I'm married to a guy who is just like ASR (Note: I said ASR, not Arnav) in business and the only time he becomes Arnav is when he is around me.
Funnily enough I started watching this soap because the relationship dynamics are somewhat same to our life (the only difference is he never man-handled me... he always touched me like I'm made of crystal, even in the initial days when I thought he was a grade A, A$$hole and he thought I was a brainless bimbo... But later I loved how he became so protective of me and he loved my bubbly personality and positive outlook to life.
In fact, when we got married we decided to get cake topper which resembled our personalities. So Belle from Beauty and the Beast represented me as I'm a pie eyed optimist disney princess personality and Dirth Vader (Villain from Star Wars) represented him as he is a cynic and ruthless strategist.
Don't get me wrong. We still fight like cats and dogs... But we never go to bed angry because now he knows how to cheer me up with a smile and a sorry... and I know how to cheer him up with a hug and smile...