Monday Update: 13/02/12 - Page 5

Viswal, You say, 'Is that how men are? Is it us women who are more emotional? His character is so very confusing.'

Originally posted by: maha2us

Viswal, You say, 'Is that how men are? Is it us women who are more emotional? His character is so very confusing.'

Men are as much emotional as women. But the society is cruel to men. It is common for moms to tell their sons, 'Boys don't cry. Only girls cry.' When mothers tell this, they are telling their sons to suppress their feelings. Believe me, It is extremely painful for men to make themselves stone-hearted suppressing their feelings and not letting themselves cry. We see in serials and films women crying but men? I don't think we are going to see TA crying anytime in the serial telling his feelings to anyone. for that simple reason, I will say atleast T understands some day what is going on within him especially because he does not have a loving and understanding mother or sister, who could understand his point of views.

I think T did that yday too, bcos she knows he would be hurt already, thats why she just controlled her anger on him, and did not let it out and just ignored. She ignoring him is much required at this point of time. As I usually say, spoken words have only one meaning...the words that are not spoken or not reacting to things when someone expects has 1000 of meanings in it...Now TA does not know what T is actually feeling and he wants to learn it, but he could not. he needs this treatment for sure. There is no distinction btn men/woman for crying...if they have good reasons indeed. TA crying that his mom/sister berayed him for money was just a comedy, didnt look good...but at this moment when T keeps on ignoring, if he ends up pouring out his emotions, in the sense if he cries lightly, it will deftly make sense. He was already like a baby curling out its lips before it starts actually crying...😆...Timing is what matters...Woman keeping on crying for silly reasons is also annoying, they made T cry many at times too earlier and we felt the same.

For some reason, after the park scene episode, i liked the episode very much...
So far i was never comfortable that T/T were husbd/wife 100% as something was bothering me...i dont know if it was C factor or it was like TA had a superior side wrt Thulasi. 😕...
But with yday episode, i could see them and accept them as H/W characters. They are in the same line now. I did not get annoyed with T ignoring or TA going behind. Thulasi's words were true at one point - they did nto ahve a proper undertanding or something was missing in this 1 year of life - too much interferece, TA being superior wrt T, T having thankfulness to TA, C factor etc. But now i felt all that is gone and i hope TA/T will have to listen to each other and come up well. Lets see.
Earlier it was like TA had given a life to T and T was indeed too much thankful to him.
Now that whatever he had done, he himself has nullified by asking for divorce. He himself cancelled whatever he did by going to this level.
I would say, their wedding is also no more a thirutu kalyanam as GW or whoever claims. He himself made it all fake by getting the div paper signed. To me they are like a newly wed couples who are gg to start a new life...
If TA gave her a rebirth by saving from Vel, its the same TA who made their wedding all new by his acts now who has deftly created a more comfortable feel towards him for his wife now even without realising things. Actually I shd say ppl around him made him do so...
I dont know how many will agree to my point...lol

Originally posted by: rosebrit3

Where is AnnaJay's comment, waiting for it eagerly

I think Anna Jay said, she will comment with promos..😕...
U can also feel free to share your views about the episode and when AnnaJay finds time or feel to let us know hints we can go ahead with more comments...😃...Its more fun to guess things even without hints...hope to see ur comments too...😃

What Thulasi said was very true when she said, 'I am telling both of us are at fault.' That means Thulasi is looking inside herself which is a contrast how TA looks. Thulasi could learn she forced TA to live in GW's house without checking his preference, her yelling at Charu listening to Sudha, her behavior with Charu listening to Deepa and her hiding of KP's arrival at her home from TA all made TA mad at her. All of them indicating her not understanding TA or learning about him.

Thanks TTfan...nice update. 👍🏼

Well it was nice to watch Thulz giving cold shoulders to TA and his disappointment was written all over his face. What did he expect from Thulz?...that she would run to him and give him a hug and say "Enangga I am glad you realise that I am not at fault and it doesn't matter to me now if you had doubted me earlier"😡

When he feels like it he would want to ditch her but when he feels like having her back then she must crawl back to him like a little puppy is it? I hate that MM - he is all out to make Thulz go back to TA but not even giving consideration to her feelings. Its not surprising bcoz he too belong to that same male chauvinist category.

Its high time Thulz gives due consideration to he studies. Its always better to be independent and never to depend solely on her hubby for everything. Standing on her two feet will give her more confidence to face future challenges. She has clearly stated her doubts on TA by being reluctant to start anew with him.😉

TA knows very well that he has done great wrong to Thulz and he does regret it but then what is that is stopping him from approaching her and say "Happy Valentine's Day dear and I am so sorry for being a cheap cad"😆

Originally posted by: gajan123455

poor kesav still in the washroom

Probably washing the washroom...is his cellphone with him or he left it in the room??😛

I didn't observe well enough to see tears in TA's eyes. Does he know how to cry? Why? is chest is paining is it? Why does want Thulz back - is love for her came back is it or is it bcoz his conscience is pricking him??😍

TA never had a good male role model having lost his father. A child needs both parents. Father is equally importent as mom, to build character, balance and steadiness. His sis and mom have been his cheer leaders no matter what he did. When Sudha pointed out his mistakes, Gw was pouncing on Sudha and made her a villain.now that Ta will be alone he will have a chance to reflect on what went wrong. This will be a good experience. I wish he gets close to Tps and get advise on many matters.