A mother's blind love

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Preet

@shrarrti

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Posted: 13 years ago

I really like Maharani Komal. But I swear, that woman is letting her love blind her. I'm glad that she is willing to love and support her daughter. But that does not mean she should turn a blind eye to what destruction she has caused.

People always get a chance. But I'm more of a Brijraj type of person. You get one chance and if you mess that up, depending on what it is, I will write you off and cut you out of my life. I don't think Brijraj will go that far, but I can completely understand how he can not place his faith in trust in Manyata.

If I was in Manyata's shoes, and had been caught with a man in my room, my mother would have immediately kicked me out of the house. No questions asked. And she would not have forgiven me or made bargains with me. And my mother loves me a lot and has forgiven my many mistakes before.

Sigh, it just seems unreal. I wonder how Udhay is going to get revenge. And I guess you can tell I'm on Udhay's side. Not because he's hot or a prince but because he's been the most hurt in all this at the end.

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@Barunkidewani

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Posted: 13 years ago

agreee totally blind love ughhh😔

PLZ CVS Uday is the HEROOO nah Villian😭

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree Preet, completely Agree!👏

Some may find it sad, but BOTH my parents are like Brij: Seriously.

They can only take so much from anyone before it's over. They love us greatly, but there are expectations we need to meet- and if we don't there won't be a "It's OK puth, you tried, here, let me hold your hand and whip your tears- no worries"

I love Komal, I do, and I feel for her- but overall I think Brijraj sees the bigger picture of things- that's not to say he doesnt love his daughter, but it does show that his love does not make him weak- Komal's does.

I feel for Uday, and I do think he's gotten hurt the most- and yes he has- not just because of Manyata, I think he could have overcome that- but because of DS- who is/was like a mother to him. That is what hurt him the most.

Manyata can never understand the pain she has envoked, the feelings she has divided and the relationships she has destroyed. Her request for akash to give her a "suprise" will have the most lethal of ramifications. I don't think she sees it as such as the moment, but she has inadvertantly set herself up to BOTH become a Princess, and let go of Akash.

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Avnish17

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Posted: 13 years ago

I like Komal too but in today's epi when Uday was asking DS why did she do this to him? In between their conversation Komal said "Kya Manyata badal ne ko taiyaar hai" or something like that. It sounded like she doesn't care about M's rishta with Udayveer. I understand that she loves her daughter but still. She didn't even try to stop Uday when he was leaving. I hope she doesn't support Akash and Manyata in the future.

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Preet

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: reeha...k
I agree Preet, completely Agree!👏

Some may find it sad, but BOTH my parents are like Brij: Seriously.

They can only take so much from anyone before it's over. They love us greatly, but there are expectations we need to meet- and if we don't there won't be a "It's OK puth, you tried, here, let me hold your hand and whip your tears- no worries"

I love Komal, I do, and I feel for her- but overall I think Brijraj sees the bigger picture of things- that's not to say he doesnt love his daughter, but it does show that his love does not make him weak- Komal's does.

I feel for Uday, and I do think he's gotten hurt the most- and yes he has- not just because of Manyata, I think he could have overcome that- but because of DS- who is/was like a mother to him. That is what hurt him the most.

Manyata can never understand the pain she has envoked, the feelings she has divided and the relationships she has destroyed. Her request for akash to give her a "suprise" will have the most lethal of ramifications. I don't think she sees it as such as the moment, but she has inadvertantly set herself up to BOTH become a Princess, and let go of Akash.

I REALLY REALLY hope this is true. Manyata has yet to learn how important family is. After all. blood is thicker than water.

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Sid

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Posted: 13 years ago

true that yaar.

i think many of us have very strict parents. desi parents aksar strict hote hi hain. but that's not to say that they don't love us. they love us more than anything. but that does not mean they put a blindfold on their eyes and accept whtever we do wholeheartedly, as long as we are nice to them :S

if a random guy was found in my room, and my mom finds out i had been lying to her all along...she WOULD probably stop speaking to me, for a LONG LONG time. i may also get a couple of slaps. but more than that, just the trust that i would break would never be easy to regain. and that's the story with all our parents - they have certain expectations and trust on us. if we break that once, and SO BADLY, it's extremely hard to win it back. :S

a mother like komal's, though at first, seems the ideal kind. but, no offense, but a mother who is willing to easily forgive and forget all her kid's mistakes, no matter how wrong they r, is not doing good to her kid in the long run. kids NEED to be disciplined, and they need to learn the difference b/w right and wrong. and a certain amount of authority and discipline is necessary for that :S u can't just give a kid whatever they want - that is not what a parent is supposed to do. a parent is supposed to GUIDE their children on the RIGHT path. :S

