Snubbing Kunal - Was Siddhi right?

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Kshiti

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Posted: 13 years ago

So they fought, Big Deal. So he said some things which from a woman's point of view are hurting and unreasonable, Big Deal. You asked for it. That is A big deal.

was it correct on Siddhi's part to snub Kunal at the time of breakfast, that too in front of the entire family?! Do you think that would make Kunal feel even more of a loser for having no support from family, his own wife?!

He said he doesnt trust her, like a good lawyer, he offered incidences that pushed him to think that way. he asked some logical questions for which he got just the tears and 'we will be free after 6 months as answers'. He is going through most prolly the worst phase of his life, do you think Siddhi should support him, nonetheless.

Sooner or later, as she emerges non guilty (of actions. for me she will always be guilty of silence), he would come and appologise to her, like he has several times.

Do you think such behavior would cost Siddhi, Kunal's love and they would eventually lose the tenderness they had in their relationship?

Also, would it get them on 'Non-Talking' terms during the case battle? so instead of them working as a team to utilize Kunal's knowledge and brains, Siddhi would end up fighting it alone and when finally she would win the case (which is obvious!), Kunal will feel all the more loser for not being able to save himself and resorting to have the same woman fight for him that he had trouble trusting with his brains (cause he does trust her with his heart!)?

What do you folks think? Do you think wives should snub their husbands when they are going through The Crisis of their lives? i understand when the fight is light hearted and she is doing it to get the attention she wants but when your every action is under scrutiny anyways, do you think such little actions make more impact than they would otherwise?!

For me personally, i can never think of snubbing my husband in public, doesnt matter how right i think i am or how wrong he is! When it comes to extended family and rest of the public, i would still carry my best behavior around him cause in the matters so grieve, if i dont respect him, no one would! If i dont care for him (however mutely) no one would!

would love to know your views. 😊

Edited by Kshiti_Kunal - 13 years ago

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raman987

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Posted: 13 years ago

siddhi character is not developed as consistent anyways she is jhansi ki rani in one ep and in one mute so how she reacts no one knows forget why she reactsthe way she does . but also i think kunal will not trust her anyways even if she tried telling him richa called or to the matter of fact she loves him
snubbing him in public is not answer to her problem infact keeping the same att with him no matter what till atleast the case ends and take her anger outthen . right he needs her even if he doesnot want to show for whatever reasons i hope tomm when kunal walks out of engagement she should congratulate the couple and excuse herself for the ceremony and follow kunal home

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shumshad parveen

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Posted: 13 years ago

i know yaar...even though i got angry when he yelled at her i felt sorry for him when siddhi snub kunal...poor guy...he left the table without eating...tch!

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Kshiti

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: raman987
siddhi character is not developed as consistent anyways she is jhansi ki rani in one ep and in one mute so how she reacts no one knows forget why she reactsthe way she does . but also i think kunal will not trust her anyways even if she tried telling him richa called or to the matter of fact she loves him
snubbing him in public is not answer to her problem infact keeping the same att with him no matter what till atleast the case ends and take her anger outthen . right he needs her even if he doesnot want to show for whatever reasons i hope tomm when kunal walks out of engagement she should congratulate the couple and excuse herself for the ceremony and follow kunal home

@ Highlighted: Yes. That would be a good thing to do. being passive aggressive is always better than snubbing 😉

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Kshiti

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: shumi.
i know yaar...even though i got angry when he yelled at her i felt sorry for him when siddhi snub kunal...poor guy...he left the table without eating...tch!

Me too Shumi!!! Just goes to show how much hurt he is! And now Siddhi madam is not thinking of thanking him for showing up for Shilpa's engagement. 😭

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@TheRowdiest

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Posted: 13 years ago

I officially HATE Siddhi

I want Sinal Divorce ...and a new good , funny , lovable character as Kunal's wife ... bas !

