RJ is over reacting!

Ritu

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Posted: 13 years ago

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She is so irritating. In real life so many woman give birth I agree that its painful but RJ takes it to the next level. What was the need to hide in the bathroom? She didn't do that when Varsha was giving birth. RJ seriously needs to come back down to earth.

Even when my elder sister was giving birth my mom didn't react the way RJ is reacting. RJ is just too much at times. I agree that she can be worried as a mother but this much?

Is it right? 😕

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Posted: 13 years ago

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its mothers like this that scare daughters into having c sec
instead of relaxing her this lady

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Agreed with u feeb. Seeing RJ nervous Akshara will feel even more nervous.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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it is not over reacting it is very natural...some mothers are very strong and know how hide their nervousness but some cant...rj loves akshara alot..the little thing that happens she worries so of course that much pain she will feel bad...i dont have a baby but i do get really bad period cramps and i cant handle it...and everyone says labor is 100 times worst than that and rj went through that so of course she wont want her daughter to go through it...it is mothers concern...when my cousin was having her first baby she obviously only wanted her mom with her and my aunt kept fainting because she couldnt see her daughter in that much pain...yes akshara is not the first person to have a baby but that is the first time she is having a baby...and it doesnt matter that everyone goes trough that is not going to make the pain any less...everyone has different pain threshold...rj just did what every mother would do...her main concern is her daughter...nobody is going to understand or feel her pain as much as rj...plus every mother is different...i had an upper-endoscopy few months ago and my mom couldnt sleep the week before that and her blood pressure was so high...when i was in the procedure she was just praying and crying...on the other hand my friend had the same procedure after and her mom didnt care and didnt even go to the clinic with her...so just because one mother doesnt get hyper or show concern doesnt mean somebody elses should also act like that...

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it is not over reacting it is very natural...some mothers are very strong and know how hide their nervousness but some cant...rj loves akshara alot..the little thing that happens she worries so of course that much pain she will feel bad...i dont have a baby but i do get really bad period cramps and i cant handle it...and everyone says labor is 100 times worst than that and rj went through that so of course she wont want her daughter to go through it...it is mothers concern...when my cousin was having her first baby she obviously only wanted her mom with her and my aunt kept fainting because she couldnt see her daughter in that much pain...yes akshara is not the first person to have a baby but that is the first time she is having a baby...and it doesnt matter that everyone goes trough that is not going to make the pain any less...everyone has different pain threshold...rj just did what every mother would do...her main concern is her daughter...nobody is going to understand or feel her pain as much as rj...plus every mother is different...i had an upper-endoscopy few months ago and my mom couldnt sleep the week before that and her blood pressure was so high...when i was in the procedure she was just praying and crying...on the other hand my friend had the same procedure after and her mom didnt care and didnt even go to the clinic with her...so just because one mother doesnt get hyper or show concern doesnt mean somebody elses should also act like that...
[You spoke very well, and now i can understand the situation better]

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Luv4games
it is not over reacting it is very natural...some mothers are very strong and know how hide their nervousness but some cant...rj loves akshara alot..the little thing that happens she worries so of course that much pain she will feel bad...i dont have a baby but i do get really bad period cramps and i cant handle it...and everyone says labor is 100 times worst than that and rj went through that so of course she wont want her daughter to go through it...it is mothers concern...when my cousin was having her first baby she obviously only wanted her mom with her and my aunt kept fainting because she couldnt see her daughter in that much pain...yes akshara is not the first person to have a baby but that is the first time she is having a baby...and it doesnt matter that everyone goes trough that is not going to make the pain any less...everyone has different pain threshold...rj just did what every mother would do...her main concern is her daughter...nobody is going to understand or feel her pain as much as rj...plus every mother is different...i had an upper-endoscopy few months ago and my mom couldnt sleep the week before that and her blood pressure was so high...when i was in the procedure she was just praying and crying...on the other hand my friend had the same procedure after and her mom didnt care and didnt even go to the clinic with her...so just because one mother doesnt get hyper or show concern doesnt mean somebody elses should also act like that...

motherly concern is alright but she cud have requested the doctor to stay back with akshara instead of hiding in the bathroom 😆 what purpose will it solve ? it's not a big deal that more than one person can be with the lady in labour..my whole family was there with me...i remember during my first baby, my MIL got upset that i called my mother (who was 225 kms away in Delhi) n told her that i'm going to the hospital...bec. someone told her that mothers should not be there with their daughters at this time bec. they overreact and faint n what not...toh 2nd time i didn't tell my mother till my baby was delivered 😆 my mil kept asking me wherez ur mother ? coz she had to do everything alone 😆

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Originally posted by: _charu_

motherly concern is alright but she cud have requested the doctor to stay back with akshara instead of hiding in the bathroom 😆 what purpose will it solve ? it's not a big deal that more than one person can be with the lady in labour..my whole family was there with me...i remember during my first baby, my MIL got upset that i called my mother (who was 225 kms away in Delhi) n told her that i'm going to the hospital...bec. someone told her that mothers should not be there with their daughters at this time bec. they overreact and faint n what not...toh 2nd time i didn't tell my mother till my baby was delivered 😆 my mil kept asking me wherez ur mother ? coz she had to do everything alone 😆

😆 MTLs ka prob exactly hota kya hai?? 😕 😆
n u r frm Delhi kya?? 😃 😃 😃

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Posted: 13 years ago

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When has RJ not over reacted in this serial... Since the day 1 she makes a mountain of a mole hill... Its labor pains for heaven's sake...and its pregnancy ...every woman whos pregnant has to go through the pain... CV's and dialogues for her...main uski maa hu...mein nahi dekh sakthi... in real world..no one cries when your daughter is in labor...ofcourse you are anxious, the entire family will be anxious...but RJ is RJ..she has to overreact!! acts like its her birth right!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: divi4u

😆 MTLs ka prob exactly hota kya hai?? 😕 😆
n u r frm Delhi kya?? 😃 😃 😃

yes Divi, my parents r frm Delhi..

MIL's ki koi problem nahi hoti, sirf insecurity hoti hai ke mere bete ko koi cheen na le 😈 my son listens to his wife , not me, my son will favor his in laws not me, my son will go n start living with them 😆 may be if i had a son , i also feel the same way mothers will not change and mil's will also not change..may be they have their reasons...

all said n done, it's gayitri's right also to stay with akshara and rajshri's also...gayitri ne band baja ke rakhne hai hospital walon ka n rajshri will provide the necessary drama and emotions with meri bachi 🤢

Edited by _charu_ - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: _charu_

yes Divi, my parents r frm Delhi..

MIL's ki koi problem nahi hoti, sirf insecurity hoti hai ke mere bete ko koi cheen na le 😈 my son listens to his wife , not me, my son will favor his in laws not me, my son will go n start living with them 😆 may be if i had a son , i also feel the same way mothers will not change and mil's will also not change..may be they have their reasons...

all said n done, it's gayitri's right also to stay with akshara and rajshri's also...gayitri ne band baja ke rakhne hai hospital walon ka n rajshri will provide the necessary drama and emotions with meri bachi 🤢

God di.. dis RJ is too damn irritating.. 🤢 kal kya mast scene kia usne.. 🤣 bathroom mei chup gayi?? 😲 😆 mana u care for ur daughter.. but uske sasural walon ka bhi socho.. kitna MU ho sakta hai bcoz of all dis.??

whr do they stay in Delhi??

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