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Preet

@shrarrti

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada
true that yaar.

i think many of us have very strict parents. desi parents aksar strict hote hi hain. but that's not to say that they don't love us. they love us more than anything. but that does not mean they put a blindfold on their eyes and accept whtever we do wholeheartedly, as long as we are nice to them :S

if a random guy was found in my room, and my mom finds out i had been lying to her all along...she WOULD probably stop speaking to me, for a LONG LONG time. i may also get a couple of slaps. but more than that, just the trust that i would break would never be easy to regain. and that's the story with all our parents - they have certain expectations and trust on us. if we break that once, and SO BADLY, it's extremely hard to win it back. :S

a mother like komal's, though at first, seems the ideal kind. but, no offense, but a mother who is willing to easily forgive and forget all her kid's mistakes, no matter how wrong they r, is not doing good to her kid in the long run. kids NEED to be disciplined, and they need to learn the difference b/w right and wrong. and a certain amount of authority and discipline is necessary for that :S u can't just give a kid whatever they want - that is not what a parent is supposed to do. a parent is supposed to GUIDE their children on the RIGHT path. :S

You are so right. Komal is forgetting that she needs to be a guide as well as give support to Manyata. In fact if you think about it, Komal is just being supporting, while Brijraj is being a guide. No wonder they make sucha great couple! But I wonder which role Rajmata is playing?

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@sami01

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Posted: 13 years ago

i found komal insensitive and very selfish in her love for manyata..she was not bothered about uday's hurt..even if she has faith in Dadi sa and all she stil shoudl have felt sadness at what her daughter has done...she was least bothered about hurt she was causing by being so blind in her daughter's love,she is so into manyata that she is forgetting lot of other imp things..in my opinion she seems extremly selfish today..brij is better atleast he knows how much ma sa's actions have hurt jaigarh family

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Purva

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Posted: 13 years ago

There's difference in the love of a parent and any other kind of love. A parent will forgive his/her child a thousand sins and at the end of the day, will toss and turn in bed wondering if the child ate, is hurt, tired... whatever whatever.

Only a parent can understand what Komal is going through at the moment. Finally her daughter is setting her first steps on the road to her destiny, Komal can only feel happy and apprehensive for her child. What she said to Brijraj is right "a daughter is very different from a racehorse".

When we love others or let other people into our lives, we let them in because we like spending time with them, talking to them, blah blah... so it is easy to cut oneself off from people who cause more heartache than pleasure.

But when a parent brings a child into the world, it is with the knowledge that henceforth their life as an individual is over. From the parent a child is conceived, the man and woman cease to become who they are, they become parents.

A parent will forgive a child a thousand sins, we have seen numerous instances of children who ill-treat or abuse their parents, and still the parents continue to care for the ungrateful wretches. Komal at least is getting love back from M.

Also I think it would be wrong to compare Komal and M's relationship on the same level as our own realtionship with our mothers. Komal's daughter was brought up away from her, with the worst of influences, zero value system and zero education. Komal had nothing to do with the raising of her daughter, she can only be a part of her grooming. So when M says she is ready to change, Komal sees the return of her daughter finally. Now she can build the bond of trust and expectations that exist between a mother and daughter. So far, M is a stranger.

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Preet

@shrarrti

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: sami01
i found komal insensitive and very selfish in her love for manyata..she was not bothered about uday's hurt..even if she has faith in Dadi sa and all she stil shoudl have felt sadness at what her daughter has done...she was least bothered about hurt she was causing by being so blind in her daughter's love,she is so into manyata that she is forgetting lot of other imp things..in my opinion she seems extremly selfish today..brij is better atleast he knows how much ma sa's actions have hurt jaigarh family

All of this makes me wonder if what Manyata did has really affected her at all? After all she has been like a mother to Udhay and Unnati too, and why did what was happening not bother her at all? It's like her mamta is only for her true flesh and blood.

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