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nancy1996

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: minnie.reet
I officially HATE Siddhi

I want Sinal Divorce ...and a new good , funny , lovable character as Kunal's wife ... bas !

🤣 Minnie the choice of words...

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Kshiti

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: minnie.reet
I officially HATE Siddhi

I want Sinal Divorce ...and a new good , funny , lovable character as Kunal's wife ... bas !

😆😆

Minnie,

I dont hate her. Hate is a too strong a word to be used for someone but yes, i hate her ways. fluctuations in her characteristics. 😡

I personaly believe that when you do someone a favor or do something for them, you should never talk about it and thats why i respect Siddhi for not speaking about how she has helped Kunal or his family. I am sure a woman of lesser substance would have 1- not done things she did 2 - had repeated this in every fight. I respect Siddhi for being a good woman but her muteness is now being stretched too far which i am certainly hating..

Edited by Kshiti_Kunal - 13 years ago

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annie_mckinnen

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Posted: 13 years ago

Kshiti, it is all very well to wonder if Siddhi was right or wrong. But I think that is pointless. Because this relationship has gone way beyond
right and wrong. Both the people involved are (being shown to be) swayed completely by their emotions and the stress of the situation. Neither is thinking straight - and this is understandable. Too many pulling and pushing forces. But yes, I don't blame Siddhi for snubbing Kunal. I can understand her behaviour. I agree that I would also personally never snub my husband, even if it is in front of his own family. But their dirty linen is already out isn't it? And Kunal made sure he rinsed it in front of everyone when he got drunk and screamed. So why should Siddhi be the one pretending? Especially after the way he treated her. Because there is NEVER EVER any justification for the kind of anger he displayed to her. There can be guilt afterwards and your loved ones can forgive you, but that DOESN'T make it right. I know - because I can be a very angry person and my husband often refuses to carry on a discussion with me when I start screaming and get irrational. What gives me the right to insult people in a fit of anger?
Why should he subject himself to the humiliation of listening to me insult him?

And why indeed should Siddhi? He has forgotten that before he started kissing her that night, she told him not once but twice "How can I forget
what I heard and saw?" If he has conveniently chosen to forget some of the details of that night, is it her fault? Does she need to remind him of
everything? It is after all his case as he rudely pointed out to her multiple times and he doesn't need her help, so how come he didn't prepare for this and is now blaming her? Why should she even dignify any of his statements if after all they have been through he cannot trust her. Because they crossed the trust barrier a long time ago and he claimed that he had full faith in her. Trust is not dependent on what people say or do. It is implicit, as Siddhi had once said - "Saare sabuton aur gawahon se bhi badi koi cheez hoti hai aur woh hai vishwas." - and Kunal had claimed to understand. If there is no trust anymore in their relationship, then why should Siddhi even try to talk to this man? There can be misunderstandings about people's feelings for each other but about their basic character and honesty? No, I'm not buying that. I completely support her silence and her final "Bas." If Siddhi argues with him as we all wanted what is the guarantee that he will believe her. Why should she waste her breath with him when all he really wants to do is vent?

As you can see I am really upset with Kunal's initial behaviour. But then there is the pondering Kunal, the one who is constantly critiquing his
own behaviour and when he realizes he is wrong, he tries to rectify the situation. That is the Kunal I love. Because he is real. He is as we all
are - a flawed human being. He tries his best and he often fails. That doesn't mean we should feel sorry for him and give him a break. Because life doesn't always give you a break. You have to keep trying on your own. You have to fix the things you can and if you can't you have to still move on. He is trying and that is why I love his character so much. He is multi-dimensional. Siddhi is comparatively simpler. It is easier to love or hate her. But with Kunal it is always complicated!

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palzs

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Posted: 13 years ago

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initially i was very angry at kunal...bt at the dinin table the way siddhi snubbed kunal was bad...

i guess kunal jus wanted to show his frustation ... nd even after sayin many tyms to leave him alone siddhi didn listen to him nd as a result ended up in a fight...😭

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