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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am getting really sick of how much Sandhya just ignores Suraj. He is nothing but good to her and all she does is sit there with a sour look on her face and when he talks she only answers if she wants to. I dont understand her character at all. CV's are trying to convince the viewers that she is so honest and good but look at how selfish she really is. Why does she want to stay in this marriage if she doesnt want a husband? She is going to let Suraj live like a bachelor his entire life? No kids no nothing? What is her plan. When she acts the way she did at the end of todays episode she reminds of a stuck up maharani...makes me so angry! 😡

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree, I hope Bhabho throws her out, she doesn't deserve Suraj. He deserves someone who will love him & appreciate him for who he is. This girl attitude sucks & it's terrible acting on Deepika's part seriously girl learn to keep your mouth close & learn some acting
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yep! Sandhya is sad at the momet hence the reaction...and let this 15 day test finish first which is tomorrow. lets see how she will ignore our Suraj from then on
so guys have patience for one more day.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you hazeleyedangel . Sandhya takes all the verbal abuse of Bhaboo but never shows atitude to her. But with Suraj, she completely goes in to a cocooon and acts as if he is an outsider. She neglects his presence or feelings in serious situations. Even in comedy or romantic scenes where she can freely interact with Suraj, she keeps herself aloof. She takes his goodness for granted. All tension in her spreads in each and every episode. This show has become a serious tension ridden drama which is unending.
I ask the creatives one question. Can any relation be normal after such an abusing nagging, blaming, accusing, humiliating dialogues were hurled against any person , be it a daughter-in-law or a wife or anybody.
This bhaboo has to go to Hardwar taking sanyas and stay on the banks of ganga for the rest of her life for the sin she commited. I hate her with my whole heart.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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On one hand I understand how she feels and what she is going through but on the other hand it is really unfair to Suraj and it makes her seem like she doesn't care. smh 🤢
Edited by Shas3 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I disagree as well...i think that Sandy's behavior was understandable...day in and day out she is being accused or taunted of random things she did not do...and the last thing she wants to hear is someone being chatty and looking at the silver lining of all that just happened.

Yes Suraj is also justified - he was trying to optimistic and talk to sandy - but he shud have understood that after a tough battle of trying to prove herself... the last thing she wants to think about is how her fate is still in the hands of the woman who has nothing better to do then to accuse her of anything and everything...

i wish sandy wud open up to suraj - but that is yet to happen... at least she didnt explode on him - if that had happened - i wud not have found that justified - but her quietly going to sleep was acceptable (at least in my opinion)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidra2007

I disagree as well...i think that Sandy's behavior was understandable...day in and day out she is being accused or taunted of random things she did not do...and the last thing she wants to hear is someone being chatty and looking at the silver lining of all that just happened.

Yes Suraj is also justified - he was trying to optimistic and talk to sandy - but he shud have understood that after a tough battle of trying to prove herself... the last thing she wants to think about is how her fate is still in the hands of the woman who has nothing better to do then to accuse her of anything and everything...

i wish sandy wud open up to suraj - but that is yet to happen... at least she didnt explode on him - if that had happened - i wud not have found that justified - but her quietly going to sleep was acceptable (at least in my opinion)

I agree with your post Sidra and frankly if you put yourself in Sandy's place ... all that you mentioned in your post any normal person would have exploded in their private space...
Sandhya's private space in that house is her bedroom and Suraj happens to be there and when you are in this state of mind esp when Bhabho even suspects the proof of the loan paper that she took the trouble to get ... how can you feel friendly or positive abt anything...
Sandhya's behaviour was justified under the circumstances and Suraj - we know what he did for Sandhya I mean getting meenakshi to present that necklace but Sandhya is unaware of his involvement in it...
How can you expect her to feel grateful if she does not know that Suraj's involvement...
Also she feels closest to Suraj and really loves him bec one can only be off guard and be yourself or pour your bad feelings or take your loved ones for granted at such times...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hazeleyedangel

I am getting really sick of how much Sandhya just ignores Suraj. He is nothing but good to her and all she does is sit there with a sour look on her face and when he talks she only answers if she wants to. I dont understand her character at all. CV's are trying to convince the viewers that she is so honest and good but look at how selfish she really is. Why does she want to stay in this marriage if she doesnt want a husband? She is going to let Suraj live like a bachelor his entire life? No kids no nothing? What is her plan. When she acts the way she did at the end of todays episode she reminds of a stuck up maharani...makes me so angry! 😡



I didn't like that attitude either. from the beginning she has been like that. taking him for granted, talking when only she feels like. ignoring him. her attitude has always been very bizarre towards
him. a stuck up maharani like you said. don't like her either. 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Juna04

Sandhya's private space in that house is her bedroom and Suraj happens to be there and when you are in this state of mind esp when Bhabho even suspects the proof of the loan paper that she took the trouble to get ... how can you feel friendly or positive abt anything...
... Suraj - we know what he did for Sandhya I mean getting meenakshi to present that necklace but Sandhya is unaware of his involvement in it...
How can you expect her to feel grateful if she does not know that Suraj's involvement...


Totally agree with both of you. Sandhya is seething inside! In spite of everything she has done to prove her innocenc,e Bhabho simply walked off without even a word, forget an apology.

When I was watching that scene, where Suraj tries to reassure her, it just feels like empty platitudes when he knows as well as her that regardless of what Bhabho does tmrw, it is highly unlikely that Bhabho's negative attitude towards Sandhya is going to change anytime soon.

Actually, if you remember his conversation with Bhabhasa...in saying that he trusts Bhabho to do the right thing... it sounded more like he's trying to reassure himself...hoping that she will.

Sandhya must be majorly frustrated...not o mention the questions that Preethi has raised must be driving her her insane. Afterall, how much more can one person take. Like Juna04 pointed out...WE see what Suraj does for her, but SHE is not always aware so how can you blame her.

As far as she is concerned, she is having to prove herself to Suraj too. She must be hurting so much. We know she has a tendency to erupt when upset. So like sidra2007 said, rather then take it out on Suraj, she walked away like a sensible person. Why fake emotions like a smile when you're feeling completely shattered inside.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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though i agree dat sandhya is rong in ignoring suraj completely bt i think dat if we put ourselves on her place den may be we wud hv also donwe da same thing.i mean she is in such a pathetic condition.she herself doesn't understand dat how much she luves suraj.bt she can feel dat she is doing wrong to suraj.nd dats da reason 4 dis attitude of her towards suraj.

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