Hey Jyo thanks..
I think the Yash's father is a man of few words..
Before Yash came the family was gathered in the room and were discussing the proposal.. Though every one stood in awe but everyone voiced their opinion and the older brother told father this time you talk with him..
That means that all of them have talked with Yash one way or other but the Father did not say anything until now... He was just observing the grief and lonliness of his son..
The way he told Yash was I think a very practical thing..
He has seen his son grieving since last three years. He did not say a word to him as he knows that it was natural to grieve for a loss of wonderful life partner...
But now three years have passed by but Yash is at the emotionally stagnant position. He has not come out of the grief and he has withdrawn from life. There is no life left in him. He is so grave in his attitude and behavior that it impacts the whole house hold. The whole family is kind of withdrawn from daily fun activities as Yash does not feel like participating in anything and more over the marriage of the younger son is also impacted because of that.
Then the question of Yash's daughters is always in everyone's head as how to deal with them. They cannot even discipline those motherless daughters as usual in fear that Yash might feel bad.. and may result in very emotional state and the unity of the family may break because of that
So I think the situation in the household is not at the normal level..
And so now the Father had to step in to take the reign of the household and bring it to normal where all the family members can enjoy and laugh and have fun..
The grief of Yash is so heavy on the household that none can be normal around Yash. So I think to bring him to the realization of what is happening around him and to jolt him from his grief stricken shell Yash's father is telling him what is the bitter truth..
That he is grieving too much for too long and sheding too much tears in the memory his wife but he is neglecting his present...
That by doing that he may not bring the past to present
That it is easy for woman to live being widow but it is hard for a man
That because of him the household has come to a standstill
That because of him his brother's life also has come to a standstill
That he is doing great with business and all.. Emerging himself but he has not emerge out in real life..
Though it sounds very cruel but it was practical thing... Somebody has to bell the cat.. And the family left it on the father because they knew this time Yash wouldnot be able to find any excuse or avoid the issues as the present condition of the household demanded that he think about it.. And the father put the proposal in such a way that Yash had no other options but to say Yes.. If he really wanted to say no he could have very respectfully but I think few of the incidents have made him to think that he needed to take decision some how for this remarriage so that at least his daughters would be taken care off...
Yea Yash's mother when introduced looked ok strickler but still loving the way she has relationship with his older DIL...
But today she did show arrogance and heartlessness in thinking that a widowed woman would be so selfish that she would leave her son in the care of her in-laws and marry to have life of her own... so how could you think that she would unselfishly take those two motherless daughters and be their mother???
That was the most stupid thing a experience mother would think..
How would a woman leave her own son and would try to make others her own??? If she could not take care of her own son how would she take of Yash's daughters??
Her fear that Aarti would be engrossed in her son and will neglect the two daughters and will be a step mom and not the mom..
But lady she will be stepmom nonetheless as they are not his real daughters. She also will need time to adjust with these two young girls but they are too young to have any choice and they will adopt given enough time.. So there has to be a time of adjustment whether her son is with her or not..
So I think they did not give proper dialogues to this mother who seems to be a good caring mother otherwise who has good rapport with her DIL and sons... I think the reason could be that they want this character to be little grey and not totally negative..
But man love the interaction between Aarti's in-laws and their dilemman that was beautifully performed by those talented actors..
Kritika was also wonderful with the talk and the song and the last outburst..
And Gurmeet.. OMG.. without even dialogues his eyes spoke volumes.. Just with few expressions and a superb body language he was able to convey the message. He was not acting he was living the life of tormented Yash... Just too good for the words..
My hats off to all the actors who performed their best act and brought out this emotion packed episode wonderfully...
Edited by evasumi - 13 years ago