A mother's blind love - Page 2

Originally posted by: shrarrti

I really like Maharani Komal. But I swear, that woman is letting her love blind her. I'm glad that she is willing to love and support her daughter. But that does not mean she should turn a blind eye to what destruction she has caused.

People always get a chance. But I'm more of a Brijraj type of person. You get one chance and if you mess that up, depending on what it is, I will write you off and cut you out of my life. I don't think Brijraj will go that far, but I can completely understand how he can not place his faith in trust in Manyata.

If I was in Manyata's shoes, and had been caught with a man in my room, my mother would have immediately kicked me out of the house. No questions asked. And she would not have forgiven me or made bargains with me. And my mother loves me a lot and has forgiven my many mistakes before.

Sigh, it just seems unreal. I wonder how Udhay is going to get revenge. And I guess you can tell I'm on Udhay's side. Not because he's hot or a prince but because he's been the most hurt in all this at the end.

Originally posted by: Naina007

I disagree. A mother's love is unconditional. There is nothing as such chances. Your loved ones make mistakes as they are not perfect human beings, they are bound to make mistakes. But the important thing is what they learn from the mistakes and not make them again.

I agree that the whole boy fiasco was not right. But I don't believe that because of that your disown your own daughter. A mother's heart is very different from a father's heart, so Brijraj is mostly black and white, he has his own set of rules that his daughters must follow and there's no if's or but's. But Komal is more of a person who looks from the grey aspects, because it's never that simple, each circumstance has a different truth to it and you must act accordingly to that. But let's face it, you can't say to your own child or to anyone you love that if you do this and that according to my wishes I'll forever banish you from my life. That sort of love is very conditional. Your children are not your robots, they are humans with their own set of likes and dislikes. In all honesty parents should not have any expectations from their children, yes its not natural to not have any of course, but with expectations comes a lot of disappointments and restriction. Children are not your pets, they are your children.

I feel for Uday too, he's gotten the worst predicament out of all of this. At this point in time, I don't think revenge will make him feel any better though, because what he truly wants is to be the winner of the heart of Manyata, not make her suffer.

Originally posted by: shrarrti

You are right about parent's love being unconditional, but it takes a long time after a betrayal to forgive and forget and to move on. For Komal to jump first and not realize that it is also her job to guide Manyata too as well as supporting her, does not make for great parenting.

Besides, every parent has their limit. There is only so much they can overlook. What Manyata did regarding Akash would break most parents limits. That's all I'm saying.

But even parents are not perfect, they make mistakes and I think that Komal is mainly still in the state of mind...that AFTER SIXTEEN YEARS her daughter has come back to her...she wants to make up for all that time...as a parent, I can't even begin to imagine the pain of losing your child for sixteen years...see? So she can't be blamed for going a bit overboard with her love...she has born so much pain the last sixteen years. And Brijraj, even though he didn't like Manyeta's image from the start since she was found, he tried to connect with her...IT WAS MANYETA who took ages to try to gel with her family...which even now she has to do. Ofcourse, her bua and dad don't make it easy and ruffle her feathers at the slightest.

Originally posted by: DEKfan2012

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Originally posted by: DEKfan2012

But even parents are not perfect, they make mistakes and I think that Komal is mainly still in the state of mind...that AFTER SIXTEEN YEARS her daughter has come back to her...she wants to make up for all that time...as a parent, I can't even begin to imagine the pain of losing your child for sixteen years...see? So she can't be blamed for going a bit overboard with her love...she has born so much pain the last sixteen years. And Brijraj, even though he didn't like Manyeta's image from the start since she was found, he tried to connect with her...IT WAS MANYETA who took ages to try to gel with her family...which even now she has to do. Ofcourse, her bua and dad don't make it easy and ruffle her feathers at the slightest.

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Originally posted by: Naina007

Unconditional love has nothing to do with teaching your kids wrong from right. You can and should. But the rest of the decision lies with them, if they chose to listen or not listen. You can't force it because the more you force the more they rebel. Sometimes kids have to make their own mistakes and learn on their own. I don't blame Komal at all. There is a limit of tolerance and patience of course, but your parents stand by you regardless of the situation because they unconditionally love you; be it your right or wrong, if your wrong they correct you and still stand by your side, not throw you out.

I agree with you @DEKfan2012. I believe DS has done this exact thing, she has given Manyata freedom to see what kind of predicament she is in and then let her realize on her own about her lineage as well as her relationship with Uday.

Originally posted by: shrarrti

Manyata has not thought well of Udhay since the day they met. Not once has she even tried to get along with him ON HER OWN or think of him positively. What makes you think she's going to think about him without any malice if he's not in her life?

And I think you missed the point. I'm not blaming Komal for anything. I just said she was letting her emotions get in the way of being a strong parent. Which is something you all of said too. And if you don't agree with that, then we'll just have to agree to disagree. 😊 😆