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Posted: 13 years ago
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Most of what you have all said covers what I think too but this TA takes the cake and eats it too. Except for one time where he looks at T with guilt (after Joseph confession), the rest of the time, it has been mostly in anger or an unrecognizable look. He kept so much from her - VR stabbing matter, loan sharks, etc but she has always been upfront with him. Even for exposing VR (via the killer), he blamed T. and you can't cover everything up in the name of love and one good deed (court scene) does not cover up all these faults of TA.

He hid the fact abt losing his bank job too.

And when his wife confessed all abt C, he did not even give her a benefit of doubt. He trusted C more than her and this is unforgivable from a husband who considers his wife his life. Not for a single moment did he think his wife was right. Even while calling Joseph, he did so with sarcasm, more for exposing T as a liar than finding out the truth, since he had his blinders on thinking that C is beyond reproach.

And in the end, he says that C was the root of all problems and that he is pure. What crap! At least T is very honest in attempting to take a step back and finding her faults too. In fact, barring Padma, all others in T's house rooted for TA, but we have the evil duo GW and Lav in TA's house, ably supported by TA himself in discrediting T.

And this uncouth behaviour of sending her away to her dad's house and then getting her to sign the divorce paper (so what if he comments that she values Cs truth more than living with him?) and not bothering abt her study dues, this shows TA in a very bad taste. And the comment abt getting tea - that was the highlight of poor characterization.

And this Joseph - he was more apologetic to Kanagu and T than he was to TA. Ok, he wanted to prove C was bad but he conveniently refrained from mentioning his role and acts as though nothing happened and it was just by chance he found out abt C and continues in the same jest way he had moved earlier with TA. That is also very shallow.

And someone mentioned that TA may not do much to his mom and sis. True. Even knowing abt their greed (taking the 4 L money which he had to suffer for later), keeping TA and T separate by hiding jewels, pretending to lose it (which he came to know later) and all other parts played by GW (hiding Nithish's 4 L by buying Lav jewels), and finally the police station episode where GW refused to come out, threatening suicide (which Puvi informs TA abt), he will still support them only. No wonder they say blood is thicker than water. And not only their blood, their skin is also thick. So even after all these guilts and atrocious acts, all of them will join and refuse to accept their mistakes. orE kuttaiyil ooriya mattigaL (GW, Lav and TA). Oosi idam kuduthaa dhaana nool nuzhaiya mudiyum. IF TA hadn't been too trusting and blind by his C friendship, he would have seen the truth long ago. He was adamant abt believing C and mistrusting his wife. For that he should never be forgiven.

And enna dhaan friendnaalum or guided by guilt feelings towards C, he gave her too much leeway to wrap herself around him and allowed her athai bothai name calling. modhallayE, he shd have said how is my amma athai to you? And the way she intruded in their life, he gave her too much latitude and adhula konjam kooda he didn't give his wife when she pointed out the truth.

Ondraa rendaa thunbangaL Charu seiyyavE one year pOdhumaa,

vendraaL ithanai aandugaL Thulasi varundhavE idhu dhaan mOgamaa..

Edited by swash2 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#52
@swash - TA cannot question Joesph, if he had to do that, he first has to question himself first.
If TA asks what value did J have/had towards friendship, T would be asking what value he has/had towards their H/W relationship. So J knew TA and he himself were at fault. T is as usual the victim and hence J was apologising to T/kanagu. TA does not require any apology from Joseph, both are partners in crime without knowing each other's participating in the track.
Same goes with GW/Lav - Like u said Blood is thicker than water is the thing that played a major role for TA's activities towards T and same time C factor was nicely put in front by them to bring in TA towards their side. Thulasi very aplty pointed out this as the reason why she was sent away from the house. TA needs to hear what all trauma T went thru and shd ask a open apology to her.
I want T to teach the lesson to TA in a hard way and she has started it all well, but same time when things are okie with them, they should be equal share from both T/T and no hidden things and mistakes they commited,particularly by TA here on. Lets see..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Swash has articulated even my feelings towards Ta so well. TA needs to suffer the separation from T more. Looks like he will never change. Except for Kanagu all his other friends are low life and can not expect anything better. This is the company he keeps. In fact he himself may be a bad company.
TA has been an extremely shallow person. I feel T deserves better.




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Posted: 13 years ago
#54
swash very well written.For me I feel the marriage between T and Ta didn't work because of expectations they had on each other.And worst thing was when GW asked T to get out of house he didn't say a word to stop her.What is the use of saying dialogies like 7 jenmam when you cannot keep up the promise in this jenma itself.Intha jenmathela T patta kashtam pothatha.Innum 7 jenmathukku vera entha Ta voda kashtpaduma enna?I think even if C would have married Ta she would have also left for his character.Basically there is no consistency in his character. Just like living a carefree life.I would say he is not ready for marriage.Even now he cannot just like that think everything is because of C and move on.Everything is because of his own actions and never realising the consquences.We all were thinking that he was acting for C and K to get married.But that was a total false assumption from us.He was very hard on a young girl and wated her time.What is the use of celebrating B'day and anniversary when you didn't provide food , shelter and college fees for his wife.I would repeat this just because somebody is innocent doesn't make them eligible for marriage.They need to spend 2-3 years apart.They married for wrong reasons and both of them doesn't have any role models /advisors on how to lead a life. T doesn't have a mom to tell what is right and wrong all she gets is some venthum vegatha advice from Deepa.Tamil doesn't understand what is to enter into marital life.Expecting his wife to prove who is right/wrong each and every time is like behaviour of 10year not a married man.They don't need to listen to each other but just understand how relationships are difficult and be faithful to each other.
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Desi
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Posted: 13 years ago
#55
Thanks for the lovely update!!

Sruthi stole the show!! Her acting and expressions were nice. Joseph even managed to lighten up the mood with his dialogues.

So looks like TT are not getting together that fast. Lol...Tamil needs to be alone for some time and figure out his mistakes. It was kinda cute though how he wanted to sit beside Tulasi and talk to her. Tulasi never even looked at him..lol.
Edited by smiles86 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56
Thanks Bhagi for the wonderful and awesome Update!👏🤗

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