Adi could try restraining his anger and outbursts. He sometimes acts as a spoiled child.
For example, when Dev was involved in an accident, he started getting angry at Priya for not telling him. Priya was the one who had to interrupt him and tell him that she did call but his mobile was unreachable.
Another thing was the epi on the 5th, where he decided to go out in the middle of the night and stay out, just becoz he did not agree with Priya's point of view. This is being childish. It is like Brahma when not getting his way, he sulks.
Going back, he refused to believe Priya AT ALL (WITHOUT QUESTION) he preferred to believe Brahma, not realizing how his lack of trust in Priya was affecting their marriage. This was when Priya repeatedly said not have blind faith but look at others perspective. Still he continues to have a one track mind. If Priya doesn't think his way, then SHE is being unreasonable. But has he paused to consider why Priya is the way she is now?
Currently, our TV coverage is of Maryada Jan epis. And although I watch the latest epis on the internet, I still watch the TV ones that come delayed to us in the Pacific. Based on that, I am finding Adi's behaviour quite irritating. He should give her space to come to terms with her own confusions and methodically disect her issues and analyze them. If only Adi stopped pushing her, but just accepted her decision, then it would help her. Those episodes make you angry and exasperated at Adi and sorry that Priya ever married a guy like him.
By ignoring Priya, he is again showing how immature or childish he is."I only know one way and that is my way and that is the right way and the only way". If someone behaves out of his perceived "box" then he fails to understand why. Why can't he for once place himself in Priyas shoes and understand her? If Priya refused to believe him obstinately about something even the whole family believed in, and as a consequence he almost lost his life and integrity, would he be as forgiving as he expects Priya to be? I very much doubt that.
I agree to some extent with Hope but not completely. The main thing is they Adi-Priya need to TALK. And I mean really talk about what happened to Priya and Adi should for a change listen, understand and sympathise with her and give her some time to fight her demons before expecting her to reconcile her feelings regarding the problem with their relationship.
Priya still loves him no doubt but as she said, if Adi had not seen with his own eyes Brahmas attempted rape on her, then she could be dead now without him realising her innocence.
I think Adi's character is that of a strong-headed person and Priyas is one of being strong-hearted. CV's should show a storyline where these two meet in between their personality clashes.
Honestly speaking, with the current storyline, it makes us feel that Priya is too mature for Adi. She deserves an understanding, responsible and mature person like Shub.
Another dimension is to have Adi get jealous regarding Priya and her attentions to someone else, then as they say, jealousy may cause him to react differently to his normal nature and he may declare either love or war to attain that love.
sorry for the rather long synopsis but I for one do not like how Adi is being characterised in the 2012 episodes.
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
Mangal Lakshmi
