Unholi spirits - Page 2

Originally posted by: FIZK6

Priya is not asking Aditya to change but to take her feelings and emotions into consideration. She still wants him, she knows they need to talk but dont know where to start.

And i dont think she is acting immature. She is scared if she takes Aditya back and in the future if something were to happen and he goes against her again then this time she will not be able to pull herself together, she will completely break.

Originally posted by: rightnow

That is the problem. Priya wants time and Adi wants Priya. Priya has to take life on day to day basis rather than long term. Normal husband and wife will have so many differences and preferences. A question of adjustment from the wiser one will do the trick. Adi will remain Adi and time will not bring any dramatic changes in him. Priya has a choice. To move out of his life completely and start life afresh. Adi need not become Devdas. He can also move on.

Originally posted by: FIZK6

Moving on is not an option for them.
Priya needs to tell Aditya she still wants to be with him but needs time.
He needs to respect her choice and be patient
In the meantime they can both get on with their daily lives but still be there for each other.

Only after Priya feels she can trust and rely on Aditya, only then can they be with each other and only then will Aditya be able to break down with Priya at his side.
Everyone is telling Aditya he needs to be strong for the family, but what about him?

Originally posted by: rightnow

Priya is meeting Aditya almost daily. If she moved out to some far off city or country, a real physical distance could have been maintained. And Adi is not as mature as Shubh. In a crude way, the situation is like this. A chocolate is kept in front of the child and the child is not allowed to eat it. The child is just allowed to watch the chocolate and be happy.