indira greedy? family

Hi! This might sound anti indira but please let me first assure all that im all for indira- i like her though im not crazy about her .

The family whom we all love to hate. BUT WHY?

Theres Kutumb and Sunaina- what do they want? Their husbands attention/love . and a comfortable life like kutumb wants relief from her aches and pains and her asthma . sunaina perhaps wants some jewellery and dresses . Is that wrong? On the surface no.

Theres Mandira- whats does she want? Attention . very common in her age. And to dress up well , be the centre of attraction. Is that a crime? No.

Then theres Munna and Inder. (im discounting ishaan) needs more analysis. Lets say inder left his first home for Jhumpa s sake etc., wouldn't we expect the first son to be affected the most? Yes should be, though here it looks like munna decided to keep his sense of laziness and humor with himself and ignore the bitterness against his dads betrayal. So he continues to be be same what he was when inder left them never growing up perhaps? So what does he want- to continue being the same ' lead a lazy existence with his doting wife and his gali ka dosts. Is that wrong? Don't know- but its his choice.

And inder ' the one person whom he has completely cheated is his first wife-kutumb but she forgives him. He must ve been a good father , for indira to be hurt the way she is , she must ve looked upto him . what does he want now? Peace . which will come if jhumpa s happy and she will be with some money.

And then theres vidith bhaiya whom none of us know except indira and rishi. So leav him out.

what im trying to say is that they will get some relief if they are financially stable.So whys indira not ready to sell the house ? if selling the house would bring some peace maybe they would all listen and respect her more. Maybe they would blow up the money but still there are practical ways of saving up money for ppl.

What appears as greed on the surface is actually necessity in my eyes.

Up for discussion if anyone s interested.

ok lets think that all the things whichu had mentioned are a necessity for them.
only dreaming to get rich is not enough there must be hard work too
nothing comes for free
if they want money they are other ways too apart from selling the house
if they put some efforts they can fulfill their dreams
but no they want everything instantly and for free
they dont want to work hard but just to spendthe money
howz tat possible


coming to sunaina if she want jewellary all that why dont she make her husband understand tat they cant always eat and enjoy on other income
cant she make her husband work and do savings in tat salary and fulfill her wishes
but no she wants her husband 2 sit in home and enjoy on his sister income
ok lets think munna is a gone case he cant change
she can be strict withhim like staying away from him though they are in same house,not talking with him,not let ishan to be with him.atleast there can be some change in him
ok leave abt her husband cant she work.like some tailoring or othr such works where she could earn for herself may be small but some income

coming 2 mandira is she a small kid ishaan tat she need indiras income for small things
cant she earn her pocket money by doing some part time jobs or if she cant go and work out atleast she could teach tutions for kids in her home.but no she want 2 enjoy,buy new clothes,cosmetics,rome with other guys on indiras income.she has guts2 run away with other guy but she dont have enough courage 2 dosome part work

coming 2 munna.why would he want 2 work. his mother thinks if he works he will get tired.and his lovely wife who forgets all the cheapt hings done by him and treat him likea king.orders pizza,sweets,all types of food,doesnt lethim do any work,he only knows 2 sleep,drink,eat and do chichorgiri
if his wife and mother where strict he would have been in right place
but no laadla joh hain

i feel just ashamed of a women like sunaina
seriously how can she stillbe with sucha person whoz irresponsible,shameless,robber,criminal and what not
still she treats him like god

indiras mother i dont even have words for her
suchpeople should rot in hell

Originally posted by: gorgeousmounika

ok lets think that all the things whichu had mentioned are a necessity for them.
only dreaming to get rich is not enough there must be hard work too
nothing comes for free
if they want money they are other ways too apart from selling the house
if they put some efforts they can fulfill their dreams
but no they want everything instantly and for free
they dont want to work hard but just to spendthe money
howz tat possible


coming to sunaina if she want jewellary all that why dont she make her husband understand tat they cant always eat and enjoy on other income
cant she make her husband work and do savings in tat salary and fulfill her wishes
but no she wants her husband 2 sit in home and enjoy on his sister income
ok lets think munna is a gone case he cant change
she can be strict withhim like staying away from him though they are in same house,not talking with him,not let ishan to be with him.atleast there can be some change in him
ok leave abt her husband cant she work.like some tailoring or othr such works where she could earn for herself may be small but some income

coming 2 mandira is she a small kid ishaan tat she need indiras income for small things
cant she earn her pocket money by doing some part time jobs or if she cant go and work out atleast she could teach tutions for kids in her home.but no she want 2 enjoy,buy new clothes,cosmetics,rome with other guys on indiras income.she has guts2 run away with other guy but she dont have enough courage 2 dosome part work

coming 2 munna.why would he want 2 work. his mother thinks if he works he will get tired.and his lovely wife who forgets all the cheapt hings done by him and treat him likea king.orders pizza,sweets,all types of food,doesnt lethim do any work,he only knows 2 sleep,drink,eat and do chichorgiri
if his wife and mother where strict he would have been in right place
but no laadla joh hain

i feel just ashamed of a women like sunaina
seriously how can she stillbe with sucha person whoz irresponsible,shameless,robber,criminal and what not
still she treats him like god

indiras mother i dont even have words for her
suchpeople should rot in hell

agree they can do all that but what im trying to say is if they want to sell a house which no one wants to earn money whats wrong in that?

is it worth keeping the whole family in difficulty when a solution is actually visible.
will it wrong for them to decide that we will sell this and live comfortably? if they do decide that, wont it be indira s stubborn ness that they will not be able to sell it.

thye can do lots of stuff but they want to sell he house which is of no interest to them.

long post 😆 ..

Well there are times when you need to take a hard decision in life.
Indira is emotionally attached to his house. As when have already seen in many episodes of Indira's childhood flashback with his father.
And she just wants her brother to come back to India and take the final decision about the property to sell or not. How can be she greedy. She is just doing her duty for her family.

Well there are times when you need to take a hard decision in life.
Indira is emotionally attached to his house. As when have already seen in many episodes of Indira's childhood flashback with his father.
And she just wants her brother to come back to India and take the final decision about the property to sell or not. How can be she greedy. She is just doing her duty for her family.
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no i didnt say she was greedy. only that the family s not greedy.

dont agree wid u .

let me clear it

1) kutumb : d point u said is not wrong .d way she worship her husband ,who ditchd her,left his responsibility,is stupidity but not her fault .we hate her bcz d way she trat indira .d way she never loves indira ,always ignore her hard work n contribution for family instead bring out neg things in her every positive deed though she is very aware of dat wid out her her family cant run .d way she thinks selfishly npot to get indira mrd bcz after dat dere would b no one to look after dem is anodr hatefull deed by her n d way she became ready to sell her doughter for money..I THINK ITS ENOUGH TO HATE HER .

sunaina: she is stupid .she had not done done anything dat much hatefull.

mandira: u wanna say flirting can b ignored as a bad quality as its common in young age!!! :O we should control our bad hbids,wrong desires thinking about or society n all na!!!! its ofcrs a bad quality .she loves to dress up its not her fault but d way she is demanding knowing her family is ofcrs bad .n i must say i hae her among all sharmas .bcz she does not have even mere feelings for any of her family member .kutumb,munna,sunaina no matter how selfish dey yr atleast have minimum care for oders but mandira behaves just like an outsider .she is more selfish among all .n dis z d big reason for hating her .


munna n inder : i think all hates dem .though i love munna bcz of his acting .n instea of being selfish i can see a caring nature inside her .like sunaina i find him stupid instead of hatefull.

very well said agree too all of u ..