Touching each other is okay?

The thought of starting a thread about the lack of accountability and logic in the show was somewhat daunting to me – I was shot down from a dizzy height when I expressed my opinion with my "What's so attractive about Ram anyway" thread. I have previously raised the issue of Ram's character being represented very inadequately, as he is intended to be a refined, sophisticated billionaire with a commanding persona, who has the admiration and respect of businessman all over the globe. This may indeed be the case however, it is completely understandable that he has difficulty interacting with women owing to the unfortunate circumstances of his upbringing which has had an adverse influence on his impression of women outside his family. In addition, this has also inadvertently resulted in him lacking confidence in attempting relationships with potential partners. Having married Priya based on compromise, Ram is certainly fortunate that she is attractive, intelligent and understanding. He may not necessarily be young and hot-blooded to take advantage of this, but he is undeniably mature, considerate and indulgent as a person. He needs to surrender his thoughts of a compromised marriage and pay attention to this slight attraction that he has for Priya and allow it to blossom. There is nothing wrong in acknowledging that Priya can provide more than just friendship, and seeing that she is his wife, physical contact may not be such a bad idea to develop this further. A slight touch of hands or an emotional hug is okay, and should not be considered unacceptable. Somewhere in his mind, Ram has started believing Vikram that Priya's feelings may have grown towards her husband. Ram must stop his unrealistic behaviour that is inappropriate and unbecoming of a refined businessman and should focus on acknowledging that life has given him a reasonable shot at making his dreams of having a family come true. Priya's character, on the other hand does need to be shown as somewhat more classy and elegant, as well as having more self-respect and pride. She needs to exercise reservation with her little outbursts and come across slightly more politely instead of indulging in a shouting match. However, it was indeed a visual feast yesterday to see Priya touch Ram voluntarily with so much hidden emotion.

Having said this, I still strongly believe that BALH is certainly a fantastic show, given the misfortune of some regrettable tracks by the CVs. It is also unfair to constantly compare the show to the recent spate of Saas-Bahu shows, as both concepts are very different. Although BALH has great potential, the CVs should not use this conceptual difference as a platform to cast a net and not tie up the loose ends. We may enjoy the special moments between Ram and Priya, but it does not present as a reason to forget that the rest of the storyline still does exist and cannot vanish into nothingness. As always, my admiration for Sakshi and Ram as actors is undoubtedly unparalleled.

hmm first it is an open forum and you can share your views whatever they may be, however i guess it all depends on how the view is put across, i dnt rememeber your post but i do remember that some posts could have been worded better ( this is just a genral comment) 😊