Does profesnl success compensate for personal loss - Page 14

Originally posted by: parri814

Knowing the evils of child marriage why would she want to feel accepted and validated by Singh's A's compensation for the accompanying trauma associated with the nullifying of her child marriage. Why can't she view the child marriage and trauma as a poison that has been removed in order to save her childhood from the life of a child bride?

Originally posted by: parri814

Tinoo,

Looking purely at the topic from an Anandi point of view A's opposed to a Gauri point of view and judging from today's episode with Anandi's speech to the panchayat members:

Doesn't it indicate that she feels unfullfilled professionally despite the recent successes she counted off for everyone because of her personal loss. In her tirade, one cannot help but feel for her because she is lonely. She needs someone to lean on, she looks for support, she also yearns for that confidant that she so recently lost. What is success, if you don't have someone to share it with? From that POV, Gauri is the luckier of the two and she does not even value it.

Originally posted by: hooked

Good observation Parri !

It is true - watching a beautiful movie or reading a good book is half the fun if u can't talk to a special someone about it. And the same with Anandi. Sha has no one to share her joys with and to lean on when she is feeling alone.

Gauri has her parents right there and her work and a loving husband and his baby in her. Despite all this - she can only see the part that J's family don't adore her as much.One wonders - is this what's called half-empty ?

Anandi has J's family and she's glad about it, but she is so very alone in herself ! and despite this she bravely puts on a smile and greets each new day with all her will power to see if she can do something good for someone today.

Have never seen Anandi crib about - "am so tired I can barely stand and u can't even offer me water ?".

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Why is gauri expected to behave like anandi?if A doesnt ask for glas of water then g too should do the same,y is person is expected to behave in a certain way.she feels that just becoz they r rich they have put a keemat for unforgivable act they have done with them becoz they have always shown to be feelingles ,emotionles when it comes to g.like tinno said if u cant fulfil the original contract then y bother.if u dint want us to know then why brought us into a situation where we came to know n feel burdened abt debt.g never takes anyone money,its j who uses A money.

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Well, we always expect every1 to behave sensibly don't we? In this case, it IS Anandi who is sensible & Gauri who is not...then why is it wrong???

The glass incident was just an example dude!!! Don't take it literally. What she meant to say is that Gauri doesn't try to seek satisfaction in what she HAS...she keeps running after what she feels she SHOULD HAVE got! On the other hand, Anandi tries to improve her life keeping in mind wheatever she is left with

Originally posted by: tanvismile

see from anandi s angle gauri has everything but in reality or from gauri s angle is that enough?

Originally posted by: tanvismile

i feel this is best period of anandi s life and she should enjoy it to the fullest.this is bright phase of anandi s life and dark phase of gauri s life.