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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

After reading everyone's comments here, I want to say that it seems this track is garnering quite some interest and actually has good potential to go so many ways. However, for those getting excited speculating things, I'd like to warn you 😉 that according to SGP's recent track record, this could all go downhill. 😆 But please keep up with the nice healthy discussions as it is very enjoyable after such a long time. 😃

Now that I got the warning out of the way, I want to say I agree with Sheema...conflict is needed for there to be interest in this track. Actually, to me, the whole Suhana lying about her marital status seems interesting too. I don't know how it was done in OBS (since it seems from what you guys are saying, this track has already been done there)...but I've seen this sort of plot in some mangas (Japanese comics). It's quite a nice plot technique once done right...usually the hero is the one who has to pretend being single even though he has gf and they have to face trouble as some fans and/or colleagues try to spark a romantic relationship with the guy and the female lead is left to stew in jealousy. They usually undergo a period of being distanced from each other and then learn through little things what it means to trust each other.

I seriously want to see something touching come out of this track. Please no more stupidity, no gags, etc, etc. Just simple, honest-to-goodness jealousy, insecurity, and overcoming these things and learning what trust is all about. Maybe they can even tie in their previous trust issues and have the characters look back and see how ridiculous they were.

Am I hoping too much? Even though I was the one who warned you guys?? 😆

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

😆 Since Ekta posted , Now I have to .

1 ] I understand Disha's anger towards Ikesh's not job hunting & relying on Suhana's work to get paid . Ohh , humiliation , I agree with Disha fully . Ilesh not working but get commission through is her younger SIL's money !!!!! Ilesh needs to wake up or someone from the family need to make him understand Disha's POV but Since BM only knows how to love but not give the Kaadvi Davai to her Loved ... Torture continues ...

2 ] I also get the other women were making in last scene . Suhana to come home alone or some stranger man dropping her off !!!! What's wrong in this picture ? Right now Ilesh is with her but what if He has an interview or gets job [ Highly unlikely ] !!!!! How would look if Daughter [ They have treat Suhana as Daughter not DIL ] of the house gets of from stranger's car at very late at night or early morning !!!!! That's what they were referring too . Perhaps that's Y Ragini keeps her mom at arm's length [ No offence Ragini fans ] 😆

3 ] EXPECTING something sensible from SuShan is like way beyond EXPECTATIONS !!!!! 🤣 SuShan r beyond Ranu's EXPECTATIONS !!!!! 😉🤣 🤣 🤣 [ May b not 😛 ]

4 ] There r 2 type of problems regarding Rano . Which makes her desperate .

A ) Rano doesn't know how to present her case . She has her POV which is always ignored by everyone .

B ) Rano is not wrong . But her approach is , Everyone follows & listens to BM . But Rano's problem Crying & Weak thinking ... puts everyone disagree with what ever she has to say .

If Rano presents her case in nice format , without crying ... Then I would love to see anyone ignoring her POV . Her problem has more to do with line of work then WORKING . Suhana can focus on just one thing at a time . This is her flow but Suhana herself doesn't know this . 🥱 She can b Wife , DIL , Daughter & Employee but not necessarily everything at the same time . I think Rano knows this . She doesn't see Suhana as her DIL but Daughter , she thinks Society will point finger at her & she wants to save her from it . but problem lies in presentation. Besides It was BM who gave permission . This is going to b before long they sort out their differences .

In marriage Its always Work in progress . U always learn something abt ur self . What SuShan has learned . They r playing in circles . They r not gonna learn anything .

While V r on the subject of Marriage - Work - Family .

My Hubby doesn't do anything around the house . He earns way more than me . I don't need to work . I m working as I want to . If I give up my work tomorrow , He gladly accept this . Even though he doesn't do anything around the house , he is supportive . Now a days I m super busy . If I ask him to eat 4 times a week out ., he would just to make my life easy . He is understanding in many ways & Many times He is just typical Indian Male . There r things He would not accept at any cost . This morning before I left for work I had his breakfast ready , My Lunch packed for me , half dinner cooked . I m not praising my self but I m responsible for my household . This is where both SGP & Suhana let down . In true sense Suhana has never fully took her responsibilities . I m not asking her to become full Time bahu but she can find to some how take responsibilities but not loose her true self ...

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poonam balani

@shilu999_balani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

yes i understand your povs... but i would rather the track not go into a reverse jelousy track.. ishaan being jealous this time... could they not show how he becomes her support system and helps her to become a responsible working woman... facing the opposition of the family (regarding the izzat of the family etc..) without going the regular way of suhana alone facing everyone ..resorting to lying about her marriage etc?...yes i too have been working all my life and was always more successful than my husband ..but never let it come in between... it doesnt always have to come down to jealousy...that is what the regular serials are about... cant we see something different since this is SGP?

