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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gopi when she got married & entered into Modi house, she respected & valued all the relationships that have come along with her husband Ahemji, but the relationship she valued more was the relationship which she grew up, her Rashiben !!! She was very happy that she had the company of her sister for a lifetime & dreamt of settling down in her new home along with her Rashiben, loving & taking care of the family together.
Even when people around her reminded that she was a Jethani, she still lovingly called Rashi as Rashiben & gave her the respect of an elder sister. She never let Rashi feel that she needs to listen to her as she was her Jethani. At every instance & turn, she protected her sister, hid the mistakes she performed because she loved her without any conditions.
For the past few days she has been observing the changes in the house she thought was a house of love where her maaji & her kakiji the foundation of Modi parivar turning against each other. She saw the love they had vanishing from their relationship & she could see the family crumbling. She kept observing things happening, analysed the relationship & found evidences who was the one who was creating problems in her family.
Out of the love she had for her sister, she still hoped that what she was thinking was not true that it was not her Rashiben who was creating problems. She knew this was the right time to take action & correct it. She confronted Rashi with the the instances she was a witness. She listened to Rashi questioning her back but not answering her. She helped Rashi remember the past where the house especially her maaji & kakiji had so much of love & understanding between them & she showed Rashi what the future should also be...but as she listened to Rashi justifying what was happening, her doubt was confirmed that it was none other but her Rashiben. Till such time Gopi was a sister counselling & helping Rashi understand the importance of a family living together with love. But the moment Rashi rejected all of that & justified, for the 1st time, Gopi became a Jethani to her sister. She could not see the house which had given her that relationship break down because of one person.
She took immediate measures of correcting her devarani so that such things would never come up in future. She punished her devarani not by complaining to others, not by shouting but by stepping back in the relationship for her devarani to realise the importance of a relationship along with explaining to others why she (Gopi) was not talking to Rashi. As Rashi wanted Hetal & Koki to split, Gopi moved away from Rashi so that she could understand the vaccume of a relationship. This is a relationship in which both spend time with each other, everyday from the time they get up to till the time they sleep beyond the time spend with their husbands.
Rashi though wanting to ignore Gopi, cannot as because as Koki & Hetal's relationship has been for a longtime, so is Gopi & Rashi's as sisters, though Rashi may not love Gopi as much as Gopi loves, she cares for her, She looks back at Gopi for support & guidance when things do not go the way sas he expects., she shares her fears with her, she shares her happiness with her & she also uses her as her punching bag. With this will Rashi understand what it feels to be alone in a relationship without love !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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There was never a truer word said than in you anlysis Navya. You have coined it so perfectly. Well done and thank you.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Navyab hats off to you. What a brilliant analysis.

I was very proud of Gopi today and this is why Gopi is loved so much by all.

You don't have shout, yell, insult to get your point across. She maintained her younger sister status along with her Jethani duty.

There was no stammering or fear of the past on her face. Just as she said to Ahem they are our family she made the same point with Rashi today.

She didn't back down when Rashi said her parents took in a orphan like you ( that was scared Rashi reaching for straws. She tried to emotionally blackmail Gopi) Gopi did not cry when she was reminded of this in fact she had a knowing smile on her face as if she was saying to Rashi that line no loner effects me.

Gopi is stronger now, her family is being threatened and Rashi saying this just made her more determined. Gopi is confident knowing Ahem cares for her and Koki loves her. She is no longer a orphan, she has a family that loves her and she will protect her family against all evil even if it means she has to stand against the sister she love so much.

Bravo Gopi, you are one amazing person and this is why we love you. 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Brilliant post navya...and our gopi was just wonderful today...the way she told raashi whats what was a treat to watch...even in her role of jethani ,she was dignified and respectful...just ha ve to wait and see how raashi is going to push back...but this time gopi will be ready for her...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good analysis 👏👏 - Gopi is maintaining allher roles very well.

The CVs have handled this very well. No shouting or ugliness from Gopi - just firm resolve, great tact and great strategy.
Rashi doesn't know what hit her.
Go Gopi!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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good analysis..

I may not agree with you in rashi matter that she cares for gopi or share her fears or happiness with gopi.. that is not true.. rshi character is like that she can't hid any emotions.. she will just blurt it out..

may be deep down she may care for gopi as u said...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome analysis navya! I think we are all so proud of our gopi today! Finally the tide has turned and she accepts the role destiny has granted her!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Brilliant analysis Navya. Gopi shone today in the role of jethani for the first time and showed Rashi her place.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What an awesome post Navya..👏 That was brilliant⭐️
Today Gopi fulfilled all her responsibilities of being a DIL, a Jethani and a sister. She is really very commendable and I felt her strength in every word she spoke..
As a DIL, she understood the nature of the rift that was deepening between two loving people. Her smile when she saw them voice the same prasad says it all. She knows that her Maaji and Kakiji think for the family. But as Kaikeyi was swayed, her Kaki was being swayed while her Maaji remained clueless and was getting affected. She understood the problem and found the root cause.

As a Jethani, she questioned Rashi. She gave her the advice on how the family needs to stay together, confronted her with the truth she thought.. Maybe the sister in her wanted to give Rashi a chance to explain but Gopi saw that Rashi had no explanations. Her desperate attempts to emotionally blackmail Gopi was seen through with finesse.. I loved Gopi's small smile when Rashi talked about her being an orphan.. I think that confirmed it for her. This is usually Rashi's last ditch attempt to salvage the sinking ship.

Her advice that such fights do not occur in their family was an advice from a Jehthani to a Devrani.. A sensible advice of a caring, loving person. And finally her punishment..
Rashi now is going to lose 2 relationships.. A sister and a Jethani. A girl who would have given her life to save Rashi is now ready to fight for what she sees is right, in her own sweet way..

Rashi is confused, worried and frightened. Gopi does not need Rashi. But Rashi needs Gopi and she knows that... Gopi has been her savior, her protector, her sister and her confident.. She has used Gopi and has gained a lot from her.. Now this silence from Gopi will not be that easy to digest..😛

It is the best way to deal with Rashi.. Gopi proved today that she is a good student of her Maaji. She is wise, calm and can deal with problems with finesse.. She handled the things so well today, I think I can see a Koki in her. If she continues in the same vein she will be the perfect balance between Koki and Hetal😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome analysis: I also had that in mind and writing in another post in a slightly different way that with Gopi speaking out against Rashi, it will be in a way to make rashi on her side to make Rashi help Gopi to solve koki and hetal rift: BUT IT HAPPENED IN A WAY MORE BETTER WAY , could not have thought of asking any better than this

loved the analysis, really really SPOT ON 😃:: and again, good work to CVs, they sometimes do exceptionally well, and sometimes exceptionally BAD, so i hope they stay more towarsd the better side :)

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