I've been having a thought guys about Aham

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-Nafisa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well nothing new there, we seem to think about Gohem 24/7 and his part of the pair...it is my POV that Aham is so agitated now at Gopi going to her pihar, not only because he misses her, off course he does, but because they have not consummated their relationship. He might be afraid that now it's her second time going to her pihar that Jithu bhai and Urmila will corner her and question her, no kids, yes Rashi also but remember Rashi has just had problems with Jigar, but Gopi has kept it to herself, so if she is now at her pihar for some days, Aham will think her family will question her happiness and she might reveal that their have no relations.

Why that makes it an issue is because for over a year nothing, Aham might be thinking RaJi have had these relations (no-one knows they haven't either, other then themselves), so he might be afraid of the consequences of this coming up at her pihar, it might make them think that perhaps, Aham will not accept Gopi fully and that they need to find another groom for her to marry, as a result keep Gopi at the CM whilst they look for someone else for her. That's the thought I had about Aham today...😛

Edited by Nafisa_blossoms - 13 years ago

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-JollyJabeen-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nafisa, after reading 'Consummated marriage' and 'Gohem' in the same paragraph,my mind did a flip and i had to read the paragraph again!😆

Awww what amazing thinking!😉

Gohem NEED,actually Ahem NEEDS to realise he wants Gopi and he wants her bad! :P 😳

So cute,what a cute post!😆

Im blushing now!😆☺️

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suk19

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Posted: 13 years ago

its a interesting thought but lets hope aham just gets gopi back from cm i dont want her there i want her in the arms of aham

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

nafisa... u are thinking out of the box... ur mind works too fast😉

poor guy is sooo perplexed with his feelings and you are blaming him that he is thinking about their consummation of LOL😆

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-Nafisa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well Chika and Munni don't agree...Chika thinks consummation of marriage and Gohem don't fit somehow as their relationship hasn't got to that stage (I appreciate that neither one of them is there yet, you didn't understand my point exactly...😉), Munni thinks Aham hasn't figured out anything yet his feelings or what has caused Gopi's unhappiness the last few days (I agree with you, but you also didn't understand what I'm saying...😉)

I will try to explain...lol

Aham is thinking like this, if my wife is at her pihar again avoiding me, this is bad, because culturally a girl to go to her maternal home is frowned upon, her pihar will always ask questions why she is there is she having problems with her sasura or husband, with these type of questions they might stumble on the fact they are living together like brother and sister (your point here Chika consummation and Gohem not happening any time soon) and Munni your point about Aham being perplexed and not understanding what is going on in Gopi's head...the small separation from her, will lead him to thinking lots of things, he won't arrive at the truth of the matter (Kokila demanding Gopi stops being a distraction to Aham) but he will be afraid of the consequences of her family finding out the state of their marriage, that will come in his mind, because recently Kinjal came home and what was the questions as soon as she walked in the door...similarly he will think Gopi will be grilled to get to the secrets of his marriage.

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-JollyJabeen-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms
Well Chika and Munni don't agree...Chika thinks consummation of marriage and Gohem don't fit somehow as their relationship hasn't got to that stage (I appreciate that neither one of them is there yet, you didn't understand my point exactly...😉), Munni thinks Aham hasn't figured out anything yet his feelings or what has caused Gopi's unhappiness the last few days (I agree with you, but you also didn't understand what I'm saying...😉)

I will try to explain...lol

Aham is thinking like this, if my wife is at her pihar again avoiding me, this is bad, because culturally a girl to go to her maternal home is frowned upon, her pihar will always ask questions why she is there is she having problems with her sasura or husband, with these type of questions they might stumble on the fact they are living together like brother and sister (your point here Chika consummation and Gohem not happening any time soon) and Munni your point about Aham being perplexed and not understanding what is going on in Gopi's head...the small separation from her, will lead him to thinking lots of things, he won't arrive at the truth of the matter (Kokila demanding Gopi stops being a distraction to Aham) but he will be afraid of the consequences of her family finding out the state of their marriage, that will come in his mind, because recently Kinjal came home and what was the questions as soon as she walked in the door...similarly he will think Gopi will be grilled to get to the secrets of his marriage.

Ohhh now i get it!🤣

I can't believe you compared Gohem as a brother and sister!😆

Loved it!👏

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Out of the box Nafisa.. 😆 Nice one...
But Ahem and remarriage.. That too for Gopi? Chance less.. He will kill the person who even starts to think that way. 😆

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-Nafisa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Out of the box Nafisa.. 😆 Nice one...
But Ahem and remarriage.. That too for Gopi? Chance less.. He will kill the person who even starts to think that way. 😆

But we saw how he is, he listens to his elders, and he knows Gopi does too, if she is convinced by her pihar that the marriage with Aham is going noway and they will find another husband for her, she will accept it. I only said Gopi here, I didn't say Aham remarrying...

But the agitation I am saying is caused by these thoughts...no consummation, everyone finds out at her pihar and possibly discussions of marrying off Gopi elsewhere, is what I am talking about.

Off course Aham will become macho and go and fight with his in-laws were this to happen, but that is besides the point here, I'm only discussing what is in his mind presently the consequences of Gopi going to her pihar.

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Out of the box Nafisa.. 😆 Nice one...
But Ahem and remarriage.. That too for Gopi? Chance less.. He will kill the person who even starts to think that way. 😆

nafisa now i got it ...and nice one... and out of the box,,...

and

harini @bold i am sure he will not spare him in any corner of the world

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

But we saw how he is, he listens to his elders, and he knows Gopi does too, if she is convinced by her pihar that the marriage with Aham is going noway and they will find another husband for her, she will accept it. I only said Gopi here, I didn't say Aham remarrying...

But the agitation I am saying is caused by these thoughts...no consummation, everyone finds out at her pihar and possibly discussions of marrying off Gopi elsewhere, is what I am talking about.

Off course Aham will become macho and go and fight with his in-laws were this to happen, but that is besides the point here, I'm only discussing what is in his mind presently the consequences of Gopi going to her pihar.

@bold... gopi never ever remarries who so ever may try to convince her... she can stay away from Ahemji but cannot have another man in her life😉