Ahem & Bangles - Points to be noted

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Posted: 13 years ago
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With lots of speculation going on as to who would get the kangans and after reading so many posts regarding it, I have come to infallable conclusion that Gopi would end up having the second pair of kangans.

1. First of all when Ahem was in Koki's room and saw her happy cherishing the memories of kangans with Parag supporting her, he was touched with it and was pondering over something.

2. When he came to the kitchen, he was still thinking something when he asked Gopi to order those kangans.

3. On telling her to order two pairs, as noticed by everyone he saw the very well expected first shyness and then disappointment on knowing that the kangans were not for her.

4. But lastly, when he came to know that the kangans would be delayed by 2 more days, he went into analyzing and thinking mode once again.


My reasons in his support -

1. These days, he's more comfortable with Gopi than with Koki nowadays.
revealed by knocking at koki's door, Koki asking him "koi kaam hai kya" , etc.
2. He doesn't tell Koki about everything now.he doesn't reply to all that koki asks him about (eg. sleeping on sofa, razor cut, applying oil, etc.
3. He's very confident in whatever Gopi does. Turns to her for everything like asking for files, etc.
4. He's grown dependent on Gopi but after the kiss he has realized that he's also in love with her.
5. But one thing that he wants is to see if Gopi feels same for him. He's trying to analyze all her reactions and expressions before he does anything for her like when she rushed to get the ointment after he got razor cut, or when he saw her hand trembling while placing diyas back in plate, etc.
6. So, he wants to make her feel comfortable and not just rush into things so soon.
7. Whatever he said to Gopi that "Baa ne mom ko bangles diye to Jigar bhi Rashi ko bangles de dega"...it actually meant that he would also like to gist her bangles.
8. My only concern is with his ego. It is not letting him to open up for he's scared as well and doesn't want to feel rejection from Gopi so he's taking the backseat for a while now.
9. Only problem with the whole scenario is the delay in arrival of kangans. Had the kangans arrived on time, he would have easily asked mom to give one to Gopi as Jigar gave one to Rashi and Koki would have never minded that as she loves Gopi vau. And Ahem knows that and so he wants mom to give kangans to Gopi . That's the scenario we all would want - To Gopi have kangans...
10. But, 2 days delay means that
a. Koki would get upset and have so many misunderstandings.
b. Gopi would feel perplexed as to why maaji is not in good mood?
c. No direct conversation creating in even more misunderstanding.
d. Koki taunting Ahem indirectly for not bringing kangans for her, might be a possibility.
e. Ahem seeing her mom disturbed gives kangans to her rather than Gopi, only possibility.
f. Koki somehow realizing her mistake in reading Ahem's behaviour after sometime and feels that her son is not accepting his love for Gopi in front of everyone so finally thinks of sending him away to make him realize everything.
g. In case Koki doesn't accept kangans and gives them to Gopi as Rashi also got one, then also she won't know Ahem's real intentions, still sending him away...😆

So i guess i have not discussed in too much of detail...but as so much was written on it i thought to explain my pov. So i believe that Ahem bought second pair of kangans for Gopi only even if they land on her hand or not.

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Nilu.Dasuni thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What ever it is i want him to give some thing to Gopi too, which indicates how much he loves and caring for Gopi. It does'nt matter that he give some thing to Koki, but Gopi too well deserved that
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hmmm...Points r notable and have noticed .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well summarised without much confusion. But some how I want the bangles to go to Koki, not to Gopi since Koki thinks its for her and Gopi doesn't know what is in Ahem's mind. I want Ahem give some thing special and unique, not one of the two pieces, one of which will go to Rashi. Gopi is special, and so deserves special gift.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think he brought the second pair for gopi, but he wants koki to gift them to gopi, the same way baa gifted koki kangans, he may be feeling that koki is fond of her bangles because her MIL gave them to her when she newly wed, so he wants gopi to recieve bangles from her MIL, so she can cherish them.

Maybe according to him, the gesture is stronger when it is from MIL to DIL rather than from husband to wife
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Points well noted , and they make for a very sensible argument but I just need to point out that koki had given gopi kangans when she chose gopi for ahem and ahem know this ,as for creating attachment to bangals ,gopi already has an attachment to those kangans as she never takes them off.if he is thinking that those bangals are attached to bad memories for gopi ,then he is wrong nothing koki can gift gopi now will be more special than those kangans as gopi on that received a token of approval that she was good enough to be ahems wife by her mil. As a married woman u always treasure the gift ur inlaws give u when they accept u in their family.every marriage has ups and downs , that's life gopi accepts that so to her she is not gonna erase the first year of her marriage out her mind with a new set of kangans and I always thought ahem is intelligeny enough to understand that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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now when the news is out that Koki is upset with Ahem, then definitely, Ahem's love for Gopi can't be questioned😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As for me I do not think that ahem wAs intending to gift gopi ... It did not cross his mind until he saw her disappointed face ... so the bangle was not intended for her but if it finds way into her hands thru Komi then she will accept it... But if ahem gives it if t was rejected by Koki then she will not accept it and it would be great if she quotes his words of gifting and in her case accepting gifts from only those who love her... She may suggest him to give the bangles to kakiji... Ahem's face would be worth watching... It's high time he tastes his own medicine!!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ohhh sahraa I absolutely love ur idea , yes she must turn the tables on him ,show him she is not willing to accepts other ppls rejects.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post!! It is quite well reasoned... Just hope the creatives also come up with solid reasons for everything they show.

Thanks again for a lovely post.

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