Gauri's Perception of a Good Life Partner..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Due to the ongoing challenge between Sumitra & Gauri...we are getting to see Gauri's understanding of a good life partner...and the one word which comes to my mind is -ROMANCE. I guess trust,mutual understanding, sharing of views & decisions and transparency in a relationship does'nt figure out in her list !!!...She certainly doesn't have any inkling about what makes a good relationship with a life partner... Either she refrains herself from shouting at Jagat or she tries to divert his attention from the problems by trying to woo him...or Romancing him just for proving herself as a good wife...and I think that this might be a catalyst in jeopardizing her relationship with Jagat further as she is sitting on a time bomb waiting to explode anytime!!!!!...with no idea about the extent of damage to her relationship when it sets off!!!!...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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such fake relations never last only loyalty trust confidence honesty are the pillars of any marriage and such nonsense is appreciated by a spineless man jagat surely though sumitra anandi r far in jetsar but her scare is haunting her so cheater r aalways at verge to drown 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very good observation👍🏼..yes i think sooo..Gauri doesn't know the meaning of love, trust..Jaggya too is like her only!!..they hide so many things from each other..they don't trust each other..do they have any respect for each other?..any understanding?..😕
only thing they r doing in the name of marriage is..staying together and romance!..😕 yes romance is required in a happy marriage life..but it can not be the base of a happy marriage life!!..the base of a happy marriage or any kind of relationship is..trust!!..and also care, understandings, securities, sacrifices etc make the bonding strong..🤔
i don't know what kind of woman Gauri is😕..i think she never thought of these things before marrying jaggya!..her only concern was the attraction they have for each other..she didn't care for her own securities too.."security" is the first thought comes into a normal gal's mind..whether that guys is trust worthy or not, whether that guy has a good job or not, family support is there or not..but gauri didn't care for any of these things..it shows that how much immature she is!!..🤔
and sumitra was right that J-G realtion will break soon..(i hope this line is fine now😛)..i think this kind of relation which is only based on romance..can't sustain for a long time..
there is no need of any other 3rd party's interference between them..Gauri alone is enough to break their relationship!..
Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@monamie111 i agree wid u!👏👏basis of any relationship is trust,respect & understanding from both sides but in J& G's case theres not an iota of these 3 components!!

and G also doesn't luv J bcoz this step of hers has proved it!! and its also proved that she married J only bcoz of the attraction btn them which they thot as luv!!and thay don't know the meaning of luv leave alone true luv!!and i agree taht G alone"ll b responsible 4 the breaking of her so-called marriage watever its remained!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@monamie,
did Sumitra say that? that there is no need for a 3rd party?
you will ruin your own relationship?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

@monamie,

did Sumitra say that? that there is no need for a 3rd party?
you will ruin your own relationship?


LOL..no Suchi..i think she just told that "zadya din nehi tike ga"..something like that..and J will come back to me!!..
i just tried to say that Sumitra was right!..zadya din nehi tikega..😛..will edit the post!!..solly!..😳
Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think jagat likes such surprises ,it is very important to have such sweet dates to maintain a healthy relationship,to have happy atmosphere,till date i dont think she kept anything secret from him ,but this time what has hapend is its about the family ,any individual is more sensitive about the family ,even if our family is wrong ,we cant bear anything wrong or bad against them.so thats it ,if u see sumitra s challenge,with gauri ,so automaticaly jagat should come to sumitra ,but if sumitra or any person tells jagat that so and so things hapend then it is unfair.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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am really not happy wiht the way they have shaped up Gs character... she was such a bubbly sweet and honest girl to start with.. she stood for anandi when anandi came to mumbai... she had strong decisions which were born from ideologies and not selfishness or opportunism... she was the kind of "girl power" we hardly see in the serials... but now!! how they have twisted her into! sad! really sad!

coming back to the topic... i guess i must agree with the person above... any marriage needs some cozy moments to spice it up... to keep the spark alive... of course, - trust, understanding, care and all are important... but a lil bit of sweetness is needed too... as time passes by, that is something which dies off... ppl tend to take one another for granted... good initiative there G... i liked it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I too agree with TM. Of course romance, sweetness, surprises are needed in every relationship but a relationship can't last only on romance. Love doesn't mean romance only! Trust, understanding, respect are absolutely needed. I don't see these two having either of those three. And from what all has been shown, G has never thought of these things.

I too agree with Sumitra that their relationship won't last long.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, G is neither thinking nor she is worried abt trust and understanding...she is only thinking of the FEAR, the fear of loosing d challenge as well as J...so now J is a trophy to her which she wants to win...n she has considered romance as d best WEAPON to win her challenge...but actually she is digging her own grave where she wil fall one day...

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