should sandhya's parent be somewhat blamed?

i dont know the answer to this question but it just came through my mind last night. should we blame sandhya's parents for not teaching her any household work- not even making a proper tea????? they did taught her good values, morals, and left no stone uncover to give her the best education as possible, which is a very good thing and every parents should encourage their children to pursue their dreams. BUT my question is that did they think that sandhya will only become an IPS officer and remain and IPS officer all her life?? did they not think of her becoming some1's wife, DIL?? wont she have any responsibilities towards her household works??? remember when babasa told bhabho that even they are educating chavi so what if sandhya is educated and then bhabho replied that chavi is studying but i've taught her work too so she doesnt have to struggle at her in-laws (think from bhabho's point of view (even if chavi doesnt know any work lol)) we're living in a society where when a DIL comes to her sasural she is expected to look after her husband and handle the whole house and its chores with mind and pace. ofcourse there are ladies who work outside but they also handle their house and family. they have to balance it out. even if sandhya's parents thought of her being married to some judge, or engineer, doctor etc she would be expected to cook or atleast serve them with a nice tea in the morning. im sure sandhya would not be a kaamchor like chavi but shouldnt her parents have focused on her doing household chores as well as studying i mean lots of us girls do that dont we???? or sandhya kept on studying for 24 hours everyday. there is no right or wrong answer to this question but i only want to know what do you guys think. are sandhya's parents to be blamed about this or not? be polite and plz consider all the sides of the coin(situation) when answering. thank you😊

I agree with your pov to some extent. But when you are young and in school or college, where is the time to really learn? Between homework, exams, tuitions and other activities how can a girl study and learn good homemaking skills??

No Sandhyas parent did the right thing by giving her education. I do believe if you have good education you can learn anything in this world . Learning how to cook is a piece of cake. I never lifted a glass of water before marriage but within month or two I became a very good cook. Becoming a pro at cooking was full six months. Whereas if you dont study at an early age then study becomes tough later in life. Today if both the spouses are working then household work is for both not just wife. Those days are gone where wife would sit at home and husband will work outside.

No Blame for Sandhya's parents...In Fact all credit goes to them for raising a kid to such nice, wise, down to earth and sensitive human being...

Isn't Sandhya only 18 or so?

No blame on Sandhya's parents. Sandhya is still young and in her student phase and academic education is the main aim at her age. Cooking and household chores can be learnt at any time but education has an age limit (I am excluding adult education here).

Bhabho is totally wrong in my POV. What has she taught chavvi? Has she ever seen Chavvi doing any housework properly? She is lazier than Meena and grumbling when asked to do work. On top of that, a big liar and manipulator who has no interest in studies nor has she learnt anything from her studies so far. Bhabho is annoying when she boasts on her parenting skills.

like everyone cannot be a doctor or engineer, everyone cannot learn to cook...some ppl. can be really good cooks, even if they didn't learn cooking at an early age but not all...in my opinion, parents must teach their children (not girls in particular) some basic house work so that they don't struggle later..that much is taught in the schools also...it's good not to be dependent on someone else for your work...what if the servant goes on holiday? for how long can one eat outside? for how long will the house remain dirty? in our school we had craft classes, cookery classes which turned out to be useful to me...i never entered the kitchen before marriage but now i do everything on my own bec. after a day of hardwork, i want to have good food which my servant cannot cook

Cooking or making tea isnt a big deal... what matters is education.. my pov

Partly yes and no ... No denying they gave her lifes best gift, education , where she can be independent when time asks for , gave her good values , how to respect elder and yet hold ur ground ,