In support of Manav...

Hi Folks,

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Hi Folks,

ITs been some time since I posted..Been a pretty much silent reader..

Thought I should make a post for Manav ...

Recently seems like Manav has been in the receving end so thought of jumping in to support the guy,,,😆

Well regarding the whole Manav's unable to attend Purvi's engagement.Well all I could see is ,he wanted to call Archu and let her know but knowing her that she might be worried and dont know in tension what she might do(It seems Archu has the syndrome of not knowing what she is doing especially during social gathering or some event..eg : Punni's engagement drama where all that drama could have been avoided ,had she taken Manav alone and said the same), he felt that it was better not to call her and let the engagement go in peace.

He prayed to God that the engagement goes well..

So what Archu do comes fully charged and as usual not allowing Manav to speak went on and when she got to know the truth of Sachin props ,she became vulnerable again and she could not control her emotions for Sachin..

From this scenario,

1)What is Archana trying to prove or do..In the name of sacrifice for a son who is totally clouded by Savita and who wants her to be separated from Manav ,and following her son's illogical wishes ,she thinks she is bringing happiness to her daughters and her Manav...

2)For a women who claims she loves Manav even today more and more ,even after knowing from a bangged Manav that how much he still loves her,she wants to go ahead with this non-sense..

Does she think she is going to give Manav or any happiness by this sacrifice...Archu says she can read Manav...so is it what Manav's eyes and heart are telling her that he wants to be separated and marry another women at this age...cant she see a man who is confused bewildered and lost always,.,,Post leap when has any one seen Manav smile at all...

From Manav's perceptive:

The guy has got his fair share of fault on being manipulated...But here is a man who gets divorce paper sent (assumed to be sent by his wife) and is shocked and confused...Comes and blasts her without hearing her say (When will these two know the concept of listening to each other first ,guess too much to except even after 20 years of their so called married life 😕)

And when he is desperate to find truth ,due to the clever game of Sachin who is infact Archu's main weakness (In all this when Sachin comes to know the truth ,he is going to be the most distraught person which he will suffer),Archu decides to reinvent the cycle of sacrifice...

In such a case on one side Archu is trying to show she doesnt give a damn about Manav or her daughters due to Sachin Syndrome 😕- (which is horribly failing) and on other side she wants Manav to be associated with Purvi...

She is kind of playing with the emotions of Purvi as well by giving her wrong ideals that her daddy dear MR Manav will come and take her one day to her dreamland..

This has impacted Purvi so much that she can do anything ,in the sense manipulate law to make sure the 6 months divorce period stay together comes into picture again for Arman...Now all of a sudden Archu says " I am your father n mother.."(without knowing the circumstance why MAnav did not come to purvi's engagement).

This can effect Purvi's marriage in a bad way..

Archu needs to stick up to one end..Either stick to her beloved Son's Sachu illogical demands or buckle up slap Sachin bring him to some sense and blurt out everything to Manav..She first needs to get out of her two Syndromes (Sachin and Manav) and make a decision..

At least with her small family of three Archu had some happiness ,some reasons to smile but Manav for all the hard work and comforts he gave his daughters,sachu and raised them,I dont think I have seen him smile post leap..

IT's like a Zombie confused Manav fighting within himself and Archu's sacrificial approach has made things even more worse..The guy is unable to make out whats happening - from his perspective : one side he sees his love asking divorce and wants to do nothing with him and their children ,other side she wants him to associate himself with her adopted child and she shows concern for Sachin...

This is going to confuse the hell out of a person...Of course PR has never been a land of logical thinking or reasoning but my perspective is that its kind of unfair to keep putting the blame on MAnav as though Archu's fault is minimal..

Both have their own share of faults and in the current scenario Archu in name of sacrifice is in fact destroying Manav internally even more...The way Manav is looking now a days if it continues one day he might just end up in hospital with all the confusions he has got in his mind and heart.

Hope Ekta mata thinks once and ends this chain of marriage-divorce nonsense between Arman..Either unite them or let them be happy with their on going life and move on ...

Hope now its not shown that Arman's duaghters all of a sudden pour all love on Archu and hate Manav and once again Archu comes as savior.

Archu together with her mom took care of purvi whereas Manav having his mother by his side had to raise three children which is also hard-work and he has done his best by giving them good proper education and comforts and tried his best to be father/mother (of course the fact that his children grew under Savita's preachings is going to hurt eventually 😕 and good for nothing Damo just there for the sake of it ),he's been a great loving and caring father so I would not want to see a scenario to be shown where its shown that his own daughters put the blame on Manav or hurt him.

