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Posted: 13 years ago
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No, I did not channel Joan Rivers nor did she become a member here 😆

This is going to be a long rant...so get yourself a strong drink, sit back relax and enjoy the ranting 😆 I am going to try and put it all out there. If I miss anything please friends help me 😕

Ahem...
Ahem was a workaholic, his life revolved around his work and his Mom. He never smiled and he never played Holi. For him his Mom's word was the word of God. So when he was asked to marry Gopi, he did it...and in the process he dumped the girl he loved (I am still not convinced he ever really loved her). Now after so many trials and tribulations, Ahem is a changed man. What changed him? Gopi. Without a doubt. Ahem started his married life with no feelings for Gopi, and when he thought she bought an expensive necklace, or when he found out about her not being educated it broke him. To him his life was shattered and it would never be good again. But slowly and patiently Gopi proved to him she is more than just a gold digger or a gawar. He has learnt not to take things at face value. He has learnt his wife is not all he thought she was. She was a better person than him possibly. And slowly during Gopi's education track, he started to see her in a different light. They became friends. And then slowly during Navratri, he fell in love with her. He may not have known it. But his actions showed it. The way he looked at her, the way he made excuses to stay with her, the way he brought her a saree, the way he cared for her when Rashi hit her hand with the dandia. Too many to mention. And when she had her accident, he faced the fact that he may loose her and came to terms with his feelings for her. And he took the initiative to make her comfortable around him. He took his time in making her special. His feelings were slowly surfacing, he could no longer hold it all inside. And finally during their one night separation, he had it. He no longer wanted to be without her and so he put his intentions in high gear and made every attempt to flirt and make her feel special. It is hit an all time high during Holi. And for Ahem to want to play Holi for his wife only was the wax that sealed the fact that he loved her and there were no if's, and's or but's...only a definite fact of love. A love so deep it was pulling him towards her in front of his family...something he would never do.

Gopi...
Here we have a naive girl who was never loved by anyone. I have doubts if her Mama loves her. No Mama would sit back and keep quite while his orphaned niece was being treated so badly by his wife and daughter. Gopi still endured all and managed to smile at the smallest things in life. She appreciated things most of us would take for granted. Her dream was to be married to a man who would be her and only hers. And then she would feel like she was also part of this world. Because up until now she belonged to Mami as her servant. She had no life and no future. Then one day Khanaji blessed her with a visit from Kokila who picked her as her new DIL to be. She was shocked. But then she started weave her dreams with Ahem. Her husband. Hers and hers alone. But those dreams were shattered with the reality of the situation. And when he learned she was uneducated, it got worse. But slowly thru her hard work and quite ways and her sweet smile she won his heart. She could see changes in him and yet she stayed focused, and did not go all gaga like she used to. And it worked. Ahem started to slowly become her friend and then slowly they would have eye locks and then after the accident, Ahem took care of her and even stayed at home from work to be with her. He oversaw her recovery. He made her feel special and Gopi knew he loved her. And her suspicions were confirmed on Holi when with the way he looked at her and the way he wanted to play Holi with her. She knew he was only doing all this for her. And that made her heart swell. And then unaware of his influence of cannabis, they had a romantic moment and possibly did the deed...Jury is still out on that one for me 😕

During the Holi celebrations Ahem lost his inhibitions thanks to the influence of cannabis. That cannabis brought out his hearts desires and made him do what he wanted to do but didn't. It made him hold his wife, it made him go crazy and play Holi with her. I also made them both so giddy in love, that when they fell on the bed, the desires from both sides took over and things happened. It was literally love in the afternoon. Weather they made love or not, one thing is for sure...love was expressed and enjoyed by both.

Now when it has been revealed that Ahem does not remember anything we are all ganging up on him. But, his love is true and it is still there. The cannabis influence made him do things that he forgot when the effects wore off. It did not give him memory loss to forget his love and his desires for his wife. Also cannabis is a kind of herb that slowly after the effects wear off the person influenced will start to get bits and pieces of what happened. And so there in lies the conclusion...Ahem will remember and he will make sure Gopi know it was not cannabis that he showered his love for her...but it was cannabis that made him forget, but not regret...Gopi at first, will be saddened. But then she will also know it was not his fault. And she is not going to shed tears. She will know that he loved her and the only problem is that he does not remember the loving moment they had. But she will give him room and time to come to terms and come back to her. She will not give up. She is not the same old Gopi of yesterday. She is stronger and more confident that Ahemji loves her and nothing is going to make her think otherwise. Not even any ugly words from Rashi or her Mami.

