Father's Love Vs Mother's Love

Friends

Its a long time since we had a good Discussion here in this section. So why not talk on general lines about the issue going on in Mamta?

As you all know, Mamta and Akshay are fighting in court for the custody of Krish. We now know that Akshay is the best father Krish can get. We also know that Mamta has gone thro' depressing times only for Krish's well being... In this situation, the court decisiob will now turn out to be a shocker for either Mamta or Akshay... Krish is sure to lose either father's love or mother's love. He can never get their love at the same time, as of now...

With this situation in the background, i would like to start a general topic here for discussion... What do you think about Mother's love and Father's love? Do you all think that mothers love their kids more than the fathers? Is this right? Or is it that fathers do not know how to show out their love and affection they have towards kids, and this is where the mothers score better? What do you all feel about this?

Friends, please come out with your thoughts on this.... It will be really nice to get your points on this issue.... I would like you all to analyse this point on general lines, and conclude it by speaking about Mamta and Akshay's love for Krish... What do you think about their affection for Krish?

Friends start thinking...

Sree

This is a very debatable topic.

As a mother myself, I can tell that all parents love their kids but their degree and thinking differs. But that does not necessarily mean that mothers love more than fathers.
Mothers tend to go by their heart and fathers by mind.

I would want all the kids to grow with their parents as a single parent cannot be both.

Now in case of Krish, both are very good parents, love Krish very much and for the sake of Krish, I want Akshay and Mamata to come together. 😃
But if that is not possible, then they should stop being so childish and acept the fact that Krish loves and needs both of them and make sure that he gets time to spend with both of them instead of fighting with each other.

Smitha

this is a very interesting topic, as its really close to my heart... my parents are divorced, and i know exactly what krish might go thru in a couple years, when he relizes that his parents have split up... one cant compair a father's love and a mother's love... a mother, has the natural insticts of her child, b/c the child has been in her, and the father can only try to be as responsible as the mother, its about who can perform better duties towards the child, rahter than who loves the child more.. love cant be more or less, its just "love"...

This is a very interesting topic.

A father's love for their child is no less than a mother's love. However, I do feel the bond between a mother and their child is much deeper than that of a father and their child.

Krrish deserves to be loved by both parents, and he is. This entire battle is due to Akshay being selfish, he is robbing Krrish of his mother's love by being selfish and foolish believing Mamta is a golddigger who is no good for Krrish. Krrish has a strong bond to Mamta and without her, his life is incomplete. Akshay should stop being so stubborn and blind and realize that Krrish needs both his parents!

Krish need both Akshay's and Mamtha's love.. More he needs mamtha's love and care.. For long time Akshay was giving him watever he could do.. but krish missed his mom's love. Nowtat Tanisha is there too mamtha should get krish now.. else she vil try to harm him

Great topic.

Personally I think that a mother's bond with a child is far deeper than a father's. From conception, until birth, the mother carries the child for 9 months in her womb. Even before birth, a bond is forged between mother and child, and that bond is everlasting. I also think that a mother's love is unconditional, mothers are able to be strong and harsh with their kids, but also forgiving and supportive when their child errs. Fathers tend to be more indulgent, showing their love by providing for their families, rather than showing affection. (I am speaking from personal observations, and not generalising).

In this case, I think Krish is desperately in need of a mother. The way he responded to Mamta, and within such a short space of time recognised her as him mom, shows what a strong bond they have. Akshay was completely wrong to deny Mamta access to Krish. Akshay can try as much as he can, but cannot replace Mamta in his son's life. Dadi, Damyanti and Shaina have all tried to ease the loss of Mamta in Krish's life but they are all unsuccessful. I think that even as bad as a woman can be, she will always love her child, and Akshay should have recognised this. I hope he really repents when he finds out the truth.