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Originally posted by: shrarrti
I really like Maharani Komal. But I swear, that woman is letting her love blind her. I'm glad that she is willing to love and support her daughter. But that does not mean she should turn a blind eye to what destruction she has caused.
People always get a chance. But I'm more of a Brijraj type of person. You get one chance and if you mess that up, depending on what it is, I will write you off and cut you out of my life. I don't think Brijraj will go that far, but I can completely understand how he can not place his faith in trust in Manyata.If I was in Manyata's shoes, and had been caught with a man in my room, my mother would have immediately kicked me out of the house. No questions asked. And she would not have forgiven me or made bargains with me. And my mother loves me a lot and has forgiven my many mistakes before.Sigh, it just seems unreal. I wonder how Udhay is going to get revenge. And I guess you can tell I'm on Udhay's side. Not because he's hot or a prince but because he's been the most hurt in all this at the end.
I disagree. A mother's love is unconditional. There is nothing as such chances. Your loved ones make mistakes as they are not perfect human beings, they are bound to make mistakes. But the important thing is what they learn from the mistakes and not make them again.
I agree that the whole boy fiasco was not right. But I don't believe that because of that your disown your own daughter. A mother's heart is very different from a father's heart, so Brijraj is mostly black and white, he has his own set of rules that his daughters must follow and there's no if's or but's. But Komal is more of a person who looks from the grey aspects, because it's never that simple, each circumstance has a different truth to it and you must act accordingly to that. But let's face it, you can't say to your own child or to anyone you love that if you do this and that according to my wishes I'll forever banish you from my life. That sort of love is very conditional. Your children are not your robots, they are humans with their own set of likes and dislikes. In all honesty parents should not have any expectations from their children, yes its not natural to not have any of course, but with expectations comes a lot of disappointments and restriction. Children are not your pets, they are your children.
I feel for Uday too, he's gotten the worst predicament out of all of this. At this point in time, I don't think revenge will make him feel any better though, because what he truly wants is to be the winner of the heart of Manyata, not make her suffer.
...Komal is letting her emotions get in the way of being a strong parent, BUT because she has been through what most parents never have, the fact that she lost her daughter for sixteen years, justifies her feelings...