I am done. Please no more sadness about Ahem forgetting. He still loves Gopi and that has not changed. So now can we go and party in the GoEm world thread 😃

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munnihyderabad thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rupal, a very fabulous post...👏⭐️

beautifully laid out👏

i have very little to add as you and harini did the major part⭐️

Ahem and Gopi's love: they realy love each other, and who ever thinks verbal confession is all that matters... then i am sorry for them... as they are not recognizing the beautiful, pure, innocent love which Ahem and Gopi express through their words and gestures...and for me Ahem and Gopi's love is the most beautiful one seen on TV/films... the process of falling in love is amazing

Bhang Bhang just helped him shed away his initial inhibitions...i am happy he had bhang ladoo.. which helped him over come his inhibitions,,,

Ahem's memory right now: come, it is not even 24 hours, give the guy some time... he will eventually remember, he will have flashes in the next few days... he will get to the bottom of it...it's not that he has partial memory loss

right now, gopi will be sad , that he does not remember, but she will never doubt that he does not love her... she knows Ahem loves her..but will just be sad that he does not remember the very moments the shared together,,,

but gopi being gopi will keep all her sadness in the backseat and will be the vahu and wife to her maaji and Ahemji and will help and support them through the family crisis

After remembering:

trust me, no regrets...we proclaim ourselves as gohem fans. ' is this what we have understood about their love and trust

when he remembers, he will be the most happiest person... that gopi gave him everything so selflessly... he will regret that he does not remember those moments... but being smart... he will work all through once again... we can see more loving, teasing, fun and a more adorable Ahem Modi

Gloomy doomy fans: guys who feel gloomy, should realize one thing... when we are watching SNS, story of Gopi, we should have the same amount of patience as gopi has... then we can enjoy each and every episode to the fullest ..just as gopi enjoys all her moments with Ahem as and when they come...

p.s: sorry rupal... thought of keeping it simple... but became long
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Such is Gopi's patience and her committment to her kanaji. Her upbringing in such a cruel way has moulded her to take the smallest amount of affection and return it tenfold. Anyone else would have been broken and bitter by now. Thank you for a levelled post Rupal.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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superb post Rupal ben...I strongly against the track that Gohem will be back to square one...I don't care about it because i dont believe it...Of course, Ahem will remember, i dont know when but he will. And Gopi's heart will be broken into million pieces...

We are not sure about the future...But one thing to be notice is Ahem won't be back to the angry young man who hates his wife again...

The journey of Gohem love is like driving a car without Air conditioner on a bumpy road to the top of mount everest...It's like drinking cold water to reduce the spice of chilli, even we know that eating sugar is the best way to heal it...Still Gohem will reach their destination...

I am sad, and i cried because of Gopi's tear. Being a woman, i cant bear this kind of hurt...But i am still optimistic that Ahem will remember...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Such is Gopi's patience and her committment to her kanaji. Her upbringing in such a cruel way has moulded her to take the smallest amount of affection and return it tenfold. Anyone else would have been broken and bitter by now. Thank you for a levelled post Rupal.



Anyone being Rashi, would have done at least ten kalakaries to make him remember. But this is our Gopi and she is stronger and smarter than when she came to this house...all thanks to our Koki 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaka.lg


superb post Rupal ben...I strongly against the track that Gohem will be back to square one...I don't care about it because i dont believe it...Of course, Ahem will remember, i dont know when but he will. And Gopi's heart will be broken into million pieces...

We are not sure about the future...But one thing to be notice is Ahem won't be back to the angry young man who hates his wife again...

The journey of Gohem love is like driving a car without Air conditioner on a bumpy road to the top of mount everest...It's like drinking cold water to reduce the spice of chilli, even we know that eating sugar is the best way to heal it...Still Gohem will reach their destination...

I am sad, and i cried because of Gopi's tear. Being a woman, i cant bear this kind of hurt...But i am still optimistic that Ahem will remember...



The highlighted part is not going to be too bad. Remember she knows Ahemji loves her and that he would have loved to do all those things with her...it is just his memory that fails him right now. She will be sad, but then she will pick her head up and take it in stride and wait for Ahem to either remember or make his move and come to her. Either way they are going to do this again and it is going to be as hot as the first time 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree rupaal, he has forgot only bhang effected part...
He was very normal with gopi, asking for green tea, and about his mother...he will never be a square one again...
Normal aham with out any passion, a good friend to gopi...i think if gopi will feel sad he will surely ask from her the matter...
Im bothering only for we have to wait two more days with out any single clue
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Posted: 13 years ago
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U made me feel a lot better :) thank you :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Love the post Rupal! Ahem may not remember what happened between him and Gopi but his feeling for her will still be the same as before. He loves her and this is not going to change just because he has some cannabis.

I just can't bear to see Gopi's heart breaking, but if she hears Ahem confess that he can't remember then it's not so bad. One day he will get close to her but that time will be one they both remember. The only regret I see Ahem having is that he can't recall what happened.

In some ways it has given Gopi hope that her husband truly loves her and she may even have confidence to flirt with him more.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lovely post rupal...we all know gopi and ahem love each other and his temp amnesia is not going to change that...i think we all are just worried for gopi and wondering what her reaction would be...of course she is not going to do anything to hurt or sadden ahem...but i just wish that the cvs make her a bit stronger this time...what with the split fiasco going on...gopi can become strong ...and maybe even stand up for herself...i dont want her to take ahems memory loss as another rejection and go back into her shell...

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