Confused! ASR not interested in marriage??

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi fellow IPKKND ians
I am confused. Is ASR playing fast and loose with KKG if he claims disinterest in marriage, does not stop his family from fixing up NK with her? I mean I understand he may not want to get married immediately but surely there should be some change in his attitude to commitment and he can't be dumb enough York let his family move ahead with NK's rishtha right? Why is he flirting with her knowing she is an old fashioned traditional girl with whom he should proceed only with a relationship in mind? Would love some analysis on all this from all of fantastic writers/analysts out there

Btw just caught up on bhph and can see why so many of you rave about Barun. I like him as ASR but my respect for him has shot up manifold now

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hmm you know he is fine! He is being ASR. If suddenly he shows interest towards marriage just because nani and anjali talked about their marriage is so Not ASR. It will ruin his character. And i just loved the way he said..yeah "hey make a good pair. Both are pagal and perfect " That was so ASR. His instinct knows that khushi belongs to him. But still when he sees nk and khushi even more closer in the future he cant control himself from accepting that he loves her! He needs a push you know! Jealous arnav = HOT arnav1
Sorry for the big rant! 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I can totally get what Arnav is doing right now... after screaming hoarse that he does not believe in marriage and commitment, he can't immediately do a volte-face and say he wants to get married to her!

You could see the conflict on his face when he was asked the question... he obviously hated the idea that Khushi could be with someone else, but true to his nature, guards his emotions and walks off in a huff with a nonchalant (seemingly) "Whatever?"

But nani and Anjali don't miss the intense feelings he harbors for Khushi as they shine through despite him trying hard to hide them behind his tough facade.

To put it simply, I think Arnav is interested in Khushi and loves her. He knows the kind of person that she is and the value she places in an institution like marriage. He even considers the idea, bringing it up himself "Khushi aur main?"

But it will take him some time to get used to the idea of it, he's not averse to it I think but he'd probably like to take time before the rest of the family gets on his case about it!

Hope this helps 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i don't think he's playing fast and loose. In fact he's changing from a non-believer in marriage and love to a charming loverboy...
Rt now he's in an "in between but closer to loverboy" state of mind and hence no outright denial but the shy hesitation and a totally jealous comment like "yeah they r both half mads they'll make a gr8 pair..."
He'll confess soon what's on his mind.
And One thing is for sure. The family r just teasing him compellinf him to confess. So just enjoy and adore the rainbow of expressons that is Arnav aka ASR aka Barun...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was like when I watched ASR..I was expecting so much to see how he would react😆the guy is still not interested in matrimony😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: adeeti10

I can totally get what Arnav is doing right now... after screaming hoarse that he does not believe in marriage and commitment, he can't immediately do a volte-face and say he wants to get married to her!


You could see the conflict on his face when he was asked the question... he obviously hated the idea that Khushi could be with someone else, but true to his nature, guards his emotions and walks off in a huff with a nonchalant (seemingly) "Whatever?"

But nani and Anjali don't miss the intense feelings he harbors for Khushi as they shine through despite him trying hard to hide them behind his tough facade.

To put it simply, I think Arnav is interested in Khushi and loves her. He knows the kind of person that she is and the value she places in an institution like marriage. He even considers the idea, bringing it up himself "Khushi aur main?"

But it will take him some time to get used to the idea of it, he's not averse to it I think but he'd probably like to take time before the rest of the family gets on his case about it!

Hope this helps 😊

That is surely the crux of it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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he is not against marriage... His expression was hopeful wen they suggested his marriage with khushi but the moment they said NK he reverted to being ASR.. the person who builds walls of indifference and hate to prevent himself from being hurt..
so the answer to ur question.. arnav wants nothing more than getting married to his khushi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Achava11

I was like when I watched ASR..I was expecting so much to see how he would react😆the guy is still not interested in matrimony😆

hahaha...even i was like ...😆...buh den hes strong headed person...it is simply not easy to take off words frm his mouth...naah ! he wnt budge tht easily...so keep adding fuel (NK-khushi scenes) to da fire ( in front of arnav)...😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks so much !
Now I can go back to drooling without feeling guilty hehe 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Truly, if ASR does not want to commit to a relationship, he should not get upset when Khushi decides to move on or the talk of her marriage proposal crops up ... earlier when he knew about her engagement, he was livid... he said "han mujhe faraq padta hai" ... so now what?

Is it the fear of commitment or is it an issue with his ego? He left LA almost at the altar stating he does not love her.. so in short, he indirectly said to LA that to make a commitment to someone, I have to be in love with that person...

To me it seems ASR is behaving like a d-g in a manger... he wants to eat his cake and keep it too... This one trait I cant understand... what was he thinking when he kissed Khushi? was it then a challenge or was he trying to demonstrate his feelings towards her...?


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