27/2 The Skipped Dargah Meeting! - Page 9

I almost missed this thread😕. I have a suggestion. Can we make sure we include the phrase "episode <no.> discussion" or something else unique so we know what to look for? Of course I did see Mayu's name. Maybe something like Devil's Den title. Else we do seem a little lost in the forum dicussions.😕

ok now for the episode. There was some major disappointment from me today. Though I knew Yash's family was conservative I never expected them to come out with such an outrageous sharth. Many in the forum had suggested it. But all of us realised that such a thing is as outlandish as my guess for the sharth ( one year trial period or something like that).😲 My advice to Arthi would be of course a whole hearted "Don't do it". Even if they change their minds bcos of Yash as the precap indicates.

Its not worth it Aarthi..Not even for someone as handsome and Hot as our dear Yash. Who in their sane mind will trade such an adorable goddess of a sasuma😍 for Yash's mom 😡who unfortunately is shaping up into the Ekta sasuma that we were all dreading and hoping she would not be.😲 Even if Yash convinced them what they were doing was not fair after they get married the mom will still feel Ansh as a paraya only. And that does not bode well for Arthi or Ansh.

Though I have heard many people say it is the guy we should be considering not his mom, usually and especially in this case where they are living together in such a joint family set up and where Yash does not want a wife anyway it is his whole family Arthi will be marrying. Even if for some reason, say he was worried about the same thing his mom suggested, that she would not be able to pay attention to these kids, Yash had suggested this condition it must have been his mom being a mom who must have told him how it is a paap to separate mother and child. And here she herself is proposing such a thing. 😲Find a girl who has a child already so she knows how to be a good mom then take that child away from her😲😲. I can't for my life see the logic in it. 😕Doesn't it make sense to look for a girl who was not married or at least didn't have any kids in the first place.I am finding it difficult to come out of this to discuss the rest of the episode.

The reasons Arthi FIL gives to her MIL regarding hiding the truth from Yash family was along the lines people have been discussing in this forum. And I don;t think he is being selfish or something. He too is in many ways as genuine as his wife but not necessarily as principled. Some would call it being practical. Arthi's MIL has put all our fears in open and though not completely convinced somewhere she sees the weak logic in her husband's argument.

Didn't like Yash's dad's comment about a guy not weeping over a girl but can put up with it considering he is from a conservaive BG. But he was also saying that a woman can live without a man but not vice versa. That statement confused me as to where he stands.😕Was he trying to say that a man should always have a woman doing his seva?maybe. I don't think he can think too progressive. Yash didn;t see the photo and said yes. Interesting.

I simply adored the interaction between Aarthi and her MIL. She is more than even a mother and I more and more want Aarthi to not go ahead with this. But unfortunately mera kaun suntha hei. Hope Yash provides more than enough support for Arthi cos I stand by Aarthi's statement when she says she is not such an obedient DIL that she will do something stupid just bcos her MIL wants her to. And to go through another separation too after putting so much at stake is another sad thing. Please makers give us som nice happy moments before the tears start flowing.😭

@All:Yesterday Yash's father confused me a bit with his dialogues ..I dunno if its the mistake of the dialogue writer or this character of father is a bit complicated one 😕..first he tells Yash that he should not waste his tears for a women for so long where he indirectly tries to indicate that men r more strong than women ,so those tears for a women are not worth it 😡...but then in next minute he tells Yash that a woman can alone spend her entire life but a man will always need the support of a woman in his life which means he is trying to indicate that women are more stronger than man but a man is weak and needs a woman at every point of life 😉...so his dialogues r quite a contradiction in this case ..hai na 😕😕...Mayb CVs r trying to keep his character a bit complicated and not really a hypocrit 😕

And yup will open it in 5-10 minutes time 😃