Originally posted by: Luv4games
it is not over reacting it is very natural...some mothers are very strong and know how hide their nervousness but some cant...rj loves akshara alot..the little thing that happens she worries so of course that much pain she will feel bad...i dont have a baby but i do get really bad period cramps and i cant handle it...and everyone says labor is 100 times worst than that and rj went through that so of course she wont want her daughter to go through it...it is mothers concern...when my cousin was having her first baby she obviously only wanted her mom with her and my aunt kept fainting because she couldnt see her daughter in that much pain...yes akshara is not the first person to have a baby but that is the first time she is having a baby...and it doesnt matter that everyone goes trough that is not going to make the pain any less...everyone has different pain threshold...rj just did what every mother would do...her main concern is her daughter...nobody is going to understand or feel her pain as much as rj...plus every mother is different...i had an upper-endoscopy few months ago and my mom couldnt sleep the week before that and her blood pressure was so high...when i was in the procedure she was just praying and crying...on the other hand my friend had the same procedure after and her mom didnt care and didnt even go to the clinic with her...so just because one mother doesnt get hyper or show concern doesnt mean somebody elses should also act like that...