Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
🤗Thanks Kai for the warm welcome
Yes I see this serial as I liked it . The people r real people , unglamorous and not bejewelled cows walking around with high heels in homes ...I cannot relate to that nonsense
No character is outright evil or extremely good . All r credible humans .
About the sasur Mr Vyas
I admit he is a very very nice man and is genuinely fond of Megha . Treats her like a daughter . He and his sister treat her the best in that house .
I also know that his love for her is PROTECTIVE . He wishes that she should not suffer the sun and rain outside but live comfortably INSIDE the house whereas the brunt of earning money shall be borne by him .
But he is impractical . His ego is of the good type , not an evil ego . But nevertheless its an ego .
He of all people should know HOW uncertain life is . If young Amar could die in a jiffy , he is an old man , death can knock on HIS door ANY TIME
And when he goes what about Megha and the kids ? Should she be doomed to a life of depending on a brother in law and listening to sister in law's taunts and should her kids grow up like inferior second class citizens while Tanu struts around like the MAALIK of the house ?
Won't the self esteem of the two children be badly damaged due to this ?
He keeps saying this house does not need money from bahu , circumstances r not that bad but thats hardly the picture , Megha's children r often deprived of basic necessities like SHOES and UNIFORMS ...the women of the house literally acrape money from each end and pool it together and pay the bania
Sanjay is not an engineer , doctor or high paying professional ...just a simple accountant in a private company
Is it fair to burden him with Megha AND her children
Its too much
Sanjay is weak , but he is NICE , he does not support his son and wife and till now has NEVER said a single word to Megha
Even if those 6 lakhs that the bank is not given Megha r released , still they wont be of much help
In todays world what r six lacs How long will they be sufficient
Nothing
Right now Megha is young and can still get a job , as age advances , she will not get job if she crosses age limit
Neither does Mr Vyas put Tanu adequately in check ...how did he give him money for finding Nanhi , does not he know how irresponsible Tanu is , why ud he suddenly change in one day
Still I understand that . It was misunderstanding . Megha also kept quiet , so yea I understand that
But the advice Mr Vyas gave Megha on KITE FLYING day was superb
So what is PAPA is not their , their MOM is there na ?
This same advice he shud give in Virtual life too . So what if Papa is not there , Mother is there na ...Megha , ur intelligent , young and strong lady ...realise ur worth and work , dont depend on anyone ...dont be a cripple or make ur children cripple , looking at others faces for basic things
He can tell Sanjay that believe in urself and ur worth ...why not to Megha
Why wait for Amars money to be released by keeping fingers crossed , TILL THEN WHAT
And after that , he should seek good life partner for her , ...someone who will love his grandchildren a lot after he dies and who will not mind HIM being a part of their life even if he marries Megha
But i understand that to arrive at this last part will take some time . Chalo , koi baat nahi , we r here to wait and enjoy serial till he understands this one day ...😆