BV - Jan 16th 2012 - Written Update - Page 2

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Saw new promo,the matter has been taken pachayat,anandi has to choose between the two,basant is confident dat anandi wil be on his side,A is in tension n sumitra tells A to resign frm being sarpanch.i think A wil take that other party side due to which there wil be big fight thats when ds is goin to return.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I do not understand how Gehna's leaving will be possible with all this fighting!?


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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have always disliked Anandi jumping in someone else's discussion with her own opinion on everything. When Bhairon is already talking to his elder brother who is already quite agitated - why shud A jump in ? Even earlier when DS wud be saying something, A had a habit of being irritatingly outspoken with her own opinion and then trying to show that she respects her elders. This is not how one behaves with elders...sorry !!

And here, knowing what she does, if she chooses to take sides in the panchayat - its going to be a surefire disaster. Her lecturebaazi even in the past, has been most SMUG n irritating and CV's trashing Gehna is so so so wrong 🤢. Why can't they just have the Haveli acquire land in another vilage and send Basant n family over to manage that property i/o breaking them up like this ?

This is a classic case of over sympathy. Gehna accommodated Anandi in so many ways - coz A was sad n needed to feel useful and G so often let A take care of Nandu, his lunch, his homeowrk even his bedtime stories - but did Anandi ever realize this ? G must feel - the more I give the more she takes - to hell with it - this is my kid and my decision on how I take care of his playground disputes.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This is done to change the haveli atmosphere,how long that sweet atmosphere wud work!now sooner things are goin to change for A.Everytime everyone wil suport anandi o wat!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes - that must be it. Maybe in the thick of the mess, these two sisters will arrive and take things back in control. Also, maybe then - DS can become the Sarpanch. Anandi is as such too young to sermonize and she ends up offending people with her - holier-than-thou attitude.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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So far I was just responding on the basis of the write-up n everybody's take on it. But I just saw the whole episode and this is what I think

- Nandu was being a naughty kid

- That kid's mom got way too offensive. You canNOT touch another child EVER !

- Basant n Gehna needed to go to that kid's house to have a talk if Nandu was hurt enough to need a plaster.

- Gehna kept insisting true to character - that it was a kids' fight and shud have stayed that way. How dare the mom touch another child ! And not just touch - push with force - enuf to maybe break his hand ??

- Basant did not just get enraged right off the bat - that other couple did not behave the least bit apologetic about the much more serious injury they as adults caused to another child.

- When they reached home - Bhairon was quite mild and concerned but in such a situation - it was understandable for B&G to be still a little heated up. BUT Anandi never even offered those 2 a glass of water and instead offered a FREE LECTURE on why they shudn't hv created a scene in front of Nandu while she HERSELF WAS DOING JUST THE SAME !!

The only person who had any right to really solicit any advice was Sumitra. After all - she has raised two kids and knows what kid fights can be all about. She kept quiet and Anandi who has no experience of that kind - jumped in with all guns blazing and even suggested Nandu might be wrong in the 5 minutes they had been home ??
If she had any brains - she'd have waited atleast a couple of hours to gently enquire of Nandu what happened and/or suggest to Gehna that N may just be not that innocent.

Even now in the promo - I see Sumitra sensibly suggesting to Anandi to step down from this case as she can see this may just be the undoing of the unity of this family. But knowing Madam Anandi, she will claim to uphold the trust deposited in her and will do "justice" and destroy the peace in this house !! Uff !!!

Anyways - am very glad that Gehna is staying true to her character 👍🏼. It was looking she's gone bonkers but all she's done so far - is behave like a mother hen which she has full right to be 😊. And am SUPER glad she told Anandi to back off. "Nandu is her kid and doesn't need another mom" - loud n clear message sent out 😆

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anandi was out of line in this case.
no doubt

But gehna was also insensitive. I guess its understandable in the light of the situation.
Edited by Suchi-NivReniac - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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actually gehna was not bad as some posts here sounds , she sounded very reasonable, it was basant who had that extreme reaction.
bv is not making any sense now, they just wanna create unnecessasry drama

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