Originally posted by: serialjunkie
I agree, a consummation before clearing MU is wrong on so many levels.
making love under influence is akin to driving under influence, you really dont know what you are doing. you sleep with someone whom you love, otherwise, its nothing more than a casual one-night stand - it trivializes the expected love between the two
making love when you have serious misunderstanding about the other person is nothing more than weakness of the flesh. i sure hope neither khushi nor ASR are such weak characters.
but if they do show consummation, it better be for reasons that make their love/guilt/redemption more acute. i don't want consummation simply to pander to peanut gallery who is tired of waiting.
most virgins first experience is not a piece of cake. if its not laced with love and meaning, it is just a chore to get rid of your virginity. I don't like consummation act being eulogized when really the actual logistics of it is downright crude and painful - nothing to eulogize unless it has meaning for both parties involved.
Imagine the day after for khushi. Would she feel fulfilled or would she feel used? would she see this as an act of love from arnav or just another weapon to get even with shyam? would both of them expect to do it again or simply try to forget it? these are uncomfortable questions and a solitary act does not wipe it away.
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