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Posted: 13 years ago
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totally agree ...i dont see any love for surah . Respect some time but she has not proved to be good to him ..i wish she leave so that she realises what she is loosing ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: breezy

the gal will never consider anyone her husband and love them unless she is made to realize it , for her her life was about a dream (which is not wrong ) and she would never realize anything beyond that , a relation will work only after that ...


i dont hate bhaboo for showing her displeasure but i dislike the way she made it a public spectacle, other than that what she said was right and a pain of a mother , and she was right , bhaboo gave the much needed push in a bad manner and that made sandhya realize she has some other duties of loving a person who respects u and supports u and when i said love, its not about physical , it comes later on , she dont even treat him as friend for crying out loud , well lets see how her thinking goes

i feel so so sorry for suraj , the guy is hoplessly hoping for a miracle , which is impossible



Well said! I agree that Sandhya is just not ready for any husband, period! But she did get married, with her eyes open... even though she thinks she didn't have a choice, the truth is - we always have a choice.

Anyway, the marriage did take place and while Suraj is doing everything to make her happy, she is not. So she should either work hard on accepting her relationship with her husband OR, declare that she made a mistake by getting married and set the poor guy free! But the 3rd thing that she is doing - turning a blind eye to Suraj, telling him not to have any hopes with her and at the same time, refusing to leave her sasural, this is completely wrong!


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Posted: 13 years ago
#33
If Sandhya goes away there is no Diya aur Baati 🤣

I hope CV's find a solution for this also 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ramyaks--

If Sandhya goes away there is no Diya aur Baati 🤣

I hope CV's find a solution for this also 😆


I also feel the same Ramya, I don't think so Sandhya will leave Suraj. Our Sweet halwai has already made his mark in Sandhya's heart. CV's just need to show that Sandhya realizes "Dil ka Rishta" for Suraj.😆🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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its not sandhya s fault she s not saying that she cant accept suraj as her husband...she wants to tell that she cannot adjust herself in this world( when she says" MAINE YEH DUNIYA NAHIN DEKHI HAIN")she cant suit to ways of bhabho and others... she has no problem that suraj is a halwai but she has a problem when bhabho tries to discuss her psonal things in open and make a tamaasha...she s defo not a party to it...and she s a carefree sort of pson thats and now she has so many responsibilities that she finds it difficult...but the real fact is that she was trying but after repeated defeats in her endeavours she was feeling sorry for suraj that she cudnt match upto his level of devotion
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: megumi



So true. one confused character. no one can predict when she is going to be angry, when she will smile. she just shows emotions randomly. neither she knows the meaning of marriage. bhabho was correct in saying that she has made both her son and their marriage a joke.




I second you on this. she needs some acting lessons. no matter the occasion or mood, same expression, same poker face. same blank angry face.
Sandhya, show us some other expression. how long can we continue to watch you like a statue?

No offense please.

I pressed like on this post bec I have things to say on the abv posts---
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Many of the posts said that Sandhya is not a confused character and I agree with that - she is conflicted within herself bec she is basically career oriented woman and not made for staying home and living the lifestyle that Bhabho expects from her...
It is this conflict that is making her unhappy and like she said in last nights epi she has to put a farce to the outside world but she has to be herself and be honest with Suraj within their bedroom.
She takes out all that frustrations on Suraj bec he will understand and is more approachable and supportive than any1 in that family.
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I dont think that there is any problem with the acting but Sandhya's character is meant to behave that way bec she is not comfortable in her current lifestyle and has to constantly put up a show which she hates to do and in order to hide her real self she seems stiff and less expressive...
But there are moments when everytime she is taking up a challenge like educating sm1 on issues like garbage disposal, superstitions, wearing helmets while riding etc one can see the true Sandhya... It has fooled Suraj in believing that she loves him like he loves her - while all the times her care came from doing the right thing. But I do believe that she loves him but is not aware of it or does not know it yet...

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