. If anyone doesn't like a topic or a character or a actor, better to stay away from that topic rather than creating ruckus and unplesant scenes in the forum on a daily basis..

Nikhi.. I hadn't thought that I would end up writing my usual length post here.. But Thanks a lot for opening this thread..

Edited by .Divya. - 13 years ago