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MadameX

@MadameX

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: netri

😆 Since Ekta posted , Now I have to . OMG you don't know how good it feels to read your long posts and find myself agreeing with almost everything. 🤗 😆 So I'm glad to have posted. 😳

1 ] I understand Disha's anger towards Ikesh's not job hunting & relying on Suhana's work to get paid . Ohh , humiliation , I agree with Disha fully . Ilesh not working but get commission through is her younger SIL's money !!!!! Ilesh needs to wake up or someone from the family need to make him understand Disha's POV but Since BM only knows how to love but not give the Kaadvi Davai to her Loved ... Torture continues ... Amen to that...BM is supposed to be the idealistic person and role model to all...nobody really goes against her much so she should exert some of her influence to instill some brains in Ilesh. 😆

2 ] I also get the other women were making in last scene . Suhana to come home alone or some stranger man dropping her off !!!! What's wrong in this picture ? Right now Ilesh is with her but what if He has an interview or gets job [ Highly unlikely ] !!!!! How would look if Daughter [ They have treat Suhana as Daughter not DIL ] of the house gets of from stranger's car at very late at night or early morning !!!!! That's what they were referring too . Perhaps that's Y Ragini keeps her mom at arm's length [ No offence Ragini fans ] 😆

3 ] EXPECTING something sensible from SuShan is like way beyond EXPECTATIONS !!!!! 🤣 SuShan r beyond Ranu's EXPECTATIONS !!!!! 😉🤣 🤣 🤣 [ May b not 😛 ]

4 ] There r 2 type of problems regarding Rano . Which makes her desperate .

A ) Rano doesn't know how to present her case . She has her POV which is always ignored by everyone .

B ) Rano is not wrong . But her approach is , Everyone follows & listens to BM . But Rano's problem Crying & Weak thinking ... puts everyone disagree with what ever she has to say .

If Rano presents her case in nice format , without crying ... Then I would love to see anyone ignoring her POV . Her problem has more to do with line of work then WORKING . Suhana can focus on just one thing at a time . This is her flow but Suhana herself doesn't know this . 🥱 She can b Wife , DIL , Daughter & Employee but not necessarily everything at the same time . I think Rano knows this . She doesn't see Suhana as her DIL but Daughter , she thinks Society will point finger at her & she wants to save her from it . but problem lies in presentation. Besides It was BM who gave permission . This is going to b before long they sort out their differences .

In marriage Its always Work in progress . U always learn something abt ur self . What SuShan has learned . They r playing in circles . They r not gonna learn anything .

While V r on the subject of Marriage - Work - Family .

My Hubby doesn't do anything around the house . He earns way more than me . I don't need to work . I m working as I want to . If I give up my work tomorrow , He gladly accept this . Even though he doesn't do anything around the house , he is supportive . Now a days I m super busy . If I ask him to eat 4 times a week out ., he would just to make my life easy . He is understanding in many ways & Many times He is just typical Indian Male . There r things He would not accept at any cost . This morning before I left for work I had his breakfast ready , My Lunch packed for me , half dinner cooked . I m not praising my self but I m responsible for my household . This is where both SGP & Suhana let down . In true sense Suhana has never fully took her responsibilities . I m not asking her to become full Time bahu but she can find to some how take responsibilities but not loose her true self ...

I agree, Neha. Suhana was even idle when she had no job whatsoever...when she didn't take responsibility then, then how can she do it now with a job? 😆 It was even torturous for her during Mumbai track to take care of herself and Ishaan...she had to rely on Madhuri the maid. Essentially, it seems Suhana will never learn responsibility...and I don't think this is a proper message to send out...yeah, I understand that one shouldn't be all meek and constantly doing chores like the resident topi vahu but she certainly has to bear responsibilities. She can't go on relying on others...and yet the CVs are showing time and time again that there will always be someone to pick up the pieces left behind just because Suhana is Suhana. This doesn't even work in real life.

In my household, there is large emphasis of the men doing the whole breadwinner stuff (ie, going out to work and bringing money into the family) while the women take care of all the responsibilities around the house. Even I'm geared/trained that way. But I have my studies too and I've learned to juggle both (even though often I have to place more emphasis on the studies than doing household chores). Still, my parents made sure that I was an all-rounder, capable of cooking, cleaning, etc, etc...so that I won't have to rely on someone and no one would have to call me out on my bad habits. Although Suhana is a fictional character, but seeing her attitude towards responsibility makes me see much truth in my parents' words when they said people will talk crap about you if you don't know how to do anything...which is essentially what we're doing: badmouthing Suhana because of her apparent lack of capability.

So to all unmarried women out there: be all-rounders...but don't let men take advantage of that so downplay your good traits too. 🤣

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MadameX

@MadameX

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani
yes i understand your povs... but i would rather the track not go into a reverse jelousy track.. ishaan being jealous this time... could they not show how he becomes her support system and helps her to become a responsible working woman... facing the opposition of the family (regarding the izzat of the family etc..) without going the regular way of suhana alone facing everyone ..resorting to lying about her marriage etc?...yes i too have been working all my life and was always more successful than my husband ..but never let it come in between... it doesnt always have to come down to jealousy...that is what the regular serials are about... cant we see something different since this is SGP?

Jealousy is a pretty common feeling and everyone experiences it at some point in their lives for varying reasons. Things don't always come down to jealousy but at some points jealousy can be a good thing: it reveals level of trust/commitment between two people; if used adaptively, it can promote one to do better at one's work and achieve higher standards; and it brings about a set of irrational feelings that lead to some interesting situations. 😆 So no, I'm not against jealousy in terms of it bringing about an interesting track...but I do wary it since it seems to have a bad track record in SGP. So depends on how it goes...

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