BM ki Googlies : Who is Naukrani of Jogia?? - Page 4

By this logic all Singh family and even all Gouri hater hv full rit to Insult her, becoz as per this logic if u hate any person and tht person come before u, tht he give u rit to Insult him. so Gouri know very well tht Singh Family hate her to the core. but still she not only come shamelessly but even do nautanki so she not only give rit to insult but SHE BEG TO INSULT 😆 😆 😆 same for us, who dislike her and if she come on the screen, we hv full rit do do DE DANADAN. thn why sd. be any objection 😆 😆 😆

I'm not sure how the Singhs or Dadisa suffered in anyway for ruining young Gauri's or her family's lives which as we can see are still having a great psychological effect on her. Doesnt she have ANY right to be bitter towards those that gave her hell as a child? I agree the bitterness only came after the visit when she realised they weren't going to accept her but thats when the complex entered her mind that they were trying to take Jagya away from her yet again. We call her lunatic screamer naa...but thats because of the psychological impact her childhood experience had on her. And she feels a way to stop that is to go and scream at that family. Otherwise did we have any complaints about her character before she married Jogia? No. She was a very nice, humble girl. And what about her parents? We say they are like this and like that...but why do they not have a right to be bitter at that family? They had to uproot their whole lives and face badnaami for so long for very little fault of theirs. True...Gauri has no right to scream at or insult Anandi. Thats insecurity. But as for the screaming she does at Jogia...he deserves that AND much more - for being an absolutely insensitive, cheating, lying double standards prick even now!

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I'm not sure how the Singhs or Dadisa suffered in anyway for ruining young Gauri's or her family's lives which as we can see are still having a great psychological effect on her. Doesnt she have ANY right to be bitter towards those that gave her hell as a child? I agree the bitterness only came after the visit when she realised they weren't going to accept her but thats when the complex entered her mind that they were trying to take Jagya away from her yet again. We call her lunatic screamer naa...but thats because of the psychological impact her childhood experience had on her. And she feels a way to stop that is to go and scream at that family. Otherwise did we have any complaints about her character before she married Jogia? No. She was a very nice, humble girl. And what about her parents? We say they are like this and like that...but why do they not have a right to be bitter at that family? They had to uproot their whole lives and face badnaami for so long for very little fault of theirs. True...Gauri has no right to scream at or insult Anandi. Thats insecurity. But as for the screaming she does at Jogia...he deserves that AND much more - for being an absolutely insensitive, cheating, lying double standards prick even now!

Originally posted by: hooked

very little fault of theirs -

Her parents SOLD her to a rich family as a second wife. The panchayat held the marriage void on the very next day and asked DS to apologise for her hand in it.

After that - her parents left their little girl outside hteir haveli and took off like theives on a dark stormy night, wihtout telling the girl what to do or the Haveli that they r abandoning their own kid AGAINST the panchayat's ruling.

If this is very little fault - then I don't know what big is. Also - this is the root cause of G's insecurities no one else.

Doesnt she have ANY right to be bitter towards those that gave her hell as a child

Yes, she can hold a grudge but after determining who did her the most harm - it was her OWN parents. If DS had not BOUGHT her - someone else wud have. bcoz her parents had already decided to sell her.

Well to be fair Anandi's parents also gave her to the rich family as did Gehna's parents. They also got money for giving off Gehna. So did Phooli's parents. Its what they do in villages. And as for the "second wife" thing they only agreed to that cos Dadisa lied that Anandi was mental. She LIED to them! The poor people have their majboories in that sort of village life. They cant refuse the people from the "badi haveli" But still they did some wrong. That was their fault. Abandoning was AFTER the marriage. In the marriage though I'm not sure why you dont acknowledge Dadisa's or the Singh's fault in this😕
As for Gauri, her insecurities lie solely in the fact that she will be left again by the husband and then face society's humiliation. Not that her PARENTS will leave her! Cos unlike Dadisa her parents actually MEANT it when they apologised to her for abandoning her! Dadisa did it with no remorse and all majboori.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

yes gauri gets mad when sees anandi ,and anandi knows it very well then why does she always gives gauri a chance to speak like that,this was a point that i raised earlier also ,doesnt she know that what gauri feels about her ,so to an already irritated person you go and ask -kuch aur chahiye .even when we are angry someone asks us something ,we tend to shout at that person without his/her fault ,so anandi doesnt know if she goes and asks her ,she will put all her frustations on her ,gauri dint come all the way to jaitser to say all these things to anandi ,its anandi who entered the room with big thal .by doing this anandi herself gives gauri right to insult her .

Originally posted by: hooked

very little fault of theirs -

Her parents SOLD her to a rich family as a second wife. The panchayat held the marriage void on the very next day and asked DS to apologise for her hand in it.

After that - her parents left their little girl outside hteir haveli and took off like theives on a dark stormy night, wihtout telling the girl what to do or the Haveli that they r abandoning their own kid AGAINST the panchayat's ruling.

If this is very little fault - then I don't know what big is. Also - this is the root cause of G's insecurities no one else.

Doesnt she have ANY right to be bitter towards those that gave her hell as a child

Yes, she can hold a grudge but after determining who did her the most harm - it was her OWN parents. If DS had not BOUGHT her - someone else wud have. bcoz her parents had already decided to sell her.

Originally posted by: ankit111

Ya hooked, their fualt is very little, in fact all negative characters do just little silly mistakes, only its unintentional mistakes of positive characters become huge and all these negative character become huge and negatives character get licence to do all sort of crimes, planning plotting and can be justified on the basis of insecurity, jealousy etc.😆😆😆

in G case only guilty persons r DS and her own Parents and if compare to the level of guilt thn her parents fualts r far bigger thn DS, as G was their responsibility and not DS. as it was advocated to justify G tht, why she sd think abt Anandi, becoz its not her responsibility, thn why DS sd think abt G. she thought abt herself, but why G own parents didnt think abt her own daughter and they virtually forced DS to make marriage in hurry, with limited option tht either buy it today or they will SELL it to other.😡😡 but stilli m not blind to support DS. as concern to the other Singh family, they JUST SAVE HER. but seems Gouri madam love only those who hurt her most, like she hs no problem with DS, she love and respect her Parents, she hs GREAT TRUE LOVE for Jogia, but she hate those, who help her, like Bhairaw, Bade Papa and even Anandi😆😆 wht a unique character😆😆

Oh ok they are not my responsibility so I can just lie and cheat them all I want😆 Great logic👏

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Oh ok they are not my responsibility so I can just lie and cheat them all I want😆 Great logic👏