What would you choose? Pyar ya Farz?

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Desigirl144

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hi guys!😊 Just thought I'd make the evening much more interesting!

So guys, my question to you all is, would you choose pyar or farz? Now don't think farz would be something patriotic! It can definitely be patriotic if you feel like such with your home countries! Or if you're like Ranveer😆It can be possibly any farz you have... such as family or other important responsibilities...

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Would you choose pyar? Would you choose love over anything? Is that important?

And now ladies and gentlemen, (since I know all you males are hiding in the forum! speak up... Im not of the judging type at all! Say as you please...) Disagree with me or agree with me, it's all upto you and inevitably your opinion matters!

And please! explain... discusss...! its important to be complete in your thoughts and opinions!😊

And if it were to me, I would probably choose farz. The person I am, I've learnt at an early stage that family comes first. Family well being is above all of your own needs and desires. If that someone you love will wait, so be it! In the long run it works out more and you have more love and appreciation growing every single day. I would give up my love to see everyone around me comfortable and happy. Now I'm not some sacrificing angel... I certainly do things that make me happy too and I'm pretty stubborn when I want to be so it goes both ways!😊

Enough about me!

Opinions...answers to my questions... feel free to disagree!😊

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Namita

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hola Desigirl, I am farz type of person. My parents and my son take precedent over everything!

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.dream-catcher.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am in hurry nw so I am posting a big lecture which i posted long back on this forum in 1st DOTW

"Okay!! So do we all really think we love our Country more than our family??? Reallyrechus,Aanchal,Sehar. Really?? I bet you all cant answer these things. The country not only need us for protection of it. Not only for its protection, not only in army or something to prevent invasion or to prevent wars,Luk after terrorism and to stop it. The country needs us for the progress for it, Progress of the nation we live me. In the betterment of the nation, for making our country what it was before a GOLDEN BIRD. Now how it needs us is the question. India needs its citizen not only to earn money and be the richest man to the world. India needs us to spread Literacy. 'Literacy" sounds a easy word right. Spreading literacy a more easy word. No its not. Have you tried to spread literacy??? I dont think anyone of you might have done! Am I right???? Ya I think I am right. Its not hard to spread knowledge. Spreading to one person id enough. But we never think of this. Will you ever try to teach you Maid's daughter??? Never!! Why?? Whats the big deal?? There is its the Reputation of "FAMILY". India needs us to stop poverty. Have we ever helped? No! Why? For poverty you need to give them food who need it but we prefer to give foods to our family member. We give 2 plates food to one member who can even survive well in just one plate and the other plate can be given to some poor people. But we never do it. Why? cause we LOVE our "FAMILY". Another thing we need to shorten up the gap between rich and poor. This is very simple You can find number of beggars on the road crying. They ask you for a penny but do you always give them?? No again why??Its not that we never give them i mentioned do we 'Always' and that too when we give we give out of pity or frustration or due to some meaningless customs but have we even gave money to anyone keeping this thought in mind that i might help our country to progress. No!Just cause we want to save those penny and use to buy Toys for children a packet of chips but have we ever thought its those beggars who need this penny more than us. We can survive without Toys and chips or whatever but those people cannot survive without food which they hardly get. Again cause we LOVE our FAMILY!. Many such things are there for we love our family! And we choose them beside the whole world. Now i dont think you all will be able to say I love my country more than my Family. There are very less people who actually loved their country who loved the world. Mentioning some of them. As i study in a Christian School I know something in Detail about Mother Terisa. For me she is the one who actually sacrificed her "Love" her "Family" for the Country for the World. She was in love with a man since her childhood and She even got engaged to him. But them something happened and she realized her duty towards the world. She broke her engagement dressed up as Nun made a group of womens and left her love and family behind and worked for the world. This is Love towards Nation. If you really Loved your country did you do something where our country was cursed with Tsunami did you did anything to provide relief??? No! We all sat in our homes, News Channel switched on and watching it. Is this love?? Again Loving our country is not only protecting it its helping it to progress."

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Xenia/Ksyusha Ivanova

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Posted: 13 years ago

poojawal_Pooja_ I agree with her...

Although I am not Indian but I know how to live in another country, my parents are diplomats, they are constantly moving from one place to another ...

Currently, I have forgotten what it means to be home ...

Everyone loves his country, but there are those who want to leave their country and go to another thinking that there will be better.

I have the answer, I think, without love there is no meaning of life and performance of duty.