IT would make sense to show Tej /Purvi trying to find out the truth and unite them instead of the love-hate scenarios and give a logical conclusion...or is it too much to ask from our beloved CV"s 😊

PS : SORRY FOLKS IF I HURT ANYONE BY THIS POST ,JUST HAD TO DIG IN TO SUPPORT MR MANAV 😆...HE ALSO NEEDS A BREAK...

sooo true. if manav is wrong when he didnt believe his wife instead of his mother, what happened when he chose to believe his wife instead. his wife threw the papers back at him. crying one day for his love and her family and the next she goes abt ranting in front of her brother's daughter;'s rishta.

i say kudos to her for the irresponsible behavior

Hi Jaishankar,😊

How are you? It's been a long time, great to hear from you. Very good post by the way. I agree with you, nirvanlove, and Varsha Di completely. I am also in support of Manav.

First, how can Archana even expect Manav to come to Purvi's engagement? She is never civil to him, refuses to talk to him, makes extreme, extreme nasty faces at him whenever she sees him(she didn't use to do this before) and then on top of that insults him very badly at her niece's engagement by demanding a divorce from him. Now she expects Manav to come as Purvi's father to the engagement and wants him to treat her the same way he does to Ovi and Teju?

Archana doesn't know or love Manav at all. She didn't even give him a chance to explain to her why he couldn't attend Purvi's engagement and then when Manav started yelling back at her she started crying? I hope Manav never falls for her fake act of crying. Behind Archana's innocent face is an extremely evil and manipulative person.

Archana also needs to stop accusing Manav of not loving Purvi. Manav doesn't have one obligation toward Purvi, Archana was the one who adopted her, Manav never approved of it nor was he there. Archana herself never asked about her children and when Manav scolds her for this, she starts making excuses that she didn't want to give him any takleef and that she's doing this for Sachu etc. If she really cared about Ovi and Teju, she would've asked Manav a little bit about them. Archana is an extremely terrible mother to her own children but cares so much for her adopted daughter. She has zero shame for giving more importance to some child who she adopted compared to her very own daughters.

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Hi Jaishankar,😊

How are you? It's been a long time, great to hear from you. Very good post by the way. I agree with you, nirvanlove, and Varsha Di completely. I am also in support of Manav.

First, how can Archana even expect Manav to come to Purvi's engagement? She is never civil to him, refuses to talk to him, makes extreme, extreme nasty faces at him whenever she sees him(she didn't use to do this before) and then on top of that insults him very badly at her niece's engagement by demanding a divorce from him. Now she expects Manav to come as Purvi's father to the engagement and wants him to treat her the same way he does to Ovi and Teju?

Archana doesn't know or love Manav at all. She didn't even give him a chance to explain to her why he couldn't attend Purvi's engagement and then when Manav started yelling back at her she started crying? I hope Manav never falls for her fake act of crying. Behind Archana's innocent face is an extremely evil and manipulative person.

Archana also needs to stop accusing Manav of not loving Purvi. Manav doesn't have one obligation toward Purvi, Archana was the one who adopted her, Manav never approved of it nor was he there. Archana herself never asked about her children and when Manav scolds her for this, she starts making excuses that she didn't want to give him any takleef and that she's doing this for Sachu etc. If she really cared about Ovi and Teju, she would've asked Manav a little bit about them. Archana is an extremely terrible mother to her own children but cares so much for her adopted daughter. She has zero shame for giving more importance to some child who she adopted compared to her very own daughters.

jterrible n wen th truth comes out th same rxcuses wiill b used,as a mother if compared savita s so much better, she s moneyminded bt thn also her children r more imp fr her, dead or alive

I agree with u dear. Thanks ya...🤗

Originally posted by: babybbsr

I agree with u dear. Thanks ya...🤗

Thanks to you for your super support. He has all rights to be angry... he has reasons for it. He is right in the way he is treating Archana. I don't have much sympathy for Archana simply because in each case, she has either been a wrong judge , or she is a coward who can't speak her mind. she is responsible for it because she broke the foundation of their marriage, which is TRUST. she has no one else to blame but herself. She knew what kind of a person he was. The final blow comes when he loses his son.Manav's behaviour has changed coz he has lost , it's coz of Archu.someone is sad n has lost someone n thinks someone is ressponsible for someones death then they will surelly want to kill that person n not forgive them same like that manav want's to break all ties with Archu.

well and still Manav loves her that blows my mind away. not even Gods are like the leads in Ektas serials,. lol

Thank you my dears for your wonderful comments...😛