If Sandhya becomes police officer

If Sandhya becomes police officer and a case like Sandhya's come to her with a more assertive protaganist, what will Sandhya do?

Will police officer Sandhya ask the poor wife to bear the abuses and carry on being a good bahu?
What will be her stance when abuse by in laws are being reported?

Will she be able to do justice to battered women at all?

Becoming IPS officer is not like scoring 100 percent in maths. It is a post which requires authority and impartiality.

That is an excellent point. To be an IPS officer she will need to have a personality like Kiran Bedi.

I think Rightnow was not talking about the eligible criteria but the mind set and personality required for being a police officer.

That is an excellent point... To be an IPS officer she has 2 b strong...bt hear is no dailougs 4 sandhya and she alwayes looking so weak front of evrybody even front of chawi who is younger 2 sandhya

Originally posted by: nosi

That is an excellent point... To be an IPS officer she has 2 b strong...bt hear is no dailougs 4 sandhya and she alwayes looking so weak front of evrybody even front of chawi who is younger 2 sandhya

Originally posted by: Avidfan

I think Rightnow was not talking about the eligible criteria but the mind set and personality required for being a police officer.

Eaxactly is my point. Who will decide this mind set and personality reqd for IPS? Governembt doesnt specify any. If u r eligible and can work honestly thats it.

Its like if someone is not a nerd or not gluing to computers...one can say ohh he is not having personality of becoming comp. engg. Its wrong, he can ...

If you see in the earlier episodes Sandhya is shown to stand up to any form of injustice or wrong doing eg. chasing the thief, standing up to the traffic warden, the banana skin incident.

Even at home she stood up to prevent Meena from being beaten up and supported Mohit.

I Agreed 100% I have seen all these episodes at least twice if not more. And that is why I am 100% sure that this girl deserves IPS officer position.

So what Rightnow was saying is that instead of weeping and simpering, she should stand up to Bhabo and explain in a assertive but nice way.

Totally agree 100% , She has to be strong in house ...but it doesnt relate to her drem of becoming IPS officer. Ur profession doesnt require how u behave at home. I have seen senior managers successful in their profession , taking gr8 decisions and profiting companies.If u go to ther home they behave like Babasa in front of wife🤣 shall we then say ohh this guy will never make it to a CEO???

Bhabho is a bully and the golden rule is never to bow down to bullies.

Again 100% agree , but do not forget that she is 19 years old and no exp of handling this or support at all. She will def do it but give her some time...its been just 2-3 months she is in this house...I have read news here that gals/boys of same age do suicides when get bullied...I am thankful that she never thought abt yet and secided to fight...She will def win this battle against Babho...But will take time...She is on self learning path...

It is not about respect- a mother in law deserves that but not when she is a bully. As Preeti said, she has no right to attack some one's self respect.

Agreed.

This is good point, I must say. Bhabho's nuisance is Sandhya's personal problem. She would definitely have taken action if she was harassed or physically abused. Neither the Rathi family would do that nor would Sandy tolerate it just like when she can't stand Meena being beaten up by Vikram.

Like your questions!! Sandhya is now tolerating such because she is mentally with them!! Even though she was forced into the relationship,she too wants to live her life!!She is emotionally attached to them!!

Sandhya as a doormat bahu or a spirited bahu? A spirited daughter wont tolerate if her mother unnecessarily bosses over her.

Here I am talking about Sandhya the police officer. If cases like saas bahu comes to her, will she try to proceed like a police officer or act like a counsellor?

Suraj's goodness is what is making Sandhya to become doormat.

Bhabho is not plain bossy. She tries to hurt others by snide remarks and not listening to them.

This coconut shell should be broken so that the tender part of it